What might be a reason for not being interested in dating? (Page 2)

Question

Let’s say, you met someone nice and he’s been asking you out since your first meeting. He looks good, seems to be smart and a nice person but I don’t know why, I can’t exactly put my finger on it, but for some reason I don’t feel that interested to go on a date, I wonder why, because there’s nothing I dislike about him. But for some reason I still don’t feel motivated or interested or excited to go on a date with him. What might be a reason for this? I think lots of girls would like to date him. Why don’t I? Might it be because I don’t feel any connection or emotional closeness to him?  Would you trust your instincts or would you give that person a chance to show himself?

LiamJHayden · Answer

No reason necessary. There are lots of great women whom for one reason or another I do not find interesting in a romantic way.

KatherineJ · Answer

Maybe he’s just not your type and you can already sense it?

DexWest · Answer

I’m just working on myself. On top of it, I oversee 5 sites spanning 3 time zones, so I really don’t have time. Lol

Just_call_me_Levi · Answer

Chemistry maybe? I've been on dates with girls that are great, nothing to dislike about them, but just never felt that spark.

naryne · Answer

Bcoz dating is a physical lie. Nothing gonna get by dating or chasing women but one thing is real you guys are increasing your countries GDP😂.

Lilliantree · Answer

I think it depends on the person but sometimes some people may be scared of let’s say consequences or if something like a break up we’re to happen and some people may not feel the same

boobliker · Answer

you have too much to do without a boy in toe.

Staximus · Answer

How well do you know this guy? Some people take time to warm up to each other.

RyanK9b · Answer

For me, lack of interesting people. Also the sheer human trash out there is annoying

Christoff92 · Answer

Oh my. Their are many but can lead into arguments for what I know.

justabuddy · Answer

Still suffering from a break up, enjoying being single, a bad relationship can cause it, way too many options. Their is lots of reasons.

Malwi93 · Answer

Why do people always think it’s about the person? How about conflicting goals?

dragoblack · Answer

Garbage selection of insecure & toxic people who won't work on themselves.

In_Trance · Answer

It's not that they're not interested in dating it's that they're not interested in you

thatbobguy500 · Answer

Give him a chance just don’t sleep with him till you are 100% sure I normal wait 3-6 mo the as a test

MoNassar29 · Answer

Maybe you had bad relationships before which affected on you and you are feeling afraid of getting hurt again

Mionax · Answer

Relationship may make you happy but to be honest it doesn't it will constantly make your head spin around with thoughts 24/7.

Anonymous · Answer

I my case I am too old, too broke, too fucked up, too out of shape, too bitter and hateful and misery don't want no company.

TheAfrikan · Answer

Settling down with one person is a big choice for sure to be made

krin_m · Answer

You should not do anything that makes you uncomfortable.

Anonymous · Answer

There is life beyond datings... I don't waste time on holes

BLP11520 · Answer

Being married 🤣🤣🤣

Ninania · Answer

You could be aromantic?

sheikalana · Answer

Past traumas.

TheeTrybrid · Answer

Yes and the only person I wanna date is me for now

Friendlybro79 · Answer

A reason could be to avoid drama.

Anonymous · Answer

Can't see a future with that person.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

People just playing games

king34 · Answer

It means your a bad person

Thot_Stomper · Answer

If my vagina fell off

pethouse · Answer

Insecurity’s of being cheated on

YesToLife · Answer

U mean red flags?

Buttajah · Answer

Life is more than attachment.

CubaPirate · Answer

In my earlier twenties when I was too busy

Zforce194 · Answer

Maybe he’s just not your type.

Anonymous · Answer

No chemical attraction probably

EaterPeter · Answer

Many.

grega239 · Answer

No results

Anonymous · Answer

Never

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