Would you sabotage your ex's next relationship prospect?

[Anonymous]

My ex has recently become friends with someone I'm interested in. In fact the reason I got with my ex is because I came to her for advice and she eventually revealed her feelings for me. My ex doesn't hate me but still has seen me at my weakest and worst. I've been afraid to approach this other woman because I don't know what my ex has said or will say about me.

Yes

No

If they were really bad

[HollyK21]

I think I would pursue someone else. To be fair I doubt your ex said anything negative about you, but usually as girl code we won’t date our friends’ ex’s.

[JoyGirl]

I mean, if she doesn’t hate you, then why would she talk about you in a bad way to them?

You may want to proceed with cation, tho. 🥴

[SlothySlob]

How fucking petty do you need to be to act like a child to this degree.

[Anonymous]

No, and the worthless people that do that are unworthy of respect.

[Opinion Owner]

An ex of mine tried her best to destroy my marriage, up to and including threatening my wife and her family.

[aanibaani]

tbh i don't really care what he's doing in life