When should I greet my date with a cute gift? Would it be too early for the second date?

[Anonymous]

I really like this girl and our first date was very nice. I just want to take things to the next level. Do you think I would scare her off if I surprised her with a cute gift like chocolate or candy on our second date?

[Anonymous]

Don't listen to that Shade guy. When it comes to knowing what women want you should take a woman's opinion more seriously than a guy, especially a negative one.

Women would love this. It's a girls dream to be made to feel special. Thinking of her like this will surprise her because it's super rare for a guy to be this kind and generous.

But she'll greatly appreciate it and adore you even more. It depends on what type of woman she is though. If getting gifts are important to her.

I know of a love test thing where it ranks what she/he finds important in a relationship. Getting gifts is actually part of it.

I don't know if you'd want to suggest her taking that test so you can find out if its important to her later down the line. I believe this is it https://www.truity.com/test/love-styles-test

It's amazing and really sweet that you are thinking of her in that way. Most guys don't do this and I applaud you for being different. Good luck!

[ShellyB]

Something small, like not what the picture shows that is too much, if you know she likes a certain type of candy or chocolate, you could give her one bar, or something about that value (a few dollars). If there are nice wildflowers in your yard or nearby, that could also be nice. I would not get too elaborate or expensive at this point. JMO!

[Anonymous]

'When it comes to knowing what women want you should take a woman's opinion more seriously than a guy, especially a negative one.'

Never ask a fish how to fish...

I can guarantee you this, get her a gift and you will kill all attraction (assuming there was any). Stop simping, stop giving women stuff just because they exist. How many times do we need to tell you this?

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, you have about a 95% chance of sending her running for the hills if you do that. She will assume that you are extremely desperate and likely to be needy and demanding.

[sage2021]

Maybe if you give it a little bit of time, you can gather clues from her, such as what is her favorite color. Does she like surprises? What kind of food does she like.. etc!

Anyway, a little something would be a very nice gesture on your second date.
Good luck to both of you❣️

[shades777]

I wouldn't get her a gift because some women translate that to push over and expect gifts all the time for doing nothing at all, you don't know if the girl your dating is like that, hence the question.


You want to test your theory and ruin a good thing get her the gift

[sheikalana]

Nah, that's actually really sweet you're not going to scare her at all. I also love to gift my partner and if I go somewhere and something reminds me of him I'm most certainly going to buy him something.

[Uenvy694u]

No i would think its show u are romantic and care about. Remember women love chocolate or some pretty roses.

[Nikki1989]

A gift is a good idea, but don't go crazy with it.

[OKrts98]

Absolutely not! I think it's much nicer if you act whatever you feel like.

[bolverk]

Wait til you find out her likes/dislikes, then there's less chance of you putting your foot in it by buying something she'll hate.

[Shamalien]

Women would love this, HOWEVER, that doesn’t mean they will respect it. Watch out. I’d not do this in my opinion, wait till a special occasion

[Nelaary]

Just give her some simple flowers It's so cute simple and classic 💕

[TacosRAwesome]

Getting her a small gift is quite sweet. Going overboard sounds like a bribe.

[Anonymous]

I don’t make this to sound rude in anyway but most women don’t know what they actually want wouldn’t recommend taking advice from them you should take it from guys. Personally would wait a little longer

[Anonymous]

No not at all. I would love something like that for a second date.

[Iron_Man]

No, that’s fine

[Cheerfull009]

When you feel, that she can be caged

[Fromdusktilldawn]

No simping