If no guy approaches a girl, does it mean that she is not beautiful or attractive?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

No. It just means they don’t know you. Many people don’t talk to people they don’t know unless they have to.


I think some kr the most beautiful women get approached the least. Because many men are scared off.


It CAN mean that. But not always

[Finchie40]

Not necessarily, she can be absolutely beautiful and guys are nervous to approach her as well cuz they feel she is out of their league

[Asker]

Thanks for kind words.

[Finchie40]

No problem , what most girls’ don’t realize is a lot of guys have a hard time approaching a beautiful girl , because most guys’ are nervous of being denied if she doesn’t find him attractive or she isn’t interested in him , so a lot of guy’s are shy, so to make things easier you are best to try to make eye contact with a guy that you are interested in and smile at him , Usually when a guy notices a girl checking him out and smiling , it makes it easier for him to break the ice with her

[Asker]

Fixing hair and adjusting , avoiding eye contact are the signs that guy is nervous around you and likes u?

[Finchie40]

That’s definitely possible , most guy’s will avoid eye contact cuz he doesn’t want her thinking he is creepy and stalking her , and most girls are the same way , I know a girl playing with her hair is a sign she is interested as well so it’s hard to explain , Me personally has gotten over the shy stage a long time ago , I realize what do I really have to lose , It’s better to take the chance then not take the chance at all is how I look at it , I rather have an answer then no answer at all , Yes it sucks to be denied but when would I ever see that girl again? especially if I saw her at a store or some place , so the shyness stage for me is over , if I am attracted to a girl and I find her absolutely beautiful I am going for it , So my advice to you is if you really
Like this guy , just go for it , Just walk up to him and say Hi it’s nice to meet you I am so and so , I saw you and I had to introduce myself , He is either going to be flattered or not interested , if he is flattered he will communicate back in a positive way if he doesn’t communicate back in a positive way then say ok well it was worth a shot and it was nice to meet you and walk away. We don’t walk around with signs flashing above our heads stating what we are into and what are relationship status is , or what are preferences are , so it’s best to just go for it , cuz if you don’t you are going to go home and kick yourself in the ass for not trying at all. My thing is if a girl is rude to me right from the start I instantly think she is stuck up but I still kill her with kindness and walk away. Sadly a lot of Girls’ that are rude from the start are the ones that will come chasing after, I apologize for disturbing her and telling her it was worth a shot , you just caught my eye and I had to say Hi cuz I thought you were a beautiful person and I then walk away, Once it processes in her head on what I said she will usually come chasing , not always but sometimes lol

[jennifer_bloom]

I know 300 pound girls that get approached by good looking guys.

[Asker]

Seriously?

[jennifer_bloom]

Yes that is what I know

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. There's a good possibility she's just emotionally unavailable.

[Asker]

Could be

[Anonymous]

If a girl is having this "problem" I'd tell her to stop focusing on herself and start to think of ways she can serve others. As humans we get so caught up in vanity and ego.

[CuriousMufuxka]

No. She could be a les, too attractive for who she's around, or an evil bitch with a reputation. Really though. Guys will still approach!

[ItsZaman]

may be she is too shy and just don't like to interact with any guys or even anyone

[Asker]

Yes this can be a reason

[FilmGuy93]

That's not what that means, no.

[moviedude714]

Not necessarily the case

[Danny_dan92]

Not always

[Asker]

Then reason?

[Danny_dan92]

You have any idea how many women nowadays are in “secret relationships”?

Believe it or not, it’s cause of this that men keep to themselves. This plus the culture shift happening right now. The me too movement and how women and men have begun to trade societal norms

[Finchie40]

Yea i agree , I feel social media played a big part on destroying the foundations of a relationship these days , Filling people’s heads with toxic information about each other , All guys cheat all
Girls cheat , all guys are players all girls are whores , The bottom line is pretty much every person on this planet is selfish , everyone does what is best for them , How can you possibly give your heart to someone that is just going to turn around and shit on it , and only care about themselves? The only way love can grow these days between 2 people is they both have to make each other their top priority , over every fucking one , they both have to remove selfishness for each other , they both have to admit to each other that they can’t always be right and their partner is wrong , They both have to realize the grass isn’t greener on the other side , That’s the only way a relationship would survive today and for love to grow , Most people don’t even know what Love is , they think they do but they clearly don’t , They love the idea of being loved but when it comes to loving back they have no fucking clue , it’s whatever is best for them. So instead of butting heads and not agreeing with each other partner’s need to start wearing each other’s shoes before making decisions , boundaries need to be set in a relationship and both partners need to follow those boundaries no matter what , if they can not follow those boundaries then they are best to not be in a relationship what so ever , it’s just a waste of each other’s time , I will not commit to a girl that clearly can’t commit to me , she might get me in bed but if her intentions are to go and flirt with other guys and prioritize her friends over me , I will not commit to her what so ever , she is just a whore in my eyes , I’m sorry to sound so ignorant but sadly this is the way it has to go or I am not going to waste my time with someone that clearly doesn’t know what it means to be in a relationship , If she doesn’t

[Finchie40]

Like me doing something , Out of respect for our relationship I will stop but that means she has to stop as well , Most girls don’t grasp that concept , they think it’s ok for her to do certain things but not ok for her man , and that’s where relationships fail, When boundaries are set that goes for both partners not just one , both , if a girl doesn’t want me going on a trip with my friends without her then she is best to not make plans with her friends either cuz I will so put my foot down to her and clearly tell her how much of a selfish person she is and if she goes she is best not to come back because I will not be waiting , I will probably end up fucking her girlfriend that she thinks is really her girlfriend , I dated girls’ that had such toxic friends that they didn’t realize , When my girl would choose her friends over choosing me I would let her go and tell her have a blast , little did she realize her one toxic girlfriend was coming to ride my cock , So don’t ever choose your friends over your partner that’s all I have to say , people are so stupid when it comes to relationships , You aren’t single anymore!!!

[Finchie40]

You want me to respect you you are going to have to respect me the same , None of this do this do that shit for me with nothing in return , you either stand by my side or go be a whore , cuz I will so do the same

[Danny_dan92]

@Finchie40

Yeep. When I was a teenager I remember it was a known thing that men cheated only. Cause at that time the internet wasn’t at the point that it is, and most women were stay at home moms. While the guy was out and about more. Coming across more women than their wives came across men.

But now with social media and with dating apps, women are more than likely to cross paths with a man that clearly likes them and that they find attractive

[Finchie40]

Exactly , why nowadays it’s harder to really trust and value someone compared to how it was back then

[In_Trance]

Not necessarily

[Anonymous]

Care about him

[Asker]

What?