Is it normal if it takes a quite long time to find a woman you like/fancy?

[DenizLikesTennis]

My last date was more than a year ago. Meeting new people, any feelings or interests can't be forced as it happens in due time. So my answer goes for a "yes"

What do you think?

Yes, it is normal so don't worry

Well... you could've met at least another one

It depends on the circumstances

[DaveJord]

I am 46 and I reentered the dating population at 42. For 4 years ad 16 woman I and I found two that I had a real interest in... and out of those two there was only the 1 I seriously liked.

Bottom line, woman in general don't seem to want to work as hard as they expect you to work within a relationship. And when they don't think you are working hard enough, they adamantly feel that they deserve better without out offering more.

[NathanDavis]

dates would not be difficult to find at all...

finding someone that I would be interested on, for a relationship... that could take months and even years, not because it is difficult... just because I am more selective about these things, lol

there is no actual "normal"

it is all about the things you are actually looking for, and then how actively you apply yourself towards that goal or... keep yourself away from it too, in some cases

[DenizLikesTennis]

A brutal truth and honest answer that stings.. as always ;) but with much appreciation.

[jorfan3]

It takes a long time to find anyone worth while to fancy. Someone truly worth it won't just walk up any day of the week.

[msc545]

It is quite normal, and also normal if it takes you 6 more months to get a date with the woman you found, and literally forever to get a second date if you actually want one.

Women are expensive, not worth the time, and dangerous as hell.

[slatyb]

I went a year with a lot of first dates and no second dates. In January I met my wife.

[DenizLikesTennis]

How strange isn't it? You're trying to predict your love life at... 32? 37? But it could actually be way sooner than you've thought. (Or sometimes be very later). So when I had a day... a moment... of feelings meeting my future spouse... I've had a good feeling deep inside... affirming.