Would it bother you if your boyfriend had a trans friend they hung out with a lot?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Updates

+1 y

“Where were you all day,” oh I was just over at Casies house , pic number one lol 😂

[Poliker]

I don't like them nor their lifestyle. If I had a boyfriend who did, then I would have to reconsider our relationship because he might prioritize their needs instead of mine. Like if I had to go to the restroom and so did a transwoman friend of his, he might look at me crazy for not wanting to go with his friend. To stop this from happening, I won't deal with a dude that is cool with them like that.

[ChipTooth]

If I did have a boyfriend I don't think I'd care so much, if I had a girlfriend that had a friend that she was hanging out with a trans person that was a female the reverse of that I still don't think I'd care. It is hard to ignore things that will float around in your head or rattle it sometimes that's normal but maybe just talking to your partner about it and inquiring what the history is there might help You feel more secure and better about it and if they do cheat on You like your worried (I'm just picturing) or something does happen You can make like water and flow out of there, they weren't worth your the pain or time You give them, if your a good and honest person you will attract the same and know them better then anyone.

[htmndg183]

If i have good friend, can be male, female, trans etc. I'll value the friendship and hang out with them if we're nice to each other and the rest is there. If my girlfriend also has a trans freind, it wouldn't bother me

[FreyaRed]

No, but at some point I would offer him to marry his friend and would find someone I don't need to share with someone else.

[Asker]

yeah and what if he says they're just friends and nothing more. They just play video games or something. You would force him to abandon his friend?

[FreyaRed]

Even if they don't sleep with each other, I need my boy fully available for me.

"You would force him to abandon his friend? "
of course

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck yeah that shit isn't right. I don't give a fuck who said that I was ok. Because it's not ok your better off finding a new boyfriend. Normally guys don't think that there boys might look at them in an attractive.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Amen

[lorenzomichael]

Right.

[rideorsleep]

Yes, I would suspect he’s a secret gay or bisex

[Asker]

that is the fear I think. That's why a lot of guys don't have trans friends I bet. They know it immediately labels them gay to like everyone who see's them out together.

[Quackthulu2]

No, but if they start to fuck I want to watch.

[Dreamclouds]

hehe that is sexy lol

[Tiptoetamm]

No it wouldn't bother me. My man is bi and so am I and we really wanna have a threesome with a tranny would be so hot best of both worlds hehe

[FunkyMonkee]

Transposing that to "girlfriend", no. What's there to worry about?

[Giggles0]

Because most trans people, I know are asexual and that is thousands of transpeople. If anything being friends with a trans person provides more safety that there won't be any cheating.

[Anonymous]

yeah but not because they were trans, but because they would be hanging out a lot when he should be hanging out with me.

[Asker]

so you want your boyfriend to mostly only hang out with you? most guys enjoy their social life.

[Opinion Owner]

if a guy is hanging out with his friends more than his partner then there's a big problem, so yeah...

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I don't hang out with freaks, and I don't date people who do

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You heard me, they're freaks. I'm tired of everyone pretending like that shit is normal

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. I am not that insecure and petty.

[dreamstar72]

I would care a little but since they hung out a lot I would care a lot more.

[KrakenAttackin]

Hanging out with tranny's is not something MEN do.

[007kingifrit]

yea they're violent and dangerous monsters that are mentally ill

[petitedollbabee]

Not at all. I have trans friends too.

[Asker]

cool and you trust them around your boyfriend when you're gone.

[petitedollbabee]

Absolutely. They’re people too just like you and me. Someone’s gender identity isn’t going to make me unreasonably suspicious of them.

[Asker]

I have a trans friend and she is the horniest person i've run into in life. Always looking for new boyfriends. I would never introduce her to a future girl friend. It would be a major red flag. When we hang out it looks like the gay Olympics.

[petitedollbabee]

Many cis gender people like that too. Sexuality & libido has nothing to do with gender identity 😊

[DsX_Life]

women shouldn't be bothered by this, f. uck whoever they want

[imawfulatusernames]

No wtf is wrong with you people😅

[Unit1]

Transgirl friends are friends too.

[Anonymous]

I would want to have a trans friend

[Sabretooth]

in the past to my shame.

[Sabretooth]

I didn't see the ''boyfriend'' part.

[PolkSallad]

Yes..