Do guys like quiet and introverted girls? I always see guys always go for the outspoken and extroverted girl and never the quiet girl?

For the most part, introverts get along best with other introverts. Sometimes, introverts are drawn to extroverts, hoping the extroversion will rub off on them, but it doesn't work. Being around extroverts tends to just lead introverts to become more introverted, to protect themselves from that which they see as overwhelming.
Introverts can appear more outgoing within their familiar structure, but, without a functional structure, introverts tend to fade into the woodwork. The most important tool an introvert can have is effective communication skills. Once they know what works, what doesn't, and the reasons why, they can more easily interact with others. Make sure to be taught by someone who is qualified to teach these simple tools. Don't just claim you are working on it by practicing your familiar dysfunctional patterns.
I personally prefer quiet, yet communicative, women. They tend to take time to think before speaking rather than rambling aimlessly, in hopes of getting their point across. Their clarity and conciseness makes communication much smoother. It's about quality, not quantity. Their slower, more determined approach helps introverts be more aware of how their choices impact others, which often makes them more considerate of others, whereas extroverts can be oblivious or don't care about how their choices impact others.
I would say yes guys also like introvert girls the issue in such situation is that guys go by signs a girl gives him. Outspoken and extrovert girls have an advantage there because they clearly show and say a guy if they are attracted or not, quiet and introvert girls are harder for guys to figure out and might therefore feel like no guy is attracted to them.
I think what a girl in that scenario has to figure out is what she can do to get a guy´s attention and interest in because if she manages that it´s more likely that he will make a move.
Sounds like the best kind of girl to me since it can be hard to gauge if a shy girl is interested. But if she is direct, it makes it easy lol.
my mom is an extrovert, my younger sister is an extrovert and what i notice about extrovert people are that they care so much about their social status. it's fine if it involves just themselves but if it already affects other peoplw then i think it's not rigjt. for example my nephew who was a kid back then had a public meltdown on a restaurant ( the restaurant is just regular) only because he wanted to wear a slipper instead of shoes. we the slipper doesn't look bad but we my relatives are coming so my mom and sister keep forcinh him to wear shoes. i look at my mother and sister and i just feel so mad at them. my nephew just keep cryinh at the restaurant, didn't eat we have to but him slipper. extrovert people care so much even on little things that introvert people don't find important.
this is just a suspicion but extrovert males are the ones who are more likely to want trophy wives
So true, I believe extraverts do care more about their social status too, my brother is an extravert and I’m quite but friendly, I mean I just won’t go talk to people but if they talk to me I’m friendly and then take it that I’m interested I them 🤦♀️ and my partner now is an extravert and a musician and totally cares about his image and status !
It's less about guys not liking introverted women and more about extroverted women just putting themselves out there more so it increases their chances of finding a partner. Introverts tend to get along with other introverts better. I consider myself somewhere in the middle, I'm an extrovert but with a significant amount of introverted traits, almost like an ambivert, and I personally find that I prefer someone like myself too. I'm okay with someone who is also somewhere in the middle but I can't see myself in a sustainable relationship with someone who is on the either extremes.
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I like to shy quiet introvert type girl
But it was confident as a beautiful heart who is smart who can speak with her eyes who can smile and who is happy
quiet people in general are boring AF. Who wouldn't want to be around a funny vibrant extroverted person?
Sure, introverted ones are also liked. It can be harder to get to know them though.
Honestly as the quiet girl your roght the guys rarely try for us. The out going girls are more fun so why work more?
In public we are also harder to approach and look closed off. But we still want attention we are just shy about it and our flirty friend well gets the guys with her flirting while we are at the table sipping or sad drink.
Dating sites are emotionally trashing is and most guys just want sex if they try.
However some guys will try and while not all are treasure... really 🥺 look out prince charming needs to be tested on dates and no sexual pushing!
Few guys will like you and go for us shy girls! My hubby did and I'm so glad he took a risk on me and kept talking with me. Befriending me before asking me out.
You will find someone amazing and make true love together! Take small steps small baby steps and try to be a little outgoing from time to time. See what guy you catch 😏
There was a book out maybe 25 years ago called, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus," which made the point that opposites attract. Each personality type seeks out what is missing in themselves, in order to complete themselves. So introverted guys will be attracted to extroverted, outgoing women. And extroverted guys will seek out more quiet, introverted women. I'm a natural introvert, and I always was very attracted to bubbly, outgoing girls who like to laugh a lot! The problem for me, in our younger years, was that this type of girl was the least likely to want to settle down with one guy. But I eventually found one, married her, and she's great! We've been together 52 years! So this principle really works!
I like the quiet girl, but one, guys see the quiet girl as the easy one so it's not exactly the best look if you're at a gathering or party and you spend most of the time sitting in the dark corner with the shy girl. Especially when you're younger, I think.
