I’m so confused. Over the summer I went through a horrible break up and it was somewhat publicized within my community. People know I’m single. Im only in my early twenties, but I’m a doctorate candidate and have traveled the world — I’m also an artist and writer. This seems to impress the single father who has been going out of his way to talk to me. Our parent teacher conferences go on for 2 hours because we just end up chit chatting, he touches me every chance he gets, and at a recent open bar work gala, we could not stay away from each other. With that being said, he doesn’t really follow up with these flirty encounters by texting or calling. I have developed feelings for him too, the first time I’ve had feelings for someone in a year. Asking him out might be a wild risk, but I feel so drawn to him. What do I do?
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Something isn't making sense to me. You are a teacher, presumably K-12 I would think if you are talking about parents. I doubt very much you would be interacting with college students' parents. So, you have galas as a school teacher? I would love to see this school. You are also a doctorate candidate? Artist and writer? Where do you find the time? Well, maybe he just likes the thrill of flirting. Maybe he is married so that is why he doesn't follow up.
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If his child won’t be in your class this upcoming school year, I say go for it. I mean, why not? 😊
What should you do?
Well, that's just it... It's your move. He's doing more than enough that should be indicating his interest in you. Now it's your turn to take it to the next level...
HOWEVER...
If you do want to take it to the next level, you can't do it if his kid is in your class because that is a "conflict of interest". You have to wait until no kids of his are in your class.
There is a huge difference between being attracted, wanting to flirt, flirting, wanting to touch... Vs wanting to invite that woman into our life, to commit to, date, or invest in. He's not interested enough, or not looking to make it more.
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He may be attracted to you but not comfortable going further without a clear sign that you are interested in him as well.
Im not sure what your accolades have to do with this guy flirting and touching you. Besides that, if he’s not following up, he clearly doesn’t have that much interest besides sex.
He's an adult. Ask him out at the end of the year when his child is no longer your student.
Is he married? That could be what is going on.
Irrespective of what he's up to, I'd steer clear of dating parents of your pupils, current or former
Look at his left hand and see if he’s wearing a wedding ring - if so….
Maybe because he is married? Or freshly divorced? Do you really want baggage? ;}
hitting on you but he has a kid so a partner so not easy for him to cheat with you
What is his education level
Is the guy marry
Is he a bum?
Only wants to smash
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