Girls and guys, would you feel comfortable if your boyfriend or girlfriend works at a place where he / she is surrounded by more females / males?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

Other

[_Maya_]

Nah dude. It is cool with me. I am not insecure when I am in a relationship or I just wouldn't be in one. I trust whoever I am with or there is no point in being with them. I have had a boyfriend that worked with lots of girls and a girlfriend that worked with almost all guys. It was never a problem because I trusted them. Nothing ever happened and I wasn't afraid or worried that something would go on. If someone is insecure to that point they shouldn't be in a relationship to start.

[Asker]

I trust my girlfriend. But I hate this hookup and cheating culture.

[_Maya_]

I hear ya. Cheaters are the worst. I am with you though. I am single and refuse to hook up with anyone. Doesn't interest me at all.

[Asker]

Nice! Girls like you are wifey material, perfect for wedding and making babies.

[_Maya_]

Gotta finish school up before I take that next step of marriage. One step at a time.

[Asker]

Smart girl! You have pre planed your life. So do you plan to have babies ASAP after marriage?

[_Maya_]

Depends. If that is what happens and I put career on hold then so be it. If not right away in time yeah I think I want a family. Just see how things go. Just want to get the school done so I have that option in my back pocket. I am totally cool though starting a family one day and shelving the career durint the beginning if finances allow.

[Asker]

Great! I want babies after 2-3 years of my marriage. But my girlfriend refuses to have babies of our own. She wants to adopt.

[_Maya_]

That is actually really noble to adopt. So many kids need a good home and don't get the chance. I hope you guys are able to and give a child a great life.

[Asker]

Yes, but I want to have my own babies not adopt. I want someone who wants to make babies.

[_Maya_]

Never know. She might change her mind. It is funny how that happens where you don't think you want something and then the time comes and you do. Either way best of luck and hope it works out.

[Asker]

I hope she changes her mind. Thanks; )

[SnowedIn]

Totally. They need men and women in their life. And to think otherwise is to not trust them or to think everyone else is bad.