Guys, would you date a single mother? (Page 2)
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Oh, absolutely. I actually prefer a woman who has at least one child, or better yet, is pregnant with another guy's baby, if possible.
Since I'm never allowed to have any penetrative sex whatsoever, a woman who is already pregnant eliminates the problem of how she's going to get pregnant.
She left a working man who had an income for the government benefits. She ruined another man's life so she's probably going to do the same thing to me.
It's selfish. All relationships are not Disney fair tale. You have to work through problems for the kids. She isn't mature enough to handle a relationship.
I do. We both had children already. For it to work, I think the mentality that we are forging a new family and the children don’t come before either parent, but both adults are committed to all of the children, is important.
I would not, im not bringing up someones elses kid, besides modern mothers make a point of saying their kid will always come first which would mean me never coming first so no. And i would have no say or discipline over the child.
These poll results have been falsified, either by the site or fake accounts, the results do not reflect the comments, when i commented yesterday, it was 83% of men the other way, and in a short space of time it is reversed.
Every other poll on this has shown overwhelming majority of men saying no. Besides why has this particular poll got so many responses to the question.
The problems with single moms usually don’t have to do with the woman, herself. It’s usually a baby daddy who is pissed that their baby mama has a new man, the child itself, or just the financial situation. If the single mom has a child over the age of 6, there are fewer complications in general but infants and toddlers are stressful enough without all the drama going on.
Unless the children have already left to live on their own... No. I do not want to raise (and pay for) other people's kids.
I would date a single parent as long as the responsibility doesn’t fall on me at all 😂😂😂😂. It’s his brats. Not mine. 🖕
I really don't know until the opportunity comes up one day. I'm not against dating a single mother in the future but as of right now I most likely won't.
Generally, no. I don't want to have to be responsible for someone elses kid. I can barely take care of myself and a single animal let alone a tiny human.
However, if she was the perfect woman for me I think I'd be ok with it.
Single mothers are recreational use only. The only guys who take them seriously are cucks, losers who can't do better, and pedophiles trying to get to their kids. A man who has self-respect doesn't pay for other people's mistakes.
Lmaoo 🤡
Men like u even not good for recreational use
@Darkrainbow you sound fat
No 🤡
I don't know, that depends on how long she was together with the father of the child. If she had a kid with some guy who she never lived with or was never in a serious relationship with then no. I don't date women who make poor life decisions.
No.
I don't want to pay the price for something I am not responsible.
Single moms, single dads. I would be secure and mature enough to date both of them if I wasn't already married.
that mature ,
It all depends. If she has one kid that came from a long term relationship or marriage. Also if she isn't a hoe.
Im not dating some carpenter ass hoe that has the 4x4 4 kids by 4 different daddies.
Dang im impressed by the ratings. Was not expecting that outcome 😳
Why?
Bc no man would date a woman whose jid isn’t their own
"No man" is a generalization. Obviously, some of them do want.
@Darkrainbow Boomchakalaca is right. Most men don't and the ones who do often do it against their will, because they can't get themselves a childless woman. So it's a "something is better than nothing" scenario.
@TruthBringer ehh so negative opinion. İ don't think like that
@Darkrainbow Not everything in this life is to our liking. Hence why they call it 'the ugly truth'. Don't like it? Sorry, but that's more of a you-problem.
@TruthBringer no u dont tell Truth u just make stupid generalisations. Stop making stupid generalizations. How do u know that every male who marries a single mom has no other choice?
@TruthBringer and in my first comment i do
didn't n't claim that every man want to marry single moms. "some of them do want"
@Darkrainbow Whatever helps you sleep at night, missy. Not everyone is equipped to handle the truth.
Men who date single mothers often settle for the bottom of the barrel. Have you seen an attractive high value man who got his shit together get with a single mother? They usually get with childless women and start a family on their own. Guys who date single mothers wish they weren't mothers and often hate having to deal with being a stepfather. Check out some of the comments down below of men who became stepfathers. They literally prove my point.
I know what I am saying because I AM A MAN. And I SPEAK TO MEN. I know HOW MEN THINK.
Yes, some like to date single mothers. But the vast majority don't. How do I know this? If single mothers are so wanted, then they wouldn't have a hard time dating. And you'd see a major influx of stepfathers when that's not the case.
If you're going to bother to respond, make sure to come with viable arguments than "u dont tell Truth u just make stupid generalisations". That's not an argument.
Good luck.
@TruthBringer I am not a single mother because I don't have any children. Therefore, I don't have any problem accepting the truth on this topic. And yes, I have seen engineers, doctors, and many high-value men marrying single mothers.
"Yes, some like to date single mothers. But the vast majority don't."
And i also stated this in my first comment. But i completely unagree that only bottom of barrell men want single mothers. U have no right to devalue humans basically they don't share same worldview with you.
@Darkrainbow Nobody said that you are a single mother or not. We are discussing a topic. Sorry miss, but single mothers are generally known to be undesirable. They also often lower their standards (except TikTok enthusiasts) to try and get a guy to help them raise a child. This is often a man they don't intrinsically desire.
You complain I am devaluing humans. I didn't. I said they are the bottom of the barrel when it comes to the DATING WORLD. That's not the same as saying they are worth less in human value. So make sure to understand what I'm saying before you start acting all defensive.
Generally, men who have little to no means to attract a childless woman, especially one who is still in her prime, go for single mothers because they are 'easier'. And yes, engineers or doctors or any of the "nerdy" types are generally known to be more socially awkward and focus more on their career/studies when growing up rather than be out there socializing. I know this because I've gone to University and dealt with them myself.
Just because you have a high paying job, doesn't mean you are per definition a high value man. This goes to show you don't even know what it means to be a high value man. It reached far beyond just job.
It depends. The never married multiple kids from multple baby daddies meme? Nope. Faithful, self-sufficient widow? Very possible. In between, depends upon the specifics.
No man would date a single mother because they believe all single moms are bad. Even if they lost their husband to death.
But, it’s ok though. I think the same way about single dads 😂
I have and would again - just because her relationship with the father didn't work out (if she even wanted a relationship with him) that doesn't mean she's not an amazing woman - to me Single Moms are actually pretty sexy!
I don't know about that, when my mom was single she had hella suitors 👎🏻
Most dont want to raise someone elses kid
@grega239 That’s how I feel when it comes to single dads.
No.
Only if I were also a single father.
Maybe.
Honestly in some ways it might even be preferable.
It depends a lot on context though.
Yes, I would date a single mother and I got to realize that they are a package deal :-) (((Hugs)))