What's Bad about Not Wanting to Date a Woman with an Ex-Boyfriend?

[Shiningtempest]

I don't want to date a woman with 1 or more ex-boyfriend (s) because I don't want to deal with headaches that comes with it. I also don't want to date a woman with 1 or more ex-boyfriend (s) because it goes against my ethics. Holding everything else equal, I'd rather be a bachelor than dating a mature woman with 1 or more ex-boyfriend (s).

[EricSummer]

It's not a good idea to limit your choice on this extreme way. If you meet wimen in real life you will have to abandon the flirting as soon as you find out she has been with a man before which will be 95% of the cases.

In principle it could work in online dating, but this is tough for men even without such limitations.

If you are religious you may find a like-minded woman in your community.

Even here on this site there was a guy with the same obsession and same age who permanently stayed single (@SouthernWhiteGuy).

[Shiningtempest]

@ericsummer If not wanting to date a woman with an ex-boyfriend means being permanently single, that's fine with me. I'm willing to rule out 95% of women to make sure I don't date a woman with 1 or more ex-boyfriend (s).

[EricSummer]

Ok, that's fine then.

[exitseven]

Everyone has a past. I had ex girlfriends and my wife had ex boyfriends. We were in our 20s and were not little kids.

[Shiningtempest]

@exitseven I'll most likely be a bachelor because I can only date a woman with no ex-boyfriend (s). I'll remain bachelor because I highly doubt any woman would be compatible with my rigid & routine based lifestyle (e. g. going to bed by 10 pm).

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[XHopelessRomanticX]

You’re 28, most women your age have already had 1 boyfriend. Statistically speaking, girls start dating in their early teens and usually have their first kiss around 15-16.

You might be single for a while.

[Shiningtempest]

@XHopelessRomanticX I am willing to dismiss potential matches to ensure I only go on a date with a woman with no ex-boyfriend (s).

[XHopelessRomanticX]

And that’s fine, but as you get older it’s going to be more and more difficult to find that specific type of woman.

[Shiningtempest]

@XHopelessRomanticX If finding a woman without ex-boyfriend (s) becomes more difficult as I get older, that's fine with me.

[HollyK21]

The only way you’re dealing with a headache is if she’s still dealing with her ex.

[Shiningtempest]

@hollyk21 I consider a woman with one or more ex-boyfriend to be a dealbreaker because I see it as a sign of misfortune.

[HollyK21]

But what would her misfortune have to do with you? Why does it determine her value in your mind?

[Shiningtempest]

@hollyk21 Her amount of ex-boyfriend determine my probability of a successful relationship with her. I consider a woman with one or more ex-boyfriend to be a sign of misfortune because I see it as an indication of incompatibilities in a long run.