At what age is someone not young anymore?

[Anonymous]

At what age can you not point at someone and say that "they are young"?

[Orion84]

Most people would venerally say 30 is the cutoff point.

Most people are still developing into their 20's, and then working on getting their life together. They go through their partying phase (assuming they even have one), and begin to establish themselves as adults.

Once they hit 30, it's generally accepted that they've fully matured, or should have, and have set themselves on their path in life. Obviously, that can still change, and everyone is different, but physically, they've reached their peak, and begin to decline, albeit slowly, after 30.

That doesn't mean their life is already over, by any means. It's simply that they've transitioned out of young adulthood, and reached the "full adult" stage of their life.

What matters, though, is how a person feels. I'm nearly 40, and while I don't feel like a kid anymore, I'm comfortable in my adult life, and have a long time, yet, before I'll even begin to feel "old".

[Asker]

Oh alright, well said!

[Orion84]

Thanks!

I also just want to add: you're not even 18, yet. You shouldn't be worrying about getting older. At least not for a while.

If you spend all your time worrying about aging, you will miss out on enjoying your time while you're young. Then, many years down the road, when you are actually old, you'll regret all the time you spent worrying about it, instead of enjoying yourself.

I don't mean this in a bad way, but you're basically still a kid. Old age is so far away, for you, it shouldn't even register, yet. Enjoy being young while you can, and stop worrying! 🙂

[Asker]

I cannot really enjoy my youth. I am 16, I have an ugly and unattractive face (many men of all ages have told me this). I also look older than my age, people think I'm 25.
I have strict parents, no friends, I'm not allowed to go outside, I have no boyfriend etc. I want to get married and have kids but no man of the same religion that could be a father and that I am compatible with wants to marry me. I am ugly and unattractive to them, and it only gets worse the older I get because I lose even more value.

Thank you though, I appreciate the advice.

[ShadowYamihiro]

When you definitely stop feeling young, I'm currently 30 but haven't felt you since maybe 23-ish, when you feel deep inside yourself like you have slowed don't in some way then you can say you are really getting older, its not about physical part as it is about mentality and feeling

[Anonymous]

I guess it just depends from person to person. I think about thirty is the cut off. That's when I say "Okay, you're basically an adult."

Of course, people can mature before then or maybe not even by then.

For me, 1-20: Child
21-24: Young adult
25-29: Nearly adult

(Subject to change)

[Asker]

Okay, why exactly 30?

[Berethor]

After 25-30 Woman is Becoming Old, she Become a Christmas Cake, That's How It's Works.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Christmas_Cake

[Asker]

What about a man?
Also I have another question. If you married a woman when she was let's say 23 years old. Young and inexperienced, would you leave her once she is 25-30 or older because you don't find her attractive? Would you go lust after younger girls?

[Berethor]

A Man Can Have a Child at Any Age, no I would Not Leave an Old Woman For That. :)

https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age

[Asker]

Yes of course men can have kids at any age, but of course he also becomes old. I am asking when he is at his prime and when he becomes old? A man can be old and have children, I'm not asking about fertility.

Ok good! Would you lust after younger women though?

[Berethor]

Fertility have a lot to do with being Old, yea Most Men Lust After Younger Women. :)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypergamy#Research

[Asker]

Yes but men aren't young forever, no one is. You haven't answered my question for when men are old.
There can be no young men if there aren't old men either. There is no light without dark.
So you will lust even when married?

[Berethor]

Almost everyone lust even when married, but we can control ourselves, it all that matter.

[Asker]

Oh damn, well I hope I get a man that is part of the rare ones who don't lust, Those are some true diamonds.

You still haven't answered my question though.

[Berethor]

What question? for me a virgin is a true diamond, I don't want baggage of non-virgin.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Virgin_Power

[Asker]

My question that you haven't answered is when men are old, like at what age.
Nice, I hope you can get a virgin woman one day then.
Is a woman a virgin if she's masutrbated but not slept with other men or had any sexual relations with others?

[Berethor]

Same age as women? I am getting old, yea she's virgin if masutrbated without toys.

[Asker]

Why would she not be a virgin if she masturbated with toys or fingers?

[Berethor]

Because if he torn her hymen then she is not virgin anymore, at least not physically.

[Asker]

Well then that's settled then, I'm not a virgin. I haven't been with a man but I've torn my hymen myself, I took my own virginity lol

[Berethor]

I see, you are like man now, you lost the proof, you might be virgin mentally still, might.

[Asker]

Well, it is what it is. God knows I haven't been with a man, I can't change my old masturbation habits I had in the past.
What do you mean mentally?
Well you know what, I will bond with myself then. I can proudly say no man took my virginity, but I took it myself. No man can ever have the privelage of saying that he took my virginity, because I took it myself. I kinda like it
So is my body count 1 then? How does this work? The more objects I masturebate with the more my body count goes up despite not being with a man?
Oof, well I guess I am like a man then, men are sexy though so I'm cool with being one if that's what this makes me

[Berethor]

You funny. Virgin mentally is like a man, a man don't not born with hymen. Why you didn't wanted to give the man the privilege of taking your virginity? why you did it yourself? no your body count is still 0, but you lost your proof so who knows if it really 0. You a tomboy, you like to be like a man? :)

[Asker]

Thanks for the compliment.
Well, if he can't prove himself to be a virgin and neither can I then it is what it is, he will have to take my word for it and I will have to take his word for it.
I did want a man to take my virginity, my future husband. I broke my hymen myself at 13 out of curiosty. I always masturbated my external parts, and when I found out about sex and more about masturbation I was wondering why I had no hole down there and why it hurt if I tried to touch my vagina. I didin't know what a hymen was, I had never heard of it. I thought there was something wrong with me, so I searched the internet and I thought I had vaginismus.
I came on here and asked what was wrong with me and people also said that I had vaginismus. I was scared that sex would hurt for me in the future and that I'd never be able to enjoy it. People here on Gag told me to get aroused, warm and slowly insert something in myself to practice it not hurting.

