What would u do if a girl blocked u for being frugal on a date?

[Lookingforthetruth]

Girl goes on a date with guy she met off hinge. At the start of the video, she says that the guy was ok looking but was really nice to her during the whole date. At the restaurant, the girl ordered, grilled Branzino fish (50 USD/pound) for herself while the guy ordered a burger. The waitress then asked if he would like cheese on his burger and the guy declines when he found out it would cost an additional 3 dollars. Girl is bewildered by him making a big deal out of 3 dollars and immediately loses "attraction" for him. Once the girl finished eating her meal, she tells the guy she has to go to the restroom but actually went to the waiter. She pays for everything and walked out of the restaurant without telling him. Later that night, she informed him, via text, that she payed for everything, he should have gotten the cheese then blocked him. For those wondering, this took place in New York City.

[Anonymous]

He dodged a bullet there. Plus he got a free meal so fuck her lol I get that most men will pay for a meal but if she’s going in there ordering the most expensive item on the menu that should be a red flag to you. Women want equality but they don’t want equality when it comes to things like that. The minute she says you should be the one paying the bill than you’re not equal to one another because she feels as though her time is worth money, your time is just worth shit and you should be happy she’s even w you. Women always use the bullshit excuse well we pay by spending all this time to look nice and the money we spend on makeup and this and that. Bullshit. You don’t need to spend all that money on that bs, you chose to do so. I’ve learned that a lot of men are willing to share their resources w women, just not the other way around. Watched a video recently where a girl said she wanted her money to be use for their vacations, fun stuff while his money was used to pay for more important things. Meaning all the damn bills. I mean unless they’re going on vacations every month the price she would spend on vacations and “fun” would never break even w what he’d have to pay as far as a car, insurance, a house, etc. Many women these days are full of shit. Men need to wise up to their bs. Women may hold the key to sex but men are the ones who hold the key to marriage.

[razelove]

I wouldn't care one bit. So, the first date spots I had picked out when I was dating a lot where always places that had a front door and back door, a line of credit I had there, and staff I knew well.

Generally bars, coffee shops, delis, mom and pop type places where if the date really went out of it, I could say I needed to take a shit and go out the back door while she's stuck with whatever bill there is.

I mean, for follow up dates that's when you go to a concert, sushi or what not. First dates are like a litmus and heavy metals test, how toxic is this? That is a test that should go both ways.

Anyway, I've been blocked by women on first dates, I've been laid on first dates and then blocked, the only one that really disturbed me was being roofied on one, que sera sera.

[jennifer_bloom]

She might have a chip on her shoulder when it comes to self control. I know a guy who was raised by stingy people that thinks I'm evil and malicious for caring about money and wanting to maximize my education chances. He is biased against all monetary balancing because he was raised by people who took money management to the extreme and traded respect for money. But not all money counting is based on scarcity, sometimes it's just an offshoot of a healthy self protection strategy. Like when I order burgers, I use the cheese from my house cause it's cheaper, but I'm not stingy with money, I'm just not wasteful. I still pay my friends back for lunch and dinner, even if I have to go into debt to do it and when I need money, I don't ask for it, I cut costs.

[Quackthulu2]

I’d be happy that I dodged a bullet and move on with my life. Bitches be crazy like that sometimes.

[Sixgunsound]

If the hypergamy is that powerful of a driving force in her life I don't need her in mine.

[Quackthulu2]

@Sixgunsound I don’t care if somebody has a dick, a vag or something in-between. If they expect a person they literally just met to spend a bunch of money on them, they are an idiot. Simple as that.

[Sixgunsound]

This👆

[Count_de_Monte_Volo]

Forget her, don’t even dwell on what happened. I can understand her reasoning (it is outlandish in detail but makes some evolutionary sense at the foundation). I don’t think her reasoning is 100% correct, but I get that she wants a guy who can afford $3 slice of cheese like it’s nothing (rich). I’d like to have a rich partner, just not as much as she does. The guy doesn’t need to change, the girl doesn’t need to change, they just have to see other people. This clip is controversial because she is skirting around her selfishness as if the guy has a problem. Unless, he IS rich and is still frugal. That would be different tv and I didn’t think about that until writing this.

[NamerOfStars]

Probably feel hurt- I DO have feelings, after all- but then glad I'd gotten away so easily. Far better to learn early on.

[LiamJHayden]

Laugh. I always go cheap on the first two to see if she's into me or freebies. If she gets to Date 3 then I spend.

[bolverk]

Nothing, but thank her for paying for the meal and move on,

If she's that bothered about $3 worth of cheese then imagine what being in a relationship with her?

[Reorx]

I'd be glad she weeded herself out of my life.

[Anonymous]

Laugh as Warren Buffett says 'be fearful when others are greedy and greedy when others are fearful'

[Anonymous]

Nothing. She did me a favor by weeding herself out.

[shades777]

Not your fault she can't afford food