Do you think there is a general corolation between cheating and being ugly?

[JustMeL120]

Most guys I know who cheat are ugly or on the ugly side. I feel if a man is super good looking. He definitely doesn't need to cheat he can just dump his girlfriend date someone else then get back with his ex. Has anyone else notice this?

[TheThingALing]

If we only considering physical cheating then from what I've seen, the above average, hot women cheat less and are terrible in bed. The plain Jane's, are much better at sex, and tend to have much more taboo kinks. the quiet ones, in particular tend to be into far more taboo stuff. These girls have had much more sex and need more taboo stuff to get excited. So they are bigger cheaters because they'll get bored with same partner after too long.

Now if we talking about attention seeking, having all these orbiters, then the hotter girls will be guilty of this

[inhua]

lol ugly dudes can't cheat because A) no one will cheat them and B) they are likely to be single anyways

hot dudes are too greedy to ever need to dump their girlfriend and replace her. he'll just fuck both his girlfriend and the chick he's cheating on her with

[JustMeL120]

Trust many ugly duds have GFS and many ugly dudes cheat.

[inhua]

in your opinion, those dudes may be ugly but objectively they aren't ugly

some women find Ryan Gosling ugly and others find Lizzo attractive

[JustMeL120]

When a man is really good looking every girl find him attractive. There a men who every girl likes. Thats a fact.

[inhua]

using that logic, ugly dudes can't cheat because nobody finds them attractive

[JustMeL120]

Honestly desparate women who are likely to be involved with a cheat will find them attractive.

[inhua]

why would any woman find an ugly dude attractive just because he wants to cheat? why wouldn't she offer herself to a hot dude instead?

an ugly dude who cheats is likely not that ugly to begin with. for starters he has a girlfriend who already finds him attractive and his affair partner also finds him attractive enough to sleep with. that's 2 women already at the very least and there could be potentially more

[JustMeL120]

It's not always like that not everyone is interested in attractivness. So girls date for the sake of it and have sex for the sake of it. Just because everyone is doing it. And trust some girls are really beautiful but their self estime is rock bottom the settle for the lowest because of that. They will sleep with anyone date anyone. Ugly guys who are good at sweet talk end up dating the hot girls who don't think they hot because they are getting an ego boost from them.

[inhua]

I dunno what sort of fantasy you're trying to sell here but no amount of sweet talk is gonna turn an ugly dude into an attractive one. that's like putting lipstick on a pig or painting a dump gold. at the end of the day, a pig is still a pig and dumpster is still a dumpster

"ugly dudes" (who probably aren't as ugly as you believe they are) don't end up with "hot chicks" (who probably aren't as hot as you believe they are) without there context being any involved. maybe the ugly dude is rich? maybe he was once hot and suddenly gained weight?

whatever the reason is, a great personality is not gonna save a dude who has no positive traits about him. it's a pipe dream to believe otherwise

[JustMeL120]

Ok well tbh I don't think anyone is ugly. Everyone is beautiful. And having a shit personality makes people ugly. I pick my men on their personality not their looks. And noone is ugly anyway.

[inhua]

would you consider Joseph Merrick the Elephant Man beautiful?

[JustMeL120]

He has a medical problem we can judge his look on that.

[inhua]

would the average person on the street care that he has a medical condition? or are they more likely to avoid him whenever they can?

[JustMeL120]

Depends how respectful they are.

[inhua]

they don't know anything about him except his looks. they're not obligated to know him. I don't think respect is going to matter here

[Sunssong]

Cheating has nothing to do with the outside. It's conditioning.
Same reason overweight people can't seem to lose weight and keep it off.

It's not about food and it's not about sex. It's about conditioning. People don't understand that.

[JustMeL120]

Tbh it's the media.

[Anonymous]

No. Whether the girl is ugly or not has a bearing on whether the cheats. Guys cheat for 1 reason only. They lack character. If a woman gets cheated on it happened for 1 reason. She didn't choose a man of character. And that regardless of who she is. She can be straight up trash a guy with character will break up with her. But he won't cheat on her. It's that simple

[CuriousMufuxka]

I believe there is a connection between pussy and ability to get dick. Ugly or fugly or prime. Ugly is merely a name given to you by judgement, but cheating is a choice..

[JustMeL120]

When I say ugly I mean someone who is basically average looking who can as you say " get pussy" but who isn't hot enough to get any girl he wants.

[douride2]

There s absolutely no correlation between looks & cheating.

[JustMeL120]

Depends on standards I guess. I definitely know more ugly people who cheat than attractive onses

[Sunssong]

@justmel120 or maybe you just know more ugly people in general

[JustMeL120]

Have you cheated before? Because on your photo you seem quite pretty. Although you only showing your back.

[JustMeL120]

@Sunssong not just the people I know it's stories I hear of on the internet as well.

[TheThingALing]

There's definitely a correlation in women who have negative body image issues and other insecurities that tend to cheat more.
So I guess I'll ask, would you say that the top looking or avg looking women tend to have more body image issues?

[JustMeL120]

@TheThingALing yes pretty beautiful women get rejected a lot of never date because men think they are too good for them. They also are victim of jalousy their whole life from other women and sometimes victim of grooming sexual abuse and exploitation. They have huge confidence problems.

[douride2]

I have been cheated on but myself I have never cheated.

[JustMeL120]

I guess it's better to date religious men. They believe if they cheat and they don't repent they might go to hell so they don't do it. Myself I believe cheating could send people to hell. When I am married I definitely won't cheat.

[douride2]

I know a few religious men who cheated with girls their daughters age. So it does happen.

[JustMeL120]

Makes me wonder where the good men are. They are probably in jail. For false aligation of rape or harrasement because they loved their girlfriend too much. Or alone watching Netflix and playing video games traumatized by some rejection. Sad really

[gag37627]

I have seen this pattern with people I know

[Andres77]

Not consistent with what I've seen

[JustMeL120]

Definitely what I noticed. But my views of which man is ugly might be different to yours.

[Andres77]

Fair enough

[In_Trance]

No there's not

[JustMeL120]

Yes there is honestly think about all the cheats you know. On the scale of one to ten how good looking are they? All the cheats I know are not super ugly but you can class them as attractive either. They are attractive enough to pull but not attractive enough get all girls they want so basically they are more on the ugly side

[In_Trance]

You're wrong

[jimmy2]

That's cold

[JustMeL120]

True though if they looked like Leonardo DiCaprio they wouldn't need to cheat. They could just pick whoever they want whenever they want.