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Body count isn't as important as how she got the body's. Say you started having sex with a boyfriend at 16 and dated til 19. Then had 3 longterm boyfriends between 19 and now. 4 body's isn't bad. If your bodies are hookups and one night stands then it is more concerning. If you had one long term relationship then had a month of hooking up with random dudes then 4 body's is bad.
Makes a lot of sense!
Is she have a relationship and let someone fuck her, she’s a hoe.
Strongly agree!
Yeah if she’s single, no of dicks doesn’t matter right? I don't know lol
Well put!
Being a hoe has nothing to do with body count. It's how a woman shows herself, how much she sexually teases guys, how easy it is for a guy to get her in bed.
okay cool!
I wouldn't call anyone a hoe. But it would put me off a girl if she's had more than around 8 at that age.
I've rejected girls cause they've obviously dicked around. Many of them have mentally unstable and violent ex-boyfriends, too, which is hardly appealing.
Valid point!
Wow thats insane.. why did she want to kill you?
So your male friend wanted to have sex with you and you said no because he had a high bodycount?
No. I have a female friend. And her dimwitted boyfriend wanted to kill me for no reason at all (he was insecure and dumb as fuck). He got drunk and saw my profile photo on her whatsapp. I'm presuming cause I look good he got insecure.
Women make disastrous dating choices, endangering themselves and others, and there's little in the way of accountability.
oh okay but she didn't cheat with you? He just assumed?
😆😂
yeah lol thats crazy
im asking because its a very talked about topic but many men have very different opinions.
Am I looking for an easy lay or a girlfriend? I'll assume a girlfriend in a relationship.
In that case I am wanting a girl who is relationship orientated. Between 18 and 25 how many boyfriends has she had? If it was a new one every three months then she is looking a bit whorish because it is becoming unlikely all 21 of them were at fault and anything above that is not acceptable.
If her relationships average 2 years than that is 3-4. I'd accept that. So my answer is anything above 5.
If I am wanting an easy lay then I don't care if it is 50 or more.
but younger women tend to generate more interest so its possible some get a lot of play when younger and can have rather high body counts when there young and if she's really hot most guys wouldn't decide not to have sex with her because of that , some might stay clear of a relationship though
Yeah but relationship/marrige wise at what bodycount is too much?
but a lot of the time as a guy you won't really know the actual # , you sort of more have to go by your gut feeling if she's the type of person you'd want to see or not. girls are notorious for lying about this one and rarely say how many guys they's actually been with
by my age the # could easily be 20 or 30 if they dated around a lot when younger and didn't have a steady boyfriend for longer periods of time , and 20 is only like 1 or 2 guys a year if they started to have sex at 18 and now 30 , some girls likely have sex with a lot more than 1 or 2 guys if there party type and single
Yeah I guess so for you if she is below 25 whats max bodycount for you?
i don't know if i really have a # , more going with my gut feeling and sense of who the person is. maybe if its over a 100 or something crazy that be too much , but if its like 3 or 5 or 10 , that isn't really going to be a deal breaker for me
Okay cool!
the opposite if really hot, then the first keeps her, not many guys
Anything above 0, she should had saved yourself to her husband, he don't want used goods.
Rare but valid!:) are you religious?
So even 1 before 25 you call her a whore? I mean not wanting her because she isn't a virgin sure but calling a woman a whore for 1 bodycount is funnt to me. Kinda like me calling a guy a criminal for not tipping his waitor😂
I am not religious, but I still prefer to be with a virgin, as I don't trust hos. :)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oDaaAI6keSw
Yes ofcorse I understand you'd rather have a virgin but isn't there a line between being a whore and a virgin? Cause when I imagine a whore I imagine the girl who goes out clubbing half naked with a bodycount of 10+
Do you mean a woman even as little as 1 is actually a whore like the woman with 50 bodies on her or you mean differently?
Yeah again that I get but calling a woman a whore. Like do you know the definition of the word "whore"? Check my update and answer the question I asked please?
It's not the definition and woman can be naked without having sex you know?
allthetropes.org/wiki/Innocent_Fanservice_Girl
Yeah but still haven't answered the question. Im not asking who you wanna marry. Im asking do you view a woman with 1 bodycount as a whore? Not asking if she isn't dateble or not. But the word "whore".
Also what is your bodycount?
Why man's body count matter? A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock no? :)
allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Girl_Is_Not_a_Slut
Still not answering any of the question i asked😭😣 you dont understand me?
And yes it masters to me lol😂
*matters
You want a virgin man? well it's okay for a woman to want a virgin man. :)
allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin
if you answer my question I'll answer yours:)
i mean answer the question with the update i already know your bodycount is high lol
You need to read my links, virgin is the opposite of whore, hard to understand? :)
allthetropes.org/wiki/Madonna-Whore_Complex
you still haven't answered my question😓..
well you dont understand my question i tried to explain but it doesn't work. thanks for taking your time commenting and i hope you find your virgin!😊
This is a very interesting graph. If a person has 2 partners before marriage, they should really go ahead and have a few more partners before marrying, which decreases their chance of divorce after 5 years of marriage. Hmmmm. 🤔🙉🙊🙈😎
This graph looks like the classic "Figures don't lie but liars can figure!"
