What does it mean when a girl says she wants Casual but no dating?

[Anonymous]

I asked a girl what she was looking for on this dating app. I had just matched with her then. She said "Casual, but no dating". Is she just looking for sex? Or is it like companionship but with no commitment drama? If I go ahead with this, does it not involve me trying to get to know her at all? It's a first for me so kinda confused.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

She wants a friend with benefits, meaning an actual friend, someone she can hang out with and vibe with and have sex on occasion. Not a booty call, not a one and done hook up, she doesn’t want the relationship to be pure sex, she wants the platonic aspect too

[Asker]

Makes a lot of sense. Is it better to try and chat to her first or should I invite her out straight away and go ahead from there?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Talk to her and let her set boundaries before you try to set up a hang out

[spartan55]

Sounds like she just wants you to fuck her and leave. Just follow her lead in terms of chit chat when you hookup. 👍

[Anonymous]

Use your words, talk to her.

[Asker]

How do I ask about this without sounding needy myself. Cause girls usually perceive guys as desperate if they try to ask more about these things and that is the last thing I am.

[KrakenAttackin]

Fuck Buddy.