If dating apps aren’t working for you, what do you do to search for your significant other?

[Anonymous]

When dating apps aren’t working

When dating apps aren’t working guy version

[Anemone978]

I don't search... there literally is nothing I want rn... mind you I do get some dudes hitting me up randomly they tend to be pretty hot as well... but I been talking to this one guy on insta and he seems really good has money, wants a family, excepts me and my flaws and I except his so I will see where this goes... He found me I don't know how... he said he is sending me a gift so I will wait and see what it is LOL

[itsalyssaagain]

I deleted them all and I feel BEYOND relieved.


Dating apps are the worst things to exist for women. Suddenly our value is condensed into a swipe.


And for some reason, a lot of guys think having a dating app profile is a Green ticket to make disgusting uncalled for comments (that they would never say to your face in real life) or ghost you.

[Rosexøxø]

Best to you!

[Rosexøxø]

Hm I posted an answer and this was I think a comment for my answer but now my answer is nowhere to be seen 😂😭 my mistake if my comment weirded you out

[itsalyssaagain]

Lol not at all no worries

[LiamJHayden]

Meet in real life. I live at the beach so during warm months that part is easy. Otherwise just go and have fun doing things you enjoy where you might meet someone. Concerts, museums, parks, whatever. Join a ballroom dance class. Or a painting class. Use your imagination.

[Avicenna]

Go to social events, talk to people, meet people through friends and family

[Anonymous]

Girls nowadays are looking for a good looking, tall, 6 figure salary guy. I don't give a fuck what any girl on here says, that's what y'all look for online for these dating apps. Now some female is going to read this and say, ohhh look another angry incel angry at females. I actually don't hate females that way, I don't respect females nowadays for their decision making. Losing respect for someone is different than hating someone, that's what girls don't get. When girls and women whine and complain that how men treated her, I've lost count how many times I've wasted on GAG, Yahoo Answers, Reddit, MSN messenger, Facebook and even talking on the phone to console girls with a hurt past. I think feminists are demented and normalize femcel behaviour, a lot of women won't be happy 20-30 years from now for their poor choices they made and they have to deal with their actions and consequences.

[Pinay_ako]

I go out there and live life

[DermalPunch]

Best answer.

[Pinay_ako]

@DermalPunch thanks 🙏

[msc545]

I sit on the beach and surf, play my guitar, and read. Sometimes people come by and we talk. That is about it really. Very lonely but also I get to see great sunsets.

[msc545]

I've made a few friends this way but never met any romantic interests, and I have been doing this for a long time. I don't think women find me attractive.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Nothing beats nutting up and facing women in person, in the real world, and not from behind a screen and keyboard. The more rejections, the more time to evaluate your mistakes.

[boombastik]

We have to go old school and get out in public and actually talk to someone in the flesh. Such a great feeling exchanging emotions and being able to touch them.

[EricSummer]

Sports, especially dancing classes, language exchange meetings, karaoke, pub quiz night.

[shades777]

All the methods that were used before dating appa existed.
In person experience is superior to any form of getting to know a person.


All you got to do is live your life

[Jazzy54]

I’m old fashioned. I like to meet someone in person. 😊

[Reorx]

I stopped making that a priority & switched to becomming the best version of myself. I'm not of a frivolous mindset, marriage minded but in no rush.

[juene]

Following this post of yours to get some ideas. Dating apps never worked for me.

[Anonymous]

Go to local bars, flirt with toxic woman so I can meet their friends who might make good partners.

[Ms_Facesitter]

The same plus other methods, sites, friends, going out and meeting new people.

[Anonymous]

Focus on work and forget about love

This work has made me jaded and conceited like a bitter old divorcee

[Guanfei]

I just give up and realize no one will ever want me.

[cardaka]

Instead of searching, I leave it to time and I think that I have found the right person every time and I am wrong.

[JustMeL120]

Speed dating meetings.

[sheikalana]

Go out. Put yourself out there.

[mommymommymommy]

Dating apps are scams. DO NOT USE THEM

[Smashingdoozy]

Absolutely nothing.

[slightlydelusional]

go outside

[Jamie05rhs]

No clue.

[whistlingwh0res]

Shit. com

[Anonymous]

At work tbh