Ever get sick of hearing looks don’t matter at all in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Anybody that thinks what’s on the inside is all that matters to me is a fool and/or has a screwed up mind. If a woman isn’t pretty, I’m not interested in her regardless.

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I’m not interested in hearing this fairy tale statement (The inside is all that should matter to you). Anybody that thinks the outside doesn’t matter to me at all lives in a lollipop fairy world (A world that doesn’t exist). In reality (the world that exists), looks matter to me. Telling me not to care about a woman’s looks is like telling me what kind of car I should buy. As it is, my money is my money.

[OlderAndWiser]

For guys, sexual attraction is about 95% physical appearance, but that physical appearance doesn't always need to be Hollywood starlet good looks. Yeah, Natalie Portman and Mila Kunis are real hot, but I have also been attracted to some mousey looking girls and a woman who I realized, after I broke up with her, that she was not attractive at all.

USUALLY, it takes what - in my opinion - is attractiveness, to get my interest. And without sexual attraction. . . it's a friendship, not a romance.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I 100% agree. The inside can turn a pretty girl ugly, but an ugly/fat girl just started out as ugly/fat and I don't care about her sexually in any way whatsoever. I'll show the same respect I'll show anyone else, but I'm not going to overlook ugly/fat and then suddenly be attracted to her because of her great personality.

Women that say that shit are lying... She'll say that shit, but has never fucked anyone that wasn't equivalent to Chad or Tyrone (brothers, with different mothers). She will... when she's blown out, probably dragging kids around, and her options start drying up with age... the wall has never been defeated.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Nice to say you're shallow. But as always, too cowardly to say it with your username so I can't block you. Maybe you'll do me a favor and block me yourself.

Exactly why I hate people. No matter how nice I am to people, I always get shit on because I'm not up to society's standards in appearance.

Have a nice life.

[Babygirl_S]

Yes looks matter that's why I like younger Henry Cavill. He doesn't seem to care about anything other than who can please him sexually. He dates ugly women with horrible personalities.

The best a man can look

So many handsome guys pick ugly girls like her

[shades777]

she's not ugly tho

[Babygirl_S]

@shades777 She is

[EssenceOfLight]

Of course it does, but it's not a guaranty to be happy.
You attract with your body and your look specific type of women and if you're specific type of guy, you will attract girls which aren't the type you would consider as wife material, not because of their appearance but their life attitude.
On the other hand you don't need to look like a giga chad that women start to approach you. You need style being fit and tall and you will always have secret admirers and admirers who prefer obvious approach

[desidoll]

I mean, looks matter to all of us. First impression is always the look, then their personality determines whether we are to stay or not. Saying that looks don’t matter is just plain lying. People don’t want to be called shallow that’s why. This same group are usually the ones who go and approach attractive people 🙄

[inhua]

looks have always mattered in a relationship. if it ain't looks, then it's money. if it ain't money, then it's status. regardless personality is at the bottom of the list despite the heavy virtue of signaling of personality being most important

looks can't be faked. money can't be faked. status can't be faked but personality can

[nolabels]

I allowed myself to think that way thirty years ago when I made the biggest mistake of my life.

I thought I was doing the right thing in choosing my wife in the manner that I did, based on personality.

What really sucks is that the personality she presented before marriage was not her. It was all a farce designed to trap me.

Attraction matters, in a big way.

[Anonymous]

They matter. As much as girls like to say they don’t, but they do. I’m a good looking guy, and I get girls wanting to cheat on their man with me all the time. Which is why I focus more on what’s on the inside because I meet a lot of shitty women.…

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have literally never heard anyone say "looks don't matter at all in a relationship." Who is saying this? Are they blind? Maybe that's why.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If Looks Didn’t Matter in a relationship do you think more people would be in relationship? Of course they would!

[EricSummer]

I have not heard this. It is not a saying here in Switzerland. So I cannot get sick of hearing this opinion.

Anyway, I think it's not true.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Judge not lest you be judged. Call nobody a fool, unless they stopped asking questions. I’d rather date an ugly person with a beautiful personality than date a beautiful person with an ugly personality.

[nastyb]

did you really believe that is true? i never believed that was true. i never fell for it.

[Anonymous]

Let me guess, you are an incel and single. 🤦‍♀️

[clampfan101]

What’s inside does matter the most, but yes. Looks are also very important.

[Exterminatore]

Who is saying that? Looks definitely matter and anyone who thinks otherwise is fooling themselves.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Yes looks matter. Doesn't mean they are what's most important.

[msc545]

Money and looks are really all that matters to most women.

[Anonymous]

Looks don't matter, to girls. A girl needs to be hot to get a boyfriend, a dude should not have to be hot to get a hot girlfriend.

[Babygirl_S]

Only gold diggers date ugly guys lol

[Anonymous]

Nah because if you've dated at all you know what the truth is.

[Abdulwahh]

I believe it plays a part.