[Asker]

So when I was 13 I sat in the bathroom with a Q-tip and I slowly inserted the Q-tip into myself. It hurt but it worked, I broke my hymen a bit. After a few days I tried the next step and inserted a toothbrush end into myself (not the whole thing) and that's how I completely broke my hymen.
It didin't hurt as much anymore and I was happy because now I thought that if I got married sex wouldn't hurt as much.
A year later (when I was 14) I found out what a hymen was and why it was important, why I shouldn't have broken it etc but it was too late. I wish I had known before that I shouldn't have broken it. Yeah so I was devestated but I just had to accept the situation for what it was.
At least it won't hurt as much if I ever get married.

So what took my virginity was actually a Q-tip, a toothbrush and my 5 fingers.
The biggest things I've inserted into myself is my toothbrush and middle finger.
I haven't inserted anything that is penis-sized yet and I don't want to because I don't want to stretch out my vagina more than I had. My future husband will be the biggest thing that has been inserted to me.

[Asker]

Sometimes, sometimes I wish I was a man.
A handsome man has an easy life, everything comes to him so easily. Men can also do what they want, wear what they want, say what they want, people respect them for their qualities, not the way that they look.
A woman's value is completely based on how attractive she is and how old she is. She could be smart, kind, rich and men wouldn't care. They would only look at how old she is and how beautiful she is.
But a , man can be ugly and old but be rich, smart and kind and people will actually acknowledge those qualities, both men and women.
Women are born with value, men work for their value.
What sucks is if a woman isn't born beautiful she has pretty much no value, and she can't work to get her value.

Men also have a biological advantage. They are stronger bone density, they are stronger, build muscle easier, have less body fat, they are taller, faster, etc.
I would like to be a man sometimes, but I'm a woman and have to live with it

[Berethor]

Women also valued for their virginity, not only beauty and young age, so there is that.

allthetropes.org/wiki/Nature_Adores_a_Virgin

[Asker]

Yes, but they needs all three or unless they ar enot valuable. Since I'm only young but not a virgin or beautiful I am worthless.

[Berethor]

So you are not virgin? because you torn your hymen, you should not done that, yea.

[Asker]

I am not a virgin according to you

[Berethor]

You lost your proof is what I said, and you not physically virgin anymore yea.

[Asker]

It's not the end of the world if I'm not a virgin, I'm cool with it

[Berethor]

Virgins are best, you want to try Immortal Clash, and join my Team? :)

play.google.com/.../details

[Asker]

Well one can't always be the best, I'm cool with not being a virgin. If a man loves me it's for my personality and not my hymen. If a man doesn't want me because I don't have my hymen intact then it is what it is, I don't want him either then. He can go find some other girl since there's a bunch of virgin girls out there.

Oh I don't play that game sorry.

[slatyb]

I believe if I refuse to grow old, I can stay young 'til I die.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRC46cgJnnI&t=6s

[LiamJHayden]

When he or she thinks so. I've known old 20 year olds and young 60 year olds.

[artgorgeous]

At 50 I guess.

[MementoMori777]

Past 25 I think

[Asker]

Rip I hate aging

[MementoMori777]

Don't we all ha

[Asker]

Men have it easier with aging than women

[MementoMori777]

Depends what you mean by easier and on genetics as Well, if you mean how society sees it then maybe you are partially right

[Asker]

Yes, on society. Women are only desireable when they are 18-24 and then they are worthless. Men are desirebale throughout their whole lives and do not get shamed for being old, being unmarried and old, being old and having standards, etc.

[MementoMori777]

Maybe to a certain point, it's not really the age but more on their looks that change because of age, some look better than others and people believing women do have a peaking age does exist but it all depends on many things, there's guys out there that prefer older women just how there's guys that dont, it's basically random, your form of society might just be from the internet although one thing I know is that age is used for assuming and that's the worst part I guess, if a woman is single or divorced in their 30s it creates assumptions on why, which in a way is what causes this undesirable illusion, the thing I do know is that if a woman is past her 30s and single and is good material, they have to put in more effort to make that noticeable, the problem isn't really the age itself if the woman still has a good physical appearance, it's the spaces in between all those years that creates assumptions, it's either a bad physical appearance, bad marriage material, or just bad at choosing men in general which this last one usually leads to further bad decisions but realistically no one thinks of the uncommon, millions of other reasons like maybe social anxiety, independence, self isolation, these are just three out of the million reasons, my point is that assumptions are easy to make and in this topic, the first three are the most common and easiest to assume which leads to people avoiding these older women.

[Apple1996]

35-40

[exitseven]

Fifty.

[Asker]

Why 50?

[exitseven]

That is when i started to slow down.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[exitseven]

I just cannot do what I used to be able to do. I try really hard to stay in shape but I get tired more easily and if I get injured it takes a lot longer to heal. I am not as strong as I used to be either. It really started when I turned 50.

[exitseven]

There is a good reason why you do not see pro athletes over 50.

[JackCarter]

35 I think