Is telling a woman which having strong feelings for her telling her "I love you" kinda early on in the beginning stages tacky or creepy to you?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I catch feelings quick. I can't help it.

It's fine.

It's tacky/creepy.

Other.

[WhiteSteve]

I wouldn’t say it’s tacky or creepy, necessarily. The concern would be that you’d come off disingenuous or possibly too desperate. If you catch feelings, that’s fine, but you don’t have to say everything you think out loud. I’d say you’re better served to just BE loving with someone. True love is “even if you went through a windshield and were quadriplegic and needed everything done for you while not being able to give anything back physically, I’d still take care of you until my dying day.” So I try not to throw it around unless I feel like that. It’s entirely possible to have very strong feelings for someone while not quite being at that level. Probably best to hold it back a bit until you’re confident she’d say it back, otherwise you run the risk of freaking her out and it’s “too much, too soon” for her.

[inhua]

don't you already have a wife? why is this still the beginning stages?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Not yet.

[YesterdaysChild]

Love is something that is not rushed. It takes time to arrive, yet can be quick to leave. Anything fast can simply be lust. One sure test is to not have sex until you are engaged. Now let's see how many scamper off. If love is true they will wait. Jacob worked 7 years and seven more so he could marry his wife. I would call that true love. Genesis 29:20-35

[turnpost]

That sounds one sided and abusive to be honest.

And also H no they didn't wait back then they would marry at 16. Now we have people at 30 getting and thats maybe.

[YesterdaysChild]

@turnpost There is one difference - back then they were still trying to populate the Earth as God told them to do - "Go forth and multiply." They weren't talking about math class. The younger you married back then the more kids you could pump out. There is therefore no urgency today.

[turnpost]

There was no urgency. In Gods eyes what urgency would there be any different from then till now.
Its the same urgency and it should be the same urgency in the eyes of God. What all because have condoms mean we can slow down?

I am all for waiting, I get that but waiting 7 years is way too much, I feel like poeple already do this sort of thing and before its too late they lose there partner, due to outside forces like passing away. I would say 1 year or 6 months.

[LazerBean]

I don't think it's necessarily creepy. But I do think that it needs to be a very special thing. In my mind, it's really cringe like when someone has have 5 girlfriend/boyfriend and has told all of most of them that they love them. People need to wait and evaluate really carefully so that their "I love you's" are well spent.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Lol ok..

[turnpost]

Why post the question if your going respond in such a lame fashion.

[LazerBean]

He was just acknowledging that he read my reply, it's okay.

[exitseven]

I jumped the gun on this once. All of a sudden it just slipped out. Evidently she thought it was creepy. She dumped me soon after.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I wouldn’t use the word “love” unless its someone you’ve sealed the deal with. After a couple dates or so just say you really like spending time with her and that you’d want to make things official.

[Anonymous]

Its creepy and way too soon to be telling a girl you love her.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because love takes time to develop.

[KrakenAttackin]

Just don't. She will get the "ick" once she knows she has you locked in. Make her neo the first one to say it.

[elianmuse]

Love actually takes some time. But some people also believe in love at first sight.

[Anonymous]

Better you whip it out to her surprise and say suck me beautiful

[WhiteBoyChill]

Wtf 😂

[katiesmuff]

It's tacky and creepy

[Anonymous]

Don’t tell her anything meet your girlfriend from Gag. This is the best place.

[Jamie05rhs]

I have the same problem, unfortunately.