If you have domestic discipline in your relationship/marrige how did it start?

[Anonymous]

I had it in my past relationship and I'm afraid the guy that I most likely will start dating soon is the same so I wanna do my best not to get into it.. and not seeing him is not an option for me. So that's why I'm asking.

My partner brought it up

I brought it up

We saw it online

Other (comment below)

[Mansearching]

Don't have that. We would share cleaning responsibilities.

[Asker]

ok i see👍🏻

[Mansearching]

Yeah. In my world or life women are equal. She would have to mow grass also when its not my turn... lol

[Asker]

yeah thats good.

[Mansearching]

Of course the she'd have to learn how to weed-eed

[Asker]

oh..👀

[Mansearching]

If i mow you weed-eed. I weed-eed when you mow. Then coordinate the inside cleaning.

[Asker]

sounds like a plan

[Mansearching]

Dm me.

[Asker]

no am just joking.. if things were different sure but i am already entangled with a man

[Mansearching]

I was trying to give you a job.

[Asker]

I would have taken it but I live too far away from you

[Mansearching]

Ok. I'm in no position rt now anyway. My guest room still needs fixing up. Needs sheetrock work, trim and flooring.

[Asker]

i understand. if things were different like i said i would gladly take it. am sure many others would too

[Mansearching]

Yeah, got to finish that room first.

[Asker]

👍🏻👍🏻

[KingslayerC]

My wife definitely gets spanked when she gets out of line.

[Asker]

Why?😣

How did that whole thing start in your marrige.. any way to escape the spanking?

[Asker]

? huh

[KingslayerC]

Cuz she talks shit. She can escape when she runs faster 😂

[Asker]

Oh so then I need to just run lol?

Who started that idea with spanking her if she talks shit?😂

[KingslayerC]

If you can get away lol

I don't know, it just happened tbh

[Asker]

Has she ever escaped you?

[KingslayerC]

Yeah

[Asker]

Nice!

[KingslayerC]

😂 🤝

[Asker]

Funny to you... I bet you aren't the one getting spanked😣

[KingslayerC]

I'm not the one talking shit either 😆

[Asker]

Yeah... but sometimes we just need to rant😣... I never get to do that... either. sometimes being logical is rude

[girlzruleboyzdrool]

You sound like a jerk.

[Curmudgeon]

"I had it in my past relationship and I'm afraid the guy that I most likely will start dating soon is the same so I wanna do my best not to get into it.. and not seeing him is not an option for me."

Why is it not an option?

If you are drawn to abusive men, perhaps YOU have the problem?

[Asker]

Because I love him

[ohsheeT]

I never have. But I would maybe want that if the girl wanted it.
I love to be Central I love to be passionate I love to make it all about the girl but if there's a kink involved I'm willing to go that distance LOL because no matter what it is I'm pretty sure I have pretty good insight about it and I would try to perfect it and make it exactly what she wanted the reasons why she wanted it and that would be a turn on to me you should add me

[Asker]

Ok well thats different

[Anonymous]

It just started happening. We were arguing and I slapped him across the face. He spanked me super hard for doing that.

Now it's just something in our marriage. We don't have rules or anything like that. But I know if I purposely push his buttons, he will respond

[Asker]

Thats exacly what my ex did.. is he religious?

Do they happen bare or how?

[Opinion Owner]

We are Christian but we don't do domestic discipline or anything like that. They have been bare before but that was because I was pissed off at him One night and was purposely scratching his leg with my toenail in bed bc we were arguing about something. I got mad so I dig my toenail into his leg. He flipped me over and I was in a night gown a d he spanked me, in my panties. Then I got so mad and embarrassed and then I did it again bc I was sooo pissed off that he thought he could do that to me. So I dug my toenail I'm super hard when he was almost asleep and was ready to run for it. He grabbed me by the arm and bent me over his lap, pulled down my panties and spanked me so hard... so I didn't do it again... l

[Opinion Owner]

You shouldn't put up with that. Fight him off or get some revenge, secretly.

[Asker]

I see yeah I had that too or similar with my ex

[Anonymous]

Well, I suppose we know from your previous question that at least you have a nice ass to spank! lol!

[Asker]

Thank you...👀

But any tips?

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome! Not sure what tips you need to be honest. You said not seeing him isn't an option, so I guess you'll just have to see how it goes, no?

[Asker]

Oh ok... ill try to make him not have the idea

[Opinion Owner]

If you keep his balls drained he won't have much aggression left to spank you! ;)

[Asker]

Yeah I guess that's true👀

Maybe that way I can make him forget if I missbehave too👌🏻

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha! Yeah--that's a very effective way of accomplishing both! How often do you see him?

[Asker]

I dont wanna get into it... cause then people will figure out who I am. But thank you for your help

[Billlewis]

I always tell a woman when I meet her that she should take a cane to my bare bottom and thrash me within an inch of my life on a regular basis, to ensure that I'm always docile and obedient.

[Astarlessnightsky]

I don't even know what it is.

[Asker]

its spankings...

[Asker]

Do you?

[Astarlessnightsky]

No, this would be abuse.
Spanking should only be done in a consentual sexual context.