Absolutely. This whole idea of an alpha male going after a soft-spoken shy woman is something you really only see in the movies. People generally go for someone within their own wavelength.
I'm dominant in my everyday life have always been in leadership positions. Whether that was in sports, the military, or group projects at university. I've done it all and I've always taken the role of being in charge because it's natural to me. Never once in my life have I looked at a shy soft-spoken woman and said, "Wow, she'd make a great girlfriend." Never once happened.
My fiancee is on the same level that I'm on and that's why I'm attracted to her. A soft-spoken beta would only hold me back in life. I want to take over the fucking world together with my woman.
I think alpha male and alpha female can be a good match if they both can be the follower at some points in the relationship. If you have two forces that won’t give up their dominance, it’s not going to be a good relationship. Just be a team.
If the 'alpha woman' is VERY 'alpha', well... I can't see her meshing well with an 'alpha man'. I'd imagine there would be huge ego-related issues when neither of them are willing to lay their pride down and meet in the middle.
can happen. but they have to cut some slack on that dominance to make it work
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You're screwed.
However, you might get by if you have an easy going guy who isn't submissive. He'll let you lead and have what you want, but, if you are about to screw up, he'll assert himself to protect.
At such a point, then there is the potential for conflict and argument. You need to listen to him at that point because if you don't, there'll be long run problems. It is OK to still go with your choice at times or convince him to your side but he may be right too and you should let him win - both for your sake because he is trying to protect you, but also because he will remain emotionally invested in the relationship.
Even if you're an alpha you probably want to find balance in a relationship. Depending on how dominant you are you have to choose a partner that reflects just what you need to find that balance. I advise to throw terms like alpha out the window, you are attracted to who you're attracted to. Simple as that.
Depends on the guy. If he's a beta alpha "wannabe" it's all about insecurity and you might find yourself with an abusive child or a maniac. a true alpha male recognizes "game" and will see you as a challenge. If you enjoy being challenged and you two make each other better in the process, you've just formed a power couple.
It's all in your head. Being "Alpha" is irrelevant when you're in a relationship because compromise is the key. Let's be honest. When you fall in love with someone, you usually let your walls down and your behavior changes towards that person. So yeah you might be a badass to everyone, but with your spouse you will be the complete opposite.
So don't play into the whole Alpha thing because you'll sabotage your relationship before you even get into one.
Almost never, actually. The alpha female generally rejects males that try to be dominant, even if he is still respectful. Alpha males are all about being dominant and respectful
The guy who coined the phrase “alpha male” in the 70’s took it all back saying it is an oversimplification and total bullshit, wolves and humans both don’t behave like that. Power can be from any number of different factors from wealth, political power, physical size, intellect, comedy, musical and other talents. That being said I like a strong woman.
There's nothing such "alpha" male or female it started with wolves but later they discovered that they were made mistakes in their studies and what they thought was the alpha male was just a father checking on his puppets so "alpha" whatever don't exist.
I think follow your heartand nit your mind.. it sounds like. Ur already planing ur takeover of the world.. or relationship you work together as a team you both lead Feel Like Making Love when both doing your part it's an out-of-body experience
You don't get alphas and betas in human societies. If you mean a dominant then switch or someone verging more on a dominant but not quite as dominant as you would probably work best
A good match for a leader personality traits all depends on the person themselves. It's not as simple as alpha and beta
Alpha male and female can get along very well. Eg me and Sam. On the other hand alpha female and orthodox follower don't get along after some time. Eg my parents.
There is no such thing like α male/female. Not in humans.
Well as far as canines the alpha female will only mate with the alpha male
there's always an alpha male thats out there for an alpha female.
y'all might clash but in the end he's the 1 in charge
No it dont mix you need a submisive type of guy that likes to get dominated it sounds ridiculous I know but its the way I see it :p
there's no such thing as an"alpha" female thats basically an oxymoron.
The alpha females that I know like to have sex with the alpha males but date the submissive ones
There are no such things as alphas and betas. We are not wolves.
Some one you can take into submission by surprise maybe?
Maybe you can lead the relationship
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