And more importantly, I don't know anything about you because you don't talk. So now I have to worry about I have no idea what can of worms I might get into if I flirt with this girl. It could be anything from a fight with her boyfriend to getting involved in drama to being accused of being some kind of creep.
I would say yes but I was shopping after work yesterday and this very pretty girl stepped in front of me and said hi. It caught me off guard as I was debating which potato chips I should buy to go with my Cajun deli turkey sandwiches I would be making soon. She then went to the end of the isle I was in and appeared to be making a list like a vendor would do. She gave me a hard on but I did not go back to speak with her. Hopefully I will see her again there when I return every Saturday for groceries.
Point is if she had not said hi that I may never had even noticed her. Also because I did not pursue her I may never get the chance ever again. A person must be aggressive in his endeavors. Doing nothing can work but it would have to be with a continuous on going relation such as church, school, activities. Even then the person may move suddenly or just fade in to the abyss of life. None of these things can be forever so eventually even these examples will end.
*Say hi to someone you find attractive in a grocery store* noted
Quiet girls are actually my preference, and from what I've observed most men prefer the qualities that quiet girls tend to exhibit. Women that are more outspoken simply get more attention because its easier to notice. In other words, causation does not necessarily equate to causality here.
A lot of people assume that the quiet ones are boring. In fact, I know a lot of guys and girls that are quiet, but once you bring up a certain topic, they won’t shut up! It all depends honestly. It may be hard to get to know a quiet person but they’ll never be quiet for long
My brother is an introvert and can hardly get a word out of him most times but talk footy and you can’t shut him up
We like introverts too. It's just that it's easier to get talking with those who meet us half way.
Especially if we're introverts too or if we're just not socially skilled, or just shy/emotional. It can take a lot to try and be that social motivator/lubricator.
Going for someone more extroverted may just be easier.
A guiet girl is in need of a quiet man. Those people do things differently.. They are on a different plane. Never ever... Uhm nope say only 0.01 percent of the quiet men will choose extroverted girls...
I guess for the same reason girls do. ( in the end they can't handle it and they get mentally exhausted) There are enough men loving the " quiet" type 🥰
No offense, men don't like weak, timid chicks who don't have connections. They're weak and boring. Here they may tell you guys like that type bc they have issues themselves. Nirmal healthy men do not like the quiet introverts because they come off as weird , insecure, timid and boring.
You're 21, grow up you're not a girl you're a grown woman acting like a child
It’s always going to depend on the person sometimes introverted girls or guys don’t get notice because they are very quiet. You have to put yourself out there a little bit be in the right situation around people for someone to notice you and go from there.
As an introvert sigma male, I like girls that are shy. If she’s too shy, it could be an issue since we’re both introverts. But sometimes really outgoing extroverted women can overwhelm me. Sometimes they’re too much lol. It really just depends on chemistry and if she reciprocated and shows interest back. Shy girls can be fun since it can be a bit of a challenge to get them to open up and talk more. And some of the most attractive girls I’ve known/dated were shy.
Also, the best thing about an introverted girl is they’re more likely to be cool with just chilling at home or just spending time together alone since we both probably get tired hanging out in large groups. Although I’m introverted, I’m not really shy. I just don’t have much to say most of the time. Best way I can describe it is my extroverted male friend has no filter and will blurt out whatever’s on his mind whereas I have a lot of the same thoughts he does but I have an inner dialogue in my head instead of blurting it out lol. I have no problem talking and opening up with the right person if I know them well and feel comfortable around them.
Quiet and introverted girls are just boring so that's why they don't get attention besides the fact their attitude and body language projects to leave them alone.
Outspoken and friendly women make others feel welcomed and like which makes men feel comfortable talking to them.
Yes, a lot of guys like quiet girls. It's just hard sometimes to notice them, and being shy they may give the impression of wanting to be left alone. But probably the biggest problem is, being shy, they tend to not spend a lot of time at the very places where people meet.
They do but it's hard to gage interest with quit, introverted, shy women. When her reaction to a guy she likes is the same as to a complete stranger she sees on the subway she's not going to find many suitors.
TLDR- shy girls rarely show their interest and thus get overlooked as not interested.
Well if introverts don't present themselves, how will anyone know she's available or single or what not? I know I'm kinda introverted myself. Im ambivert ish. Mostly introverted, but become extrovert with the right people. So in the end I'll be single forever, since many women do not know i exist. We need to push ourselves out into the world more often.
I've always liked women that are less outspoken, and not because I can control the conversation and feel macho, I just like someone who thinks about what they have to say and not spout a bunch of crap all the time.
I love the quiet introverts the most but the only problem I'm facing is that I'm also a quiet inteovert myself so getting a conversation going is exactly easy to brake the ice when you have 2 quiet introvers together for the first time 😮💨
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