Girls, What’s something you wish more men knew how to do better?

[Mybeachlife8888]

Can be anything from communication to sexual stuff. Be genuine and honest. Don’t hold back!

[CubsterShura]

1. Communicate. Not saying spill everything out when you're not ready for it, but a lot of men need to work on their communication skills.

2. Boundaries. It's sad how many men still don't understand the basic of setting and respecting boundaries, and also understand consent.

3. Sensation play. Every encounter with a man was a struggle to explain the fun of foreplay beyond the "obvious". I understand that it is very delicate and technical but I just wish more men understood the absolute power of light touches.

4. Cunnilingus. No explanation needed.

[Anemone978]

• I wish men didn't take my unhappiness so personally
• Would be more romantic and caring..
• Treated me more like a woman / did little things for me
• Talked to me about decisions, instead of telling me the day of the matter
• Told me more about their feelings, dreams, motivations
• Actually wanted to talk and spend time together like when we were dating
• Paid attention and stopped being on their phone 24/7
• Listened to my problems instead of trying to fix them or if my problem was about them, not get defensive about it.. just fucking listen!
• Touched me gently and romantically, not just when they want sex
• Gave me pleasure like I give him pleasure..

[jennifer_bloom]

I wish guys were empathetic and loyal to girls. Cause some guys lack empathy but are loyal and others are empathetic but lack loyalty cause they are so nice they know that many girls would be interested in them so they abandon their girlfriends when new prospects are offered to them.

[Ezra_lila]

* I wish they knew that when we are silent something is bugging on our mind. Something they did that make us feel unwanted.

* Talking or saying its okay when its actually not.

* Saying there need orgasm and let them have it but ours not. We need to feel the pleasure and satisfaction too. Its a give and take

*Small thing matters

*Saying we're appreciated and love

*Assurance. Woman loves assurance so we know where we stand. Not just hanging on the cliff

* When they want their space but don't give us our own room too.

*Being open on how they feel truly. Not saying, they can't because man often keep everything on themselves. That what man does. Fuck the culture! we also care. We also wanted man to share their ups and down. Not just us saying we're not emotionally okay. We can be your safe box too.

Just wish it!

[BunBun369]

Honesty. I wish guys weren't so afraid to tell the truth! If a man could just tell the truth from the beginning. Both parties would be happier. I'm like what are you afraid of? We are all humans and we all fuck up. But it's not fair to the other person when you don't give them the full truth.. you're taking the choice away to be free or to stay.
(Not just for men but in general) so basically if you feel you need to lie then maybe you shouldn't do it.

[BasedBaeBecca]

I wish more men knew that sometimes, less is more. Too much pressure or attention isn't always necessary in some situations, it can even do more harm than good. Sometimes, just listening, being there for someone and giving them time and space to think and to heal is sufficient. But most often, women just want to be heard and understood, so it's important to listen and to engage in healthy communication without trying to fix things all the time.

[marrk]

Take criticism. I think all humans could do this better to be fair, but if I say “that hurt my feelings,” don’t make it about you. Just apologize and don’t do it again. I shouldn’t have to somehow comfort you because you’re “contemplating all your mistakes you’ve made”

It’s not that deep.

[marrk]

Side note, I love that you asked this! 👏

[Anonymous]

• That sometimes we just want to rant.. and not a logical responce to "solve" the issue.
• We dont want you to see us as less but we want to look up to you lol dont ask how it makes sense..

[Mybeachlife8888]

Yeah doesn’t make sense and never will, but thank you for your input

[Opinion Owner]

Lol yeah

If I try to explain the second one is because women are nattually submissive and we wanna lean on you and learn from you. But we still want you to view as as equal in value.

[Melody7685]

Ooof my biggest peeve is ranting and the guy coming off as “Defending” the other person to get me to understand that persons side

[Opinion Owner]

@Melody7685 ommmmmg yesss! It makes me wanna take a flip flop and throw it at his face😭🤣🤣💀

[marrk]

@Mybeachlife8888 to her second point, and she can correct me if I’m wrong, but I take it as we want to have a man who we can respect. So make respectful choices. Be a good leader of the family who we can trust and stand behind. But also ask and value our input knowing we are independent and intelligent human beings.

[Sirenboobzilla]

To let our mood swings run their course. Hormones can be a giant pain in the uterus... literally

[marrk]

LMAO 🤣

[Robertjo16]

I wish they knew how to communicate better all around. Sexually, emotionally, spiritually. Its drives me nuts. Except for some of the good guys out there 😉

[Anonymous]

pay attention. remember little things. give small gifts randomly. open the car door for me (not just the door to a building). don't talk about previous relations, ever. it's in the past for a reason and we just don't want to hear about it.

[Opinion Owner]

also, stop being late!!

[Elliegirl]

We don’t want you to fix things or give solutions all the time. We just want you men to listen to us.