Is it normal for messages to slow down a little after the first date?

[andre-48]

[jennifer_bloom]

One thing about me is I try to keep a distance with people who try to get too close to me too quickly. So if somebody responds less than 3 minutes after I text them, I might avoid them for a short while or take longer to respond back cause I view somebody too eager to see you as a pressure valve that will try to control your behaviour or drain all your time, and not ready to invest in a guy I am not fully trusting towards.

[andre-48]

She said overt message after the first date that's I'm very gentle and sweet. She also said she feels very comfortable with me

[WhitneySnow]

Sure. But hopefully you guys still keep talking at least sometimes in between dates.

[andre-48]

She said over message after the first date that's I'm very gentle and sweet. She also said she feels very comfortable with me

[Anonymous]

It depends on the girl. Some aren't big texters, but they'll do it before they get to know you in person so they can be more comfortable around you when you do meet in person. After that, they'll prefer to talk face to face now that they feel better about it

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, because actual voice-to-voice communications should be replacing texts as the primary means of communicating. Unless you are in the part of your generation that doesn't have the courage to pick up a phone and actually call someone.

[Pinay_ako]

It should double after a good first date.

[Nikki1989]

That is what happens when you replace texts with real communication, and it seems some people will never learn.

[MannMitAntworten]

When one or both did not feel any interest … most definitely it is normal/common.

[Anonymous]

Yeup. I don’t put out immediately and then I never hear from the guy. Fine by me, it saves me a headache of a man child running away because he didn’t get his way.

[LittleSally]

Yes if she's not into you...

[itsalyssaagain]

No unless they’ve lost interest

[Anonymous]

no, they should speed up in the beginning

[andre-48]

She said over message after the first date that's I'm very gentle and sweet. She also said she feels very comfortable with me

[In_Trance]

Yes it is

[Aniston3333]

Hello