Would you date yourself? Why or why not?

[OKrts98]

What are your opinions when you look at yourself from the outside, both in terms of appearance and personal characteristics, would you date yourself? I definitely would by the way! 😎

[SaRang21]

Loving me is hard. But I would date myself if I have enough patience and love “her” enough.
I’m an interesting person inside with a secret garden, that means you’ll have to take some time to get to know me, once you get to know me, you’ll either run away or stay, I will consider you lucky if you can come to my secret garden. I need a lot of space and me time and sometimes I might come across as I don’t love you enough but indeed I love you so much, if I love you, I’m gonna lay down my life for you. I’m gonna be so loyal to you that other men will be envious of you.
As for appearance, am not a super hot woman but I’m pleased to look at if I dress up myself, which you can feel comfortable with because you don’t have to worry that you can’t keep me or that you don’t wanna look at me because I’m not pleasing to the eyes.
If you have me, you have a world, you’re lucky to have me. I’m so unique so you’ll definitely be lucky to own a treasure.


Sorry for sounding like a narcissist lol
But yea, if you are a special person, you will notice me, you will want to visit my secret garden and as you go deeper you will fall in love with me, and you will find yourself so lucky to have me. ✨

[SaRang21]

Ahh. Sometimes I fall in love with myself.. sometimes I wonder who can have me

[ShellyB]

I will answer it two ways. First I will honestly say that there are always people who want to date me so I guess I am considered datable, I think I check all the boxes so from that standpoint the answer is yes.

However the real answer is NO, I would drive myself crazy, like if we are alone w each other at night and there's a weird noise and we both freak out, we'd just make each other freak out even more, or like, a pet food commercial comes on and makes us both cry we'd cry even more. JMO!

[Anonymous]

People who have egos never ask themselves this question. Also many women (and some men) need to ask themselves this question more often.

To be brutally honest I know I am not in a good place to date right now. I put myself in a financial calamity a year and half ago and I’ve been working my ass off ever sense.

But I still need sex. I have had a few quick flings. And no I am not doing this because I am a so called “immature” commitmentphobe or some crap. At my age I am well past that state of mind. But I know I wouldn’t make a good boyfriend right now. A few years ago it would have been a different story.

[snowboarder720]

No, I wouldn’t like it. My partner (AKA myself) would hate doing the same things I hate doing. Doing the dishes, cleaning, etc. all of my bad habits would be worse bad habits.


Not that I expect my partner to clean up after myself by I rely on them to help me to become a better person by pointing out my flaws and things that I need to improve on because I’man imperfect human being.

[DaveJord]

Hell yes, I would, because I know I am not perfect, but I am pretty f'ing amazing!

[DermalPunch]

Exactly 💯

[jennifer_bloom]

I am a nice person but would not date myself because I want somebody who is good at stuff I’m not good at and I want somebody who is bad at stuff I’m good at.

[midnightmoon05]

Yup!! My little sister is married to someone kinda like me! I was thrown off when I first met him…I was like…I feel like I am talking to myself. He is a great guy! I am happy for my little sister!

so yeah… they should have more people like me…I am really cool, funny and amazing!!

[DermalPunch]

Do you have a crush on your brother in law?

[midnightmoon05]

@DermalPunch
No!
I am married with two kids. I respect myself and my husband and my family and my sister.
We are a family of love and success…none of that silly business.
I admire people and we all work together to be better than yesterday.

[DermalPunch]

That's good! Glad to hear.

[ginamengi]

for sure! I think I'm a total catch! I'm beautiful. and personality wise, I'm funny, I'm kind, (sometimes, but who needs an overly nice gal anyway right?) I'm compassionate and caring. I would take a bullet for the people that I love and you know damn well I'll treat myself right! though me and me might break up in the future due to a slight bit of toxicity but I'm sure we'll work it out <3

[Apulu_Imback]

If there was a guy who was totally like me, then I will of course! Because we would have same interests and he will be a guy mature beyond his years and we won't ever argue. We'll be equally busy and have all the spare time together. He can sing while I play the piano and vise versa. Honestly, it's a really big yes for me!

[ohsheeT]

Sometimes I think I am LOL I mean I have to do a lot of things myself that's funny no I I probably wouldn't and that's just for the fact because I'm too needy I like to please and I like sensual touch and hot passion I love making love and pleasing so I would rather make it all about the person I'm with so if I was dating myself we would probably Clash

[catiecatie]

Honestly I’m not going to lie but I suck at texting! I prefer calling but I wouldn’t see why not. If I was a guy I’d try shooting my shot at myself. Plus I’d like to see how I’d flirt XD I think I do okay, but I feel like I can do better. Maybe that’s why the guy I like isn’t wanting to ask me out. That or he wants to keep it professional as I think he does like me.

[lightbulb27]

yes, I dated myself for a long time when I was single. I was bored at times.

[LittleSally]

Hell yes! I'd probably be the perfect person for myself. :D

[Anonymous]

No. Because I'm too broken inside. I have unhealed trauma that I'll never heal from. I have lots of love to give and I'm feircly loyal, but I can't get over the trauma and pain of being in an abusive relationship with a covert narcissist. I'm better off alone.

[AnusNdaPainus]

I don’t think I’m very attractive plus I’m super lazy don’t talk much and extremely apathetic

I also drink A LOT

I have no clue what women see in me and tbh I judge people who are attracted to me

my first thought is always “ Really? Me?”

[helva]

Yes, because I always can understand my date.

No, because this would be boring.

[dragoblack]

Yeah. I like to cuddle, i like to do crafts (so projects would get done in half the time), it would be easier to work out since i could compete with myself, it would be easier to style & cut my hair, co-op videogames would be fun, dounle the finances, cooking would be nice with someone to help prep, bicycle maintenance would go by quicker... so yeah, i would get along with myself very well, even with the downsides which are very minor.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well I love me some me!!! So my answer it hell yeah I'd date me. Don't want to come across conceited but why wouldn't I date me. I'm tall dark and handsome and very successful 🤩🤩🤩

[Faith18letsgo]

Absolutely. We’d have a great time. We’d do almost everything together but we wouldn’t really go on dates. We’d cuddle, fuck, hang out with eachothers friends clean together sing together, dance together.

[Wild_princess]

Probably not... i am a mess... i am a caring and supporting but its hard to keep up with me... i person with lots of patience and intelligence can handle me... i am bit immature also... that' why my relations don't last long.

[4ngelic]

well im straight so wouldn't really happen. if i was a dude though if i just saw what i show to other people i guess yea. but if i knew everything about me ehh

[Anonymous]

Absolutely not. First, I’m not a lesbian. But even aside from that, even though most consider me pretty sexy, if you’re into short, athletic girls who have big boobs that are probably too big for their frames. But I tend to be too promiscuous and cheat on partners. So maybe I would use me for a good time but not any kind of serious relationship. Also super clingy and needy. Who wants a girl that cries about not being loved all the time?

[Normaldude444]

Yes, unfortunately I'm one of the kindest, most honest and most loyal people I know. I would just hate sucking my dick every night:( I'm more into female bodies..

[Simslover92]

I'm a bit of a headcase so I'm not so sure. It takes a special person to deal with me. I'm surprised sometimes my boyfriend still deals with me after everything I've put him through.