I've known this girl for just around a year now. She's a 20 year old virgin who owns her own business, is a model, with no debt and is about to get her master's in accounting.
My parents love her, and me and her parents get along pretty well. We're both Americanized with Caribbean roots, and she leaves me sexually satisfied for sure, she also cooks for me, cleans for me, agreed to be a stay at home wife and raise my children, and we're both creatives so we help each other with our hobbies.
She's actually the camera lady for all my music videos, and makes all of my brand logos for free. She runs a club to help kids with disabilities as well. I don't know tho.
I heard the dating market was pretty terrible but wanted to experience it before I settle down.
Do you think I'm making a terrible mistake? Should I continue dating this girl and marry her. She treats me like gold but I don't know.
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Honestly if she makes you happy go for it.
Dating around is overrated if you know what you want. She seems pretty great.
Though I would update your choice of wording. You're not "choosing" her. You are entering a partnership with a very competent woman who seems to really have her shit together. Saying "should I choose her" makes it sound like she herself doesn't have a choice in this.
I could be misinterpreting your intention with that wording (I have been wrong about that stuff before), but every guy I know who uses the term "I choose her" usually ends up treating women like accessories vs partners. Just want to make sure you have the best chance here because she sounds great.
I am looking for the downside. I can't see it. If you don't date her than maybe I will.
I would keep this Lady, although I do not believe I world make her be a "stay Home" wife.