Iâd consider myself an âalphaâ female. I think the definition of it gets thrown around wrongly but it really just is a woman whoâs comfortable in her own skin. Same with a man. Itâs not really all about being independent or physically strong as everyone thinks, because while Iâm an independent woman, Iâm also submissive to the right man, and most women are.
Yes, âalphaâ men and women belong together. The relationship with a controlling man and a submissive woman is not an alpha man relationship. Heâs just controlling. As a woman comfortable in myself, I wouldnât be able to be with a man who wasnât also comfortable in themselves.
So if you're talking about an alpha male and a female who is alpha as far as being one in her gender, it's possible. But if she is alpha as in she has masculine traits too and also wants dominance, it's very likely doomed to fail. An example of this is the way marriages between us black men and white women have the highest divorce rate. Black men tend to be more dominant, and white American women have a need to control men and be the most powerful, so the two end up butting heads and these marriages result in divorce a lot.
It's more natural for a woman to be feminine and let a man lead. When she is trying to have dominance and authority like him, there's almost always conflict that follows.
@tiajoka Thatâs true. Because white men are a little more scared of confronting their gfs/wives, which is why they tend to be the most henpecked husbands even with white women. And I think white men would feel as if they're a racist bad guy for ever needing to stand up to his black girlfriend/wife if she gave him shit.
@ManOnFire I have no problem standing up to my black girlfriends, I have no idea what you're talking about. That doesn't make me racist because I'm not going to eat bullshit that someone calls pudding.
@BoopBoopBeep My point is you don't often see white men being aggressive with their black girlfriends, maybe because they worry it will make them have some kind of racist image.
@ManOnFire Right, you just rephrased the same thing. My point is still I don't know what you're talking about because I haven't ever found that to be the case
@ManOnFire I'm never going to cow down to a woman because of her skin color. She says some dumb ist i'ma call her out, white, black, blue or brown. life's too short for that nonsense. you start acting a fool, get up in my face, i'm going to sit you down for your safety. Don't matter what you look like
alpha males and alpha females don't mix. because two people can't be leading at the same time. alpha males can only get along with a truly feminine woman. alpha males like to lead and have a big ego. Alpha females like to take the reins/ go for what she wants, and have things her way. If alpha female dated an alpha male, they would be clashing and fighting all the time. Truly feminine women like to sit back and let the alpha male take the lead and do all the work. Truly feminine women do not like to chase.
I mean, the whole alpha concept, scientifically, doesn't exist in humans. There's just like, introvert/extravert, type A/type B, etc and those are really just categories we've made to explain trends, and not actual dividers between humans.
But to answer your question, I think it can work depending on the person, but they say "opposites attract" for a reason. Two very strong, emotionally independent people will probably butt heads a lot.
There is no such thing as "alpha female" in nature except for a very few matriarchal species such as hyenas. What is called an "alpha female" is a female with "alpha male" traits, which include aggressiveness, competitiveness, disagreeableness, etc. Most men are not into such combination, having to compete outside the house and inside also.
Of course. I married a woman who, in those terms, would have certainly been labeled an alpha. And we have always matched each other quite well. Even now that we've both mellowed quite a lot, and people who still use those terms may say we've become "bettas," we still match each other. And our relationship still works nicely.
I don't think it would have worked at all if we had any sort of hierarchy or complimentarianism to out relationshipâI've never had any relationship like that work out. So in my experience, it's not even a question whether two "alphas" or two "bettas" could make it in dating. I know that. I do wonder how people manage to date others with such different temperaments to their own though. That's what sounds more unlikely to me.
First of all, it's total bollocks. A biologist observed wolves, and misunderstood what he saw completely. Then, non-biologists read his report and thought it applied to humans. âAlpha males" don't exist among wolves, and even if they had existed, this would have no bearing at all on humans.
Secondly, She-hulk and Hulk are cousins. They did shack up in one storyline entitled, âOld Man Loganâ.
Wolverine retired from being a superhero after he was tricked into killing the rest of X-Men. Hulk had kids with She-Hulk, and they were an evil gang that ruled by fear.
They killed Wolverine's family. He went after the gang , started to kill Hulk's kids until he finally got to the Hulk who then ate Wolverine. Bursting out of the Hulk, he killed him from the inside out.
Yikes. Always feel weird to read anyone use the "alpha" mentality wording, since even its creator disproved it and put his life into undoing the damage it caused.
Assuming you mean a man and the female version of himself, I don't know any alpha males who would be interested in that. I don't look good in a dress and I don't carry myself with feminine poise and grace, but I do look for that in a woman of caliber with whom I'll invest my most important resource, my time.
Hell no. Alpha females are too feminist and alpha males are too anti feminist l. Theyâll constantly argue and end up hating each other. Shouldnât even be friends
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