Had seen this girl on instagram now we meet in real life?

[Anonymous]

i'm not entirely sure where to try and take things

to explain had first seen her a couple years ago on that site , she doesn't live near me and from another city but i had seen her page.

this summer i went into a bar i normally go to and she was working the bar , at first i wasn't sure who she was but though she looked familiar. we started to talk and clicked rate away. now were like friends and have talked more there and i even bought her a shot at another nearby bar that she goes to.

she's only here for the summer , she's working at 2 different jobs here , i haven't been to her other job as its at a golf course i don't go to.

to be honest it doesn't seem real but it is real and she is a real person. it seems like we've know each other way longer but its only been a couple weeks.

[kylee2437]

You are putting this girl very much so on a pedestal. Does her Instagram suggest to you that she would ever go for a guy like you, or does she post content that makes men follow her?

[Asker]

a lot of her posts are old , she has a nice body but its like realistic kind of hot , she doesn't have big boobs , she just has a nice look to her. she has 4000 followers , but has only made 1 post so far this summer and none that show her in a bikini despite posting many in the past

i never put any though into us being together or even being friends until we meet , and then we like just clicked rate away , i have no idea what kind of guy she likes , i don't recall her ever posting a picture of herself with any guys she dated or boyfriends

[Avicenna]

Ask her out on a date. You have nothing to lose, so see what happens.

[Asker]

well true not really emotionally attached to her yet so if this doesn't go anywhere i'm not out much.

wasn't really thinking a formal date more try and hang out with her on one of her days off , though about suggesting i show her around the area as she's new here and i've lived here forever so could show her the local stuff etc

[BasedBaeBecca]

Hmm, well, it sounds like you're already on good terms with her and have been hanging out at the bar and getting to know each other. That's good. And the fact that you have common interests and enjoy talking to each other also helps. If you're interested in trying to take things to the next level, I'd say just keep hanging out and talking to her. Just be friendly and try to get to know her as a person. And maybe as you get to know her better, you might sense an opportunity to turn things romantic. But first, get to know her more first.

[Asker]

we've talked a lot there , she seemed to like it when i went to her area and talked to her. despite being attracted to her i haven't had the urge to take things sexual yet

i haven't even asked for her # yet but i obviously follow her on instagram so could message her there , not sure if she knows i follow her or not as i never like mentioned it or tried to contact her through that site