Would you date yourself? Why or why not?

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What are your opinions when you look at yourself from the outside, both in terms of appearance and personal characteristics, would you date yourself? I definitely would by the way! 😎

SaRang21 · Accepted Answer

Loving me is hard. But I would date myself if I have enough patience and love “her” enough.
I’m an interesting person inside with a secret garden, that means you’ll have to take some time to get to know me, once you get to know me, you’ll either run away or stay, I will consider you lucky if you can come to my secret garden. I need a lot of space and me time and sometimes I might come across as I don’t love you enough but indeed I love you so much, if I love you, I’m gonna lay down my life for you. I’m gonna be so loyal to you that other men will be envious of you.
As for appearance, am not a super hot woman but I’m pleased to look at if I dress up myself, which you can feel comfortable with because you don’t have to worry that you can’t keep me or that you don’t wanna look at me because I’m not pleasing to the eyes.
If you have me, you have a world, you’re lucky to have me. I’m so unique so you’ll definitely be lucky to own a treasure.

Sorry for sounding like a narcissist lol
But yea, if you are a special person, you will notice me, you will want to visit my secret garden and as you go deeper you will fall in love with me, and you will find yourself so lucky to have me. ✨

ShellyB · Accepted Answer

I will answer it two ways. First I will honestly say that there are always people who want to date me so I guess I am considered datable, I think I check all the boxes so from that standpoint the answer is yes.

However the real answer is NO, I would drive myself crazy, like if we are alone w each other at night and there's a weird noise and we both freak out, we'd just make each other freak out even more, or like, a pet food commercial comes on and makes us both cry we'd cry even more. JMO!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

People who have egos never ask themselves this question. Also many women (and some men) need to ask themselves this question more often.

To be brutally honest I know I am not in a good place to date right now. I put myself in a financial calamity a year and half ago and I’ve been working my ass off ever sense.

But I still need sex. I have had a few quick flings. And no I am not doing this because I am a so called “immature” commitmentphobe or some crap. At my age I am well past that state of mind. But I know I wouldn’t make a good boyfriend right now. A few years ago it would have been a different story.

snowboarder720 · Accepted Answer

No, I wouldn’t like it. My partner (AKA myself) would hate doing the same things I hate doing. Doing the dishes, cleaning, etc. all of my bad habits would be worse bad habits.

Not that I expect my partner to clean up after myself by I rely on them to help me to become a better person by pointing out my flaws and things that I need to improve on because I’man imperfect human being.

ohsheeT · Answer

Sometimes I think I am LOL I mean I have to do a lot of things myself that's funny no I I probably wouldn't and that's just for the fact because I'm too needy I like to please and I like sensual touch and hot passion I love making love and pleasing so I would rather make it all about the person I'm with so if I was dating myself we would probably Clash

DaveJord · Answer

Hell yes, I would, because I know I am not perfect, but I am pretty f'ing amazing!

Simslover92 · Answer

I'm a bit of a headcase so I'm not so sure. It takes a special person to deal with me. I'm surprised sometimes my boyfriend still deals with me after everything I've put him through.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I am a nice person but would not date myself because I want somebody who is good at stuff I’m not good at and I want somebody who is bad at stuff I’m good at.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Yup!! My little sister is married to someone kinda like me! I was thrown off when I first met him…I was like…I feel like I am talking to myself. He is a great guy! I am happy for my little sister!

so yeah… they should have more people like me…I am really cool, funny and amazing!!

Apulu_Imback · Answer

If there was a guy who was totally like me, then I will of course! Because we would have same interests and he will be a guy mature beyond his years and we won't ever argue. We'll be equally busy and have all the spare time together. He can sing while I play the piano and vise versa. Honestly, it's a really big yes for me!

catiecatie · Answer

Honestly I’m not going to lie but I suck at texting! I prefer calling but I wouldn’t see why not. If I was a guy I’d try shooting my shot at myself. Plus I’d like to see how I’d flirt XD I think I do okay, but I feel like I can do better. Maybe that’s why the guy I like isn’t wanting to ask me out. That or he wants to keep it professional as I think he does like me.

ginamengi · Answer

for sure! I think I'm a total catch! I'm beautiful. and personality wise, I'm funny, I'm kind, (sometimes, but who needs an overly nice gal anyway right?) I'm compassionate and caring. I would take a bullet for the people that I love and you know damn well I'll treat myself right! though me and me might break up in the future due to a slight bit of toxicity but I'm sure we'll work it out <3

Anonymous · Answer

No. Because I'm too broken inside. I have unhealed trauma that I'll never heal from. I have lots of love to give and I'm feircly loyal, but I can't get over the trauma and pain of being in an abusive relationship with a covert narcissist. I'm better off alone.

