How can I use such a strong decision to self improve against them? It should be respected, rather.
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Give me a more specific example. What would it take for it to be a weapon? Just mentioning it?
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If they’ve genuinely changed then no of course not.
But if they’re continuing the same behavior as before then yeah I’d probably bring it up. I wouldn’t say I’m using it as a weapon though, more exposing a patternFuck no, that sounds awful to do to someone.
No, I wouldn't, and I wouldn't stay with someone who did.
No never... everyone is entitled to make mistakes... as long as they learn from them. If they keep doing it then it's a different story
No, it's pointless, anti-productive and rather cruel. It demonstrates a real lack of compassion and a very small person.
No. Never. Past is the past. Cannot harp on it. Look forward never backward.
i do when she crosses boundaries and when she hits below the belt
Not really but I do bring it up sometimes
No because I had mine used against me
No I would not
Nope.
Never
Nope. Encourage them
Absolutely not.
maybe
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