Would you date a guy with self harm scars?

[Anonymous]

Yes

Maybe

Ew no it’s a turn off

[Screenwriter]

Scars usually mean someone has come through on the other side. New cuts are the only evidence of a problem.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I would rather not… I’d be scared that he might do that again in future.

[Asker]

That’s kind of close minded what if they self harmed as a kid and never did it again

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if he stopped. Like actually stopped, past that.

[Asker]

The tilts says scars implying the self harm has stoped a long time ago it takes quite a little while for a cut to heal into a scar.

[Ms_Facesitter]

More scars can always be added, I've seen it before.
But as long as he stopped with it, I'm okay with that.

[VivienChan]

It's depends on why he did that

[Asker]

Why does anyone self harm. Because it erases their mental pain by replacing it with physical pain.

[VivienChan]

Everything can't solve that easily, do you think physical pain can cure mental pain? If he did that because of a girl that he love the most, that girl must be lucky and if I have a guy like that I will never let him lose

[gothbxtch]

yes, why would that turn someone off?

[Asker]

I don't know but a lot of people are saying they wouldn’t because they’d be scared they’ll do it again which I don’t really get just because someone self harmed in the past doesn’t mean they’ll relapse or something I’m 4 years clean I’m never doing that shi ever again.

[gothbxtch]

That totally makes sense! I also used to self-harm, and I’m so glad you’re doing better now

[eidkejeodnx]

I would be scared if he does that again