Would you go back to a partner that hit you?

[AliceTheNguyener]

Well, looks like someone with anxiety was less attractive to her than a guy who literally beats her 🙄 Honestly I would feel bad for her lack of self confidence, but I don't tolerate people who keep going towards trouble. I'm sorry if you still have feelings for her but you deserve better than her, just like she deserves better than her boyfriend.

I have a friend who knows someone like this. She has been breaking up and getting back with a guy who hit her AND cheated on her more than once. Its because of a combination of blind love/lust and low self esteem for oneself. Your ex said she "regrets it" because in the moment she did regret it, but then threw it aside when her boyfriend called her over.

[Cherokeehp]

Yeah I’d go back to beat his ass.

[dudeinohio]

Typical. Women run back to their abusers. The abuser escalates and the woman finally ends up in the hospital, or dead.

The abuser makes the victim cut all ties with friends and family, in order to make them totally dependent upon them. Your ex has no place to go or a safety net and depends totally on him.

[Jjpayne]

The sad part is people go back to those they are familiar with and to boot, they prefer staying with a protector. If someone is physically abusive but they are strong, it oddly enough might be enough to help them to feel safer than being alone but that second one is just a guess... 😅

[justaspacerockthing]

that's disgusting on both her and her new boyfriends ends. she shouldn't have broken up with you due to your anxiety. and he should've never hit her. he sounds like a shitty boyfriend who doesn't know how to treat people with respect. she shouldn't be with him, but it's hard to get out of abusive relationships. try to help her out of it if you can, or find someone to at least.

[shafvron]

A younger me would have but I have met so many amazing people (mostly women) who have shared their experiences with domestic violence (or intimate partner violence) that I’ve learned the pros of leaving far outweigh the cons of it. And that once someone has shown you their true colours they don’t change. Maybe after they’ve been in therapy and have had a year or two to work on themselves it may be different but two strikes and call it quits as the more cycles are repeated the harder it is to get out.


Of course you have to be careful when moving out that you do it fast and without warning if it gets super serious as your partner could kill you if they seek what you are doing (like many have done).

[Xoxocutekitty]

Yeah probably. Not because I'm some low-esteem emo girl, but just because my assumption is that I've already built a life around my partner and that I would want to give them the benefit of the doubt before dumping them on the spot, and not having a place to sleep. Maybe it's different because I live with my partner, but it does make you think differently if you've had a long history of being happy together. Things like couples counselling and anger management therapy and religion is designed for these sorts of things.

If it's some quasi- boyfriend who I was still "in the process of getting serious with" (y'all know what i mean) then no, I'd pack my 1 backpack or drawer worth of stuff and high tail it out.

[Alpha09]

She's trying to manipulate you. If she wanted out she would call the police, it sounds like she's trying to pull you into something you definitely don't want any part of. However I could be wrong, just look for visible marks and above all keep yourself safe. Sounds like she fucked up by leaving you.

[alice55]

Depend on how much I love him and how hard he hit me. I'm used to being hit for multiple reasons by my mother so if he don't hit me too hard, I feel like he love me, I love him a tons much and others than that everything is ok then yes I would come back to him.
Lots of girls say they wouldn't but in reality a big portions of people (men and women) who get abused actually go back to their ex...

[Citizenkirk]

My ex partner and I sparred a lot, but we were both competitive fighters, and sometimes incorporated grappling and wrestling with foreplay. But raising a hand, or your voice, in anger, is a big no, no, and should never be tolerated.

[JamesRandiDebates]

You have to remember, there are a significant portion of females who don't feel loved unless they're being slapped around occasionally. They will provoke the violence. And if their man won't hit her, they will leave that guy for someone who will. Be very careful about believing any claim of abuse from a female.

[chevymcgthatsme]

No way one a women beater always one jst hook him right fkn bck but punch eez baws guys tht hit women make me sick let's see you do tht I I wasn't a women dick head

[1031ent]

Bro that is a trap. Don't get sucked into other people's drama. Also her snap chat may have been b. s. Men were raised to fight to get their way, woman are raised to manipulate to get their way. You are being manipulated.

[Elsa143]

Your ex girlfriend is a pure bitch. She just denied a good guy and is attracted more to a masculine fuck boy. She's a sinner for hurting you.

[DizzyDesii]

Go back to beat him tf up in return then leave AGAIN

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I would never go back to an abusive partner and I would not go back to an ex-partner who went back to their ex cause 90 chances out of 100 this will be a repeated pattern?

[PaganWarrior]

No. She may be a bitch, but she doesn't deserve to have his hands on her. Weak little man. Love see him try push a real man around. Pussy.

[NorthwestRider]

For one thing I am getting married

If I was single, I would only if it was a playful or sexual slap hehe

[Old_Golden]

It'd show they had enough emotions to care about me, so yeah

[McKellar]

I don't have an answer, but I do often question that myself.

[DaMack999]

Woman often do that. Dick is sweeter to them then the abuse lol.

[legalboxers]

I maybe stupid.. if I go back to the ex who tried strangling me

[Bee-Hatch]

Only if it was to twat him in the balls with a rolling pin

[btbc92]

What? Then I must be crazy. The answer is No!!!

[Nazgol]

No never. That guy clearly has issues & needs a whack in the head! "Video games"! Lol immature and childish guy

[Walamagicc]

I wouldn’t be able to

[Nikki1989]

I would never go back.

[ManHater]

Women do all the time.

[catsandbroadway]

Never. Not in a million years.

[icequeen03]

Yeah no, I wouldn't. That is too much

[Agem123]

I would never.

NEVER!!

[FlyGirl95]

Nope.

[StarryCrossing]

Nope. Never.

[Agape93]

Never.

[OceanMelon]

Nope

[Wewladdy]

Lmao

[JEndigoBleue]

Nope!

[JakeS00]

Not at all.

[msc545]

Hell no.

[jimmy2]

No way