I am an Aspie. I have the tendencies to evaluate my life's questions and concerns in much greater depth while others view them at the surface.
Maybe my reasons are valid as to why I seek a woman with no romantic history, but I am unable to convey them in a way where others can relate. Maybe I can invoke different responses if the person experiences the perception that aligns with my explanations.
I was able to walk one therapist through a scenario so perfectly one time, her mind was blown, and she was in disbelief that I countered her argument.