Why do I feel unhappy when I see a girl talk to other guys and want to intervene in their conversation?

[Anonymous]

she's not conventionally beautiful

[Anonymous]

Maybe this time you ended up liking the girl, rather than a type? I’ve done that before, with guys. It’s called growing up.

[Asker]

😳😳 liking the girl rather than a type! Very well said

[Asker]

Do you think we can fall in love with someone we once didn't find attractive?

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know.. if you had no attraction at all after a few dates or a kiss, then there’s nothing there. Have you tried all of that? I’d give it 3 dates to wait to see if their personality makes them seem more attractive to you.

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps you always loved this girl and weren’t ready to accept it? Like, you were in denial, because you wanted your freedom? Like the movie Made of Honor. Watch it sometime.

[Asker]

We never dated, we rarely talk, i used to think she was not attractive years ago but because of something i started to be curious about her, and started to observe her but now i feel upset when i see other guys talk to her.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like you’re feeling jealous.

[Opinion Owner]

My guess is you always liked her, but didn’t realise it.

[Opinion Owner]

Because you’re a handsome guy and were stuck on an idea in your head of the perfect woman.

[Asker]

You mean since I started to notice and curious about her?

[Asker]

You've spoken the truth 😂 yesss i think I'm quite handsome so the girls I've always liked were popular girls

[Asker]

How come you know that 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

I’m a woman in my thirties. There are few situations I haven’t either seen or experienced in the past.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, many, though not all, good looking guys always feel entitled to the best looking women and make having them a priority.

[Asker]

That makes sense!! Thank you : D

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome. 😊

[Opinion Owner]

What I’d do is try going on a few dates with her and see if you feel at least a little bit of chemistry around her and when you kiss. It’s best when you only feel a simmer rather than boiling over with lust.

[Asker]

😁🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

[Opinion Owner]

😊😊😊

[boggboss]

