Is There a Way to Only Go On a First Date with a Woman without Ex-boyfriend?

[Shiningtempest]

I am asking this question because I don't want to go on a first date with a woman with an ex-boyfriend. I also don't want to go on a first date with a woman with sex partner (s), & or who went through divorce. Holding everything else equal, I'd rather be a bachelor than date a mature woman with an ex-boyfriend.

[Redstang88]

You could try, but at 28 those days are a decade or so behind you dude

[Shiningtempest]

@Redstang88 What's that supposed to mean?

[Redstang88]

Means at your age any woman remotely age appropriate has some sort of dating history

[Shiningtempest]

@Redstang88 Well, I'm out of luck.

[Redstang88]

Guess so

[Billlewis]

I don't know... that's a tough one.

[Shiningtempest]

@Billlewis Why is it tough to find a woman without ex-boyfriend?

[Billlewis]

Unless she's 14 years old, etc.

[mandyfire98]

Because most adults have dated someone.

[Shiningtempest]

@mandyfire98 I don't date a woman with an ex-boyfriend because it's a recipe for heartache.

[mandyfire98]

Are you assuming it is?

[Shiningtempest]

@mandyfire98 I know dating a woman with an ex-boyfriend won't end well. It's also an important dating principle.

[mandyfire98]

How do you know this? You see the future?

[Shiningtempest]

@mandyfire98 I know it because a woman with an ex-boyfriend is a warning sign of horrible omen & or failure on either side.

[mandyfire98]

So how do you know that if you ever get into a relationship that you won't be the one that fails?

Are you infallible?

Just because one relationship didn't workout doesn't mean all of that person's relationships will fail in the future.

[Shiningtempest]

@mandyfire98 I know that I will fall if I get into a relationship with a woman with an ex-boyfriend because of incompatibility. It's that simple.

[mandyfire98]

What makes it incompatible?

[mandyfire98]

Just because she's had a boyfriend before?

[mandyfire98]

You're not explaining why at all. You just keep saying it won't work if they were in a relationship that failed once. So I'm asking why do you think just because one failed all of their relationships will now fail?

[Shiningtempest]

@mandyfire98 It's simple. A failed relationship will haunt that person for a long time. Thus, relationship that failed once will become a permanent mental scar.

[mandyfire98]

Maybe to some but plenty of people have multiple relationships throughout their life and end up finding the love of their life.

Actually only being in one relationship is extremely rare in this world. It's not common at all and pretty much impossible to find.