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

I don’t think I’m very attractive plus I’m super lazy don’t talk much and extremely apathetic

I also drink A LOT

I have no clue what women see in me and tbh I judge people who are attracted to me

my first thought is always “ Really? Me?”

dragoblack · Answer

Yeah. I like to cuddle, i like to do crafts (so projects would get done in half the time), it would be easier to work out since i could compete with myself, it would be easier to style & cut my hair, co-op videogames would be fun, dounle the finances, cooking would be nice with someone to help prep, bicycle maintenance would go by quicker... so yeah, i would get along with myself very well, even with the downsides which are very minor.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

Absolutely. We’d have a great time. We’d do almost everything together but we wouldn’t really go on dates. We’d cuddle, fuck, hang out with eachothers friends clean together sing together, dance together.

lightbulb27 · Answer

yes, I dated myself for a long time when I was single. I was bored at times.

LittleSally · Answer

Hell yes! I'd probably be the perfect person for myself. :D

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely not. First, I’m not a lesbian. But even aside from that, even though most consider me pretty sexy, if you’re into short, athletic girls who have big boobs that are probably too big for their frames. But I tend to be too promiscuous and cheat on partners. So maybe I would use me for a good time but not any kind of serious relationship. Also super clingy and needy. Who wants a girl that cries about not being loved all the time?

Wild_princess · Answer

Probably not... i am a mess... i am a caring and supporting but its hard to keep up with me... i person with lots of patience and intelligence can handle me... i am bit immature also... that' why my relations don't last long.

4ngelic · Answer

well im straight so wouldn't really happen. if i was a dude though if i just saw what i show to other people i guess yea. but if i knew everything about me ehh

Normaldude444 · Answer

Yes, unfortunately I'm one of the kindest, most honest and most loyal people I know. I would just hate sucking my dick every night:( I'm more into female bodies..

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap. I know how I am, why and when. I know how to calm myself. I know what needs to be done and how, so I can help out. I know what I want done sexually. Etc.

helva · Answer

Yes, because I always can understand my date. No, because this would be boring.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Well I love me some me!!! So my answer it hell yeah I'd date me. Don't want to come across conceited but why wouldn't I date me. I'm tall dark and handsome and very successful 🤩🤩🤩

serious · Answer

Even if I come across an opposite gender version of me, I still won't date her. There are reasons for that also.

NathanDavis · Answer

myself?  someone like me... I would not be against it but I would prefer someone that is their own person and not exactly like me... lol

TheMadLad · Answer

No. Because I’m not that great when It comes to taking responsibility and My sense of humor is a bit off.

Belgie · Answer

No, I'm not gay. Or that much of a narcissist.

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

hell nah! I am ugly both on the inside and outside.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Yes  Why not I do everything alas myself I even play with myself sexually. 💕👍

magiusX26 · Answer

nope. 1st off i am not into guys and seeing as am a guy... 2nd it would be boring to date a replica of myself, you need some varity, not a self clone.

annabananna · Answer

I don’t know…. I kinda think I would but then again when I watch myself on video I find myself annoying.

Sarah2023 · Answer

No. But if I could look at myself from the outside and from someone else’s perspective then I think I could better my relationships.

Heolurt · Answer

Not really anything about myself that is worthy of dating aside from personality and how I'd treat myself, so no I wouldn't date myself, way too ugly.

SunnyRS · Answer

I like myself but no I would not date myself, I still prefer dating a girl, if she has a personality like me than that's something I could work with but it would be a boring relationship.

Andres77 · Answer

I would…because I know my intentions are good and I tend to spoil whoever I’m with.

poetic_pisces · Answer

definitely yes I'm sensitive and emotional I'd like to have that in my life

EpicSnail · Answer

Only good thing I can see about dating myself would be shared interests.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Sure.. The only downside of dating me is that I might get spoiled too much xD

Anonymous · Answer

10 years ago, not a chance, today, definitely! My partner knows that if I were a steak I'd be a USDA Prine tomahawk! Luckily so is she!

Sasha0426 · Answer

Hell no! If guys wouldn’t date me, I wouldn’t date me either. I reject myself multiple times.

Likes2drive · Answer

Sure, I’m easy to get along with and a decent person with no bad habits

maskgirl · Answer

no, because personally I have insecurities and I feel like I'm ugly

Twalli · Answer

No. I love me, but I don't think I would ever be in love with me

Anonymous · Answer

No way. I’ve already seen myself undressed and it’s nothing to write home about. I could definitely do better than myself.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I have nothing to offer I've been forced to live on this planet for far too long

straightmax12 · Answer

I wouldn't. Because it doesn't make sense to date yourself.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope I’m short and ugly I’m to genetically inferior and useless for anyone to love

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

No I like big boobs 😆

JustMeL120 · Answer

Why would I date myself I am not gay

Justaguyagain · Answer

No i will be annoying to myself

Anonymous · Answer

No, I'm an inferior choice in comparison to most other men

TheThingALing · Answer

No because I'm not gay

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Hell no, too ugly.

DermalPunch · Answer

Oh, absolutely!

es20490446e · Answer

Best catch ever :P

Babygirl_S · Answer

Certainly because I like myself.

Anonymous · Answer

No , I’m a emotional right off atm

Juxtapose · Answer

I'm not attracted to masculine looking men so no.

Jay3344 · Answer

I’m not my type

MountAverage · Answer

No, because I'm not into men.

TracyF · Answer

Absolutely, I'm so beautiful.

Katrina79 · Answer

Yes cause I know what exactly know what I want.

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