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Why is refusing to date outside your race considered racist? (Page 2)
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Depends on your reasons for going after same race. I don't discourage it, but I'd never encourage it either.
I been called racist before because I'm a white man that's only been with other whites
I always wonder the same thing
I don't think it is. If that's your preference, that's all there is to it
Same reason as dating someone at all or not, someone's gonna get mad. :)
You can date who you want. Its only racist if someone makes a point of it.
Why you care so much about words? they call it racism, you can call it loyalty, to your race.
Most people in whole damned world don't date outside their race or dumb religion. I personally don't care what race a woman is. If she's hot, she's hot.
My dad has a friend, white, who, we don't really even see anymore because he's a douchebag now, but, he married a (black) woman. Why's that such a problem to OBVIOUS RACISTS
Well dating someone is not racist... everyone have their types
Cuz some people are too stupid to understand what an " individual " with tastes and preferences means lol...
I don't see it as racist everyone has a preference.
You don’t have to flat out reject someone like that strictly because of their race. You just say the position has been filled and thank her for her interest and you will keep her application on file.
Wtf, obviously they are not going to keep 'her application on file' as ou put because they don't want to be with them. That is something that millennial do.
@DarkLegacy How long have you been married?
Whoops. Wrong question. Never mind.
It’s not racist at all. The only people who say that are those that get rejected
Not racist, just shallow and close minded. Sounds like you're not open to other cultures.
Perhaps you're wasting time listening to people who think it is?
I don't think so. It is just comfort and personal preference.
It's only considered mainstream racist if a White doesn't wanna do that
we are the human race...
um because its close minded I guess but you know that
It can be due to racism, but not always. Insecurity, inexperience, naivety or just preferring a feature can also play a part.
No it is called free choice. We used to have that in US. I guess if a guy doesn't stick his dick up a gay man's ass , he is homophobic?
Because westerners are idiots who seem to be unavke to understand that everyone has different tastes.
I don't think it is raciet it personal choice
To who? Fuck what people say, or think. I really don't give a shit date whoever you like.
It’s narrow minded but depending on your reasons and if you’ve evaluated them not racist.
It's not racist. Don't listen to the woke morons.
Because everything is considered racist anymore.
I prefer to date outside my race but Im honestly just way more attracted to all other races except my own.
To preface, it's not racist. But many racists would have that preference. So those people just jump the gun and make that assumption.
It is not. You have a right to your preferences of who you want to date and maybe marry. It does not make you racist because of it.
I'm the opposite, I don't feel attracted to those of my own race.
Because people are obviously too sensitive to anything regarding race.
It’s just a preference because that’s what you’re comfortable with, it’s not racist
No, it's not, it's just a preference. And everyone has preferences, even those who date all races.
No that’s racing.
It's not racist l, but I am
Discrimination based on race is racist 🙂
But dating based on your racial preferences isn’t racist at all.
Racial preference is a euphemism for racism.
Racism:the belief that different races possess distinct characteristics, abilities, or qualities, especially so as to distinguish them as inferior or superior to one another.
You definitely think white women are superior to black and other women. You would even overrate below average members of your favourite race.
I’m willing to bet if a black person said what he said you’d say it isn’t racist but simply “prejudiced.”
That’s besides the point, it’s not at all wrong to have racial biases in dating. It’s only becomes wrong the moment you refuse to befriend a race, or actively avoid them. It’s no different than refusing to date someone short or a blonde.
Without exception, I only prefer to date white women because that’s all I’m attracted to.
Think of the female celebrities like Natalie Portman and Jessica Alba. I’m attracted to them because of their looks. Without good looks there’s no attraction at all without exception. Not to sound racist but the white race is my favorite race and it rules for me.
Any person (including black men) rejecting someone purely based on race is a racist and racist people have a bad personality. So be it.
There's nothing wrong if someone says I'm attracted to hot people but saying you're attracted to an entire race is racist for sure because every person in any race doesn't look attractive.
Looking at the statistics I can say there are more single black mums everywhere. So what's happening is since women usually don't have much of a preference these dark-skinned men are accepted by everyone. So it's like all men are accepted by white women but white men don't accept other women. I have even read a study that concluded that white women are MORE ATTRACTED to black husbands than white husbands. So these white men are pedestalising the ones who don't pedestalise them which is pathetic.
@asker I don't think you'll consider a different viewpoint. You are determined to hate people based on their race.
That is what dating is about, you date based upon distinct characteristics, for instance black people are far more likely to die from disease then white people, we saw that during covid, their immune systems are weaker. So i would not want a black child, plus it is cultural, religious differences that prevent the relationships. Why would a Christian date a Muslim for instance.
@DarkLegacy Breast cancer is the most prevalent among white women so perhaps you shouldn't date one.
Lol you are cute, it is more about whether she can produce healthy kids or not and black people have poor immune systems
Not racist, just extremely narrow-minded.
Not really, if a black person only wanted to date other black people, you would be like... I guess I get that. Narrow-mindedness or racist would not even be a topic of conversation.
Not to be rude but since I’m considered to be narrow minded so be it.
@DaveJord As it is refusing to date outside your race isn’t racist. Having a racial preference isn’t racist. You don’t have to date outside your race to prove you’re not a racist.
I don't have anything to prove... so okay.
Attraction is not a conscious process, so how can a lack of attraction be the result of a conscious process?
So is rejecting people because of looks and disability age then.
No I don't think it's racist
They're gaslighting you.
Narrow mindedness.
It's not racist at all.
What a silly question
It’s a preference
It’s not a prejudice it’s a preference.
It’s not racist at all. It’s preference.
It's not racist to have preferences.
Er, because it isn't. Dumbass.
Depends on how you define racist.
We need more white men like you 😆
What is the reason you're refusing?
Date who you want.
You like what you like
It’s not. It’s called a preference.
You do you.
Nope.
It's not.
It isn't.
What?