I don’t think it’s about a literal number of men she’s slept with that makes her a hoe. It’s about her mindset and behaviour that makes her a hoe. Like if she cheat, flirts with other dudes, looks for sexual attention from others.
Example, if a woman has had 15 dead boyfriends that wouldn’t make her a slut. But if she’s only had sex with 3 guys and cheated on one of them, she’s a hoe!
Very well put!
Hoeing ain't about body count. It's a state of mind. You could be a practical virgin and still be a hoe. Just because she sleeps around a lot doesn't automatically make her a ho.
She might be a slut, but that's not necessarily a bad thing. She might just sleep around a lot because she thinks sex is fun. But that's not the same as hoeing. Hoeing ya got to be manipulative, use sex as a means to get something.
thank you for understanding the question!
Why? Without a purpose for the question the answer is irrelevant. Being a hoe isn't bad unless you have a purpose behind not being a hoe.
I mean at what point does she become non wifeble/girlfriend?
Personally, I do not think there is a point. However, if one doesn't know how to alter their self image then I'd say there are stats that allow one to give a logical answer. Because the self image of a hoe and a wife are different. That's where the problem is. Our self image dictates are results, perceptions, behaviors. The stats people post are based on people who lack the knowledge of how to change their self image.
Yeah I agree with that! :)
People missuderstood the question a lot too
I think if you are 25 years old then its ok to have bodycount of 5. That means basicly 1 relationship lasted around a year
Alright so if I was 20=0
21=1
22=2 etc?
She becomes a hoe with the first body that isn't a partner, hookups are for whores
okay cool!
exactly one nighters are hookups hence the term hook-ers
Indeed
A double digit body count is definitely whorish behavior.
Thank you for understanding the question! Very wise said, it makes sense!
I don't like to say the word hoe, but I wouldn't date someone who has really high body counts like 10 cause this might just mean that she's gonna replace me as well.
Thank you for understanding the question! Most men here didn't understand the question. 😆
They answered if they would date her or not. Not about the definition of the world whore.
Im asking at what bodycount do you put a woman as a whore? Not if you'd date her or not.
I understand if a man wouldn't wanna be with a woman that is not a virgin but calling a woman with 1 bodycount a whore then I dont think he understands the word "whore" or the question:)
You answered both but you answered my original question too
Oh yeah, I understand now. It's just that I hate the word whore or hoe cause it's used to offend women like a woman sleeps with a lot women doesn't make her a bad person and people use the word hoe to label these women as bad individuals. Also, a lot of women sleep with 50+ women, but they don't get shamed, which just seems double standards to me.
yeah I agree with you, i understand!
So for you 10+ she is a whore
alright then but what number makes her a whore?
A good gauge, is, if you've had more than your own age. So if you're 25 and have had 26 partners, sexually. That's essentially, a ho
Wow that's a lot if you ask me but cool! Good to know!
WTF?
@KrakenAttackin I mean, it's not perfect, but, it's a good gauge
A chick who has had more than 5 sexual partners has permanently damaged her ability to bond with a man.
If we're looking for dating then not more than 3 if for marriage she better be virgin.. at least most men expect this not all!!!
I don’t equate body count to being a “hoe.” Only if she expects me to pay her for sex.
Alright good to know
what about the man PAYING for tickets and meals during relationship. she would need to pay to prevent prostitution? even the jewelery and gold ring at marriage baffle me.
Above 20 at that age is right on the cusp of what I consider " hoe " dom :)
I've never asked for a body count. If she wants sex immediately or almost immediately, I don't assume she is a "hoe" but she is not for me.
It's less about number and more about intent. More than 1 is too many. I can get past whatever number if I believe she's a quality woman. Keep in mind, the higher that number is the harder it's going to be toconvince me of that though.
Well serial killing is 3. So I’ll go with that for hoes too.
No it’s just as stupid a label as alpha males. It’s shit.
More than one new man per day.
😂 that's insane if you ask me but okay:)
If she's a ho her body count could be hundreds.
i understand like 20-30 over a whole lifetime, if a girl is only 25 though anything above like 15 is gettin nasty
Even 5 is a bit high.
Good to know!
So she needs to have less than 5 to be taken seriously?
There is no way to know as women lie badly about body count. The average college girl has sex with 12 different men through just four years of college...12 they ADMIT to. The average women tends to have way more sexual partners than the average man (why? Because Chad Thundercock fucks like a champion).
FYI, most men, especially higher value men, have built in RADAR for hoes. If he suspects you are/were a hoe, the longer he is going to have. to get to know you before even considering commitment. A man who is committed to a hoe becomes a laughing stock of other men. No man of value wants this.
I didn't know 12 thats insane.. however I know my bodycount and if he asked I'd tell him. I will say later in my update.
But I get what you mean, thank you!
It depends on whether or not she is regularly having flings and hookups.
Men and women are not the same... Men we value purity.. where as women for the most part value what we bring to the table
Why do people have to have labels
Anything above your age
After 3
What's your opinion?
Im straight but to call a woman a whore she needs at least 10
Okay. Have you had a threesome?
No never would
That's good. How about 1 night stands?
I say 5
Never.
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