Don't you feel young age has become a focus trap?

[MittParekh15]

During young age a person has multiple aspirations like career, girlfriend, family, becoming a supercool person in the society etc.. This age is make or break for one's career. During this phase one faces money crunch, competition, break up, and at times gets stuck in the same and it becomes a loop. Like find a girl, enjoy and then again find another girl etc.. How one focuses on yourself and continues to develop?

[ShadowMonarch]

I agree wholeheartedly with you. A person's 20s and early 30s determine what is his rest of the life is going to be. Any guy has many aspects in his life career and relationships etc. Most important thing is balance, You have to balance your work, family, relationship friends in order to successfully pass thorough that time period

To be honest a person shouldn't date unless he Is financially successful because in this day and age only successful men get to date the most attractive and amazing girls.
To do that you have to properly educate yourself how to master the way of money.
Understanding how the world works and determine your position where you stand. Because our whole world is a system of hierarchy and you have to be ranked higher in order to be a successful person

[aoihewgf]

What I would say is this, the idea of people being able to move upwards in social class is something that has only been around for a couple hundred years. In order to succeed though, you have to work hard and be successful in the opportunities being presented to you.

I would much rather live in this system, then the one that dictates that I will never rise further then that of my parents.

[jennifer_bloom]

I did not enjoy my youth because when I was at the height of my beauty, I was an anxious and weak person with health problems and deep emotional pain. My goal is to make money, be nice to people, and buy enough for comfort and security. I won’t chase a guy for those things cause no marriage is guaranteed, people can cheat or die or lose their jobs and become your burden.

[OddBeMe]

Well…yeah but I’d say all gens go through this. It’s just harder on you because we have experience.

But you are at an age where a lot of shit changes. First off, I learned along time ago to ignore “expectations”. Whether family, society, religion, etc. It’s stupid. I’d you want to backpack the world before settling down do it.

[Anonymous]

"Becoming a super cool person in society"
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I don't know about all this man. While I agree those are big barriers for a young person, I also think you're overthinking it a little. You don't have to do all those things

[Anonymous]

No, you have to be strong enough to resist your urges

[itsalyssaagain]

Yes and that’s why I’m basically miserable lol

[Dinosaursandanime65]

“My focus is to stay focused”

[Swxaddy]

In ways yes