How can I make my girlfriend get her driver’s license?

[Anonymous]

So, I’ve been dating my girlfriend for about two years now. We started dating after high school and she has refused to get her driver’s license. She doesn’t have a permit either fyi. Every time I bring it up she always has an excuse locked and loaded. - I have to go to the eye doctor for a note. - My ADHD won’t let me focus on it. - I’m not motives enough to do it. I’m also not the only one who wants her to get it. Her parents have been begging her to get it. Things would be so much easier if she had a driver’s license. I’ve offered to pay for driving school, I’ve offered to help her study, I’ve made it to where I won’t let her listen to the music she wants to listen to in the car until she gets her license. I’m running out of ideas, do you guys have any advice?

[ShesRad80]

does she have a specific reason why she doesn't want to? besides the excuses is it laziness, fear etc? a lot of these people don't have them which is odd how else does one get to work if you don't have parents or a bus near?

[Flower7]

This is something you’ll just have to accept about her if you want to stay together. She can’t be forced to do it.

[BlackJeep]

My girlfriend is 33 and has never driven. I've dated many women in their 30s who don't drive for a variety of reasons and just Uber everywhere. What's the problem?

[Fireguy17]

You can't.
She will get it when she wants to.

[In_Trance]

you can't. why would you want to?