Do you think guys are bad at rejection? how should they handle this better? what should they say?

[Anonymous]

[DizzyDesii]

Not all are bad at it. But a lot will quickly backtrack and switch to being rude like “I was just looking to hit and quit anyways.” Or “You ain't even that cute no ways.” Or “You should consider yourself lucky someone approached you.” Its common statements given to a lot of girls. The guy should just accept that we said no and move on. There are too many fish in the sea. And whats worse is the ones who can't let go so they say “Oh you can’t have friends?” Or “Can we at least be friends?” Like why do that to yourself? Why voluntarily go into the friendzone and hope to ease your way into something more. It ain't worth it. Just leave and think of it as “Her loss” (without needing to rudely state that) rather than your own.

[Asker]

Heard of them examples yes
Dating world is a mess low key

[DizzyDesii]

HIGH key

[Asker]

Do you think guys and girls can be friends from your experience? Or no then?

[DizzyDesii]

Yes if one or both have absolutely no sexual/physical attraction to that person of the opposite sex. I rarely befriend guys I am attracted to because my mind will consider crossing the line. Out of all the guys i friendzoned, it was because we had shared hobbies/interests. I remember only being physically attracted to one but then he flashed his dick and i was turned off by the look of it, so into the friendzone he went 🤷‍♀️ These friendships lasted up to 10 years. It was often one sided because these friends were guys who were into me, but they understood it wasn't mutual and stopped trying after a while

[Asker]

Yea i remove one sided friendship girls ASAP haha

[DizzyDesii]

Not one sided friendships. One sided attractions. Its good if they dont find eachother sexually attractive because then its truly platonic and no one has ulterior motives

[Asker]

Both are bad

[DizzyDesii]

Okay like my male friends wede handsome but they were not my type. Thats what i mean. Its best to befriend those who are “not your type” otherwise you will eventually want more

[Asker]

Fair enough

[gothbxtch]

some of them are. they should absolutely not try to persuade the person they’re asking out after getting rejected, yell at or talk angrily to that person, or keep asking why they were rejected.

[gothbxtch]

thanks