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Why don't women like nice guys who kiss their hindquarters?
No challenge. And it's not all women. Most women who behave this way simply do not know how to have a non toxic relationship. Because they're ONLY attracted to toxic traits.
Women are attracted to confidence and strength (i don't mean physical) in a man. And so many women have no f***ing clue what that looks like. So they latch on to what they percieve is confidence and strength. And many times that some dingleberry with false bravado. Half the time that "nice guy" is what she needs and would be the best match for her, she just not smart enough to see it. It's OK, some people have to learn the hard way.
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"'Hindquarters" --- Uh,. Coach, where are we going with this? Now, I have never had a girl who had a butt large enough, to be classified as 'hindquarters" (as with a horse) but that said... I patted a horse on his 'hindquarters' and he kicked me out through the stable drawers!
Because of things like Nice Guys, we come to fear male friendships as ulterior motives to attempt wooing us when we might just not be attracted to them. Be a simp if you want to, but that doesn’t mean you’re entitled to sex from the woman you simp for, nor is she obligated to do so. Being nice is kind of the baseline, we should all be nice to each other, men who think nice behavior=sex just want to be rewarded for doing the bare minimum
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I think its hot when they kiss up to me. I’ll likely do it in return. I just dont like to see them kiss their parents’, friends’ or bosses’ asses. Be submissive/vulnerable/laidback with me but be dominant/standoffish/a bit of an asshole with others 🤷♀️
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I think women like praises to a certain extent. Like anything else though too much of a good thing can be irritating.
It's nice to have someone in your corner that's positive and kisses your butt once in awhile, it shows they respect you and maybe some decisions you make in life.
On the flipside, if you kiss her ass too often, you look like a wuss and insecure as hell, because at that point you are only doing it for her adulation.
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I can tell if someone is genuine or is just in love with the idea of being in love.
Also if the feeling isn’t mutual and we’re not attracted to you like that, “kissing our hindquarters” isn’t going to change our mind. It gets annoying especially when we’ve already tried to let them down gently. Then it gets twisted and people claim we don’t like them “because” they’re nice.
All of the men I’ve been with have been sweet and attentive.
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Because the nice guy showing he is a pushover is unattractive to women. They want to known they are with a man who can lead, call them out when they act poorly and tell it how it is.
Plus it adds that level of security that makes her want to be with him and be willing to bear children. Because if a man can't stand up for himself, he won't do it for her or his kids.
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They love having a nice guy whose only desire is to kiss her ass with enthusiasm, loyalty and unsurpassed dedication. However, since she certainly isn't going to let Mr. Brown noser get his dick wet, she needs a more masculine, rebellious and charismatic guy for actual sex.
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Because it makes them think they are too good for him.
Most women want for the guy to be the bigger catch.
There is a narrow sweet spot where she feels special when that bigger catch is interested in her, but you can't cross past that line because then you give her the idea that you are the one punching up, and it becomes an ew in her mind. -
Because when someone doesn't put in a lot of effort into a task and someone else comes along with un earn complements and praise, it sets off red flags, and seems manipulative and it ussually is. If someone complements me I'm usually waiting to hear what favor they want. In these example it has woman asking what do "nice guys"tm really want.
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if you call yourself a nice guy 9.9/10 its actually just an asshole being nice to try to get laid. Hence the kiss-assing. Then they show they're nasty pricks when they don't get a blowjob for holding a door moderately open for a woman.
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Cringe level is unreal
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In Andrew Tate's wisdom: Women have sex with men they respect. If she doesn't respect you, she won't have sex with you (excluding family members of course).
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Most women have no espect for men generally.
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Because those guys are mostly fakes desperate to get laid or find a boyfriend or both
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Besides the general female aversion to weak men, most women are intuitive enough to recognize that it is an attempt at manipulating them into having sex.
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It's a false sentence, women do like simp manginas as they use them to get their money, especially post-wall women looking for beta providers.
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For someone who calls himself coach, you sure don't know much. 🤦♀️
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it makes the guy seem insecure
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Probably makes them look desperate
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Nice guys are usually not really nice
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