I’m single and have a new born?

[Anonymous]

I haven’t went on dates yet but do guys find women that have a baby a red flag? And also why would a guy wanna date me when I just had birth … is it something that makes a girl undesirable..

[KingslayerC]

Some men find it a reg flag, some don't care, and some like it (pedophiles, for example). I guy would want to date you because you are good looking to him. Same as any other situation. Just know that "post nut clarity" might have a guy questioning his ability to maintain a relationship with someone with such a young kid.

[Danny_dan92]

When I was younger it was a complete no go, but as I got older I was more ok with it.




With the caveat that the father cannot be in the picture. Idgaf. If the guy dipped cause of the girl having the kid. Or they just broke up in general, then he shouldn’t be in the picture. At all.

[MementoMori777]

it depends what the guy is seeking bit normally guys avoid women hat have children, so perhaps its a red flag to most, because kids bascially say you had a guy and he's gone so it obviously creates assumptions

[Berethor]

I would be brutal honest, yea it a red flag, and I would not want to raise another guy's child.

[BlackJeep]

It's not a deal breaker. I guarantee there's a guy out there in a similar situation looking for someone like you. It is a red flag for some guys and a green flag for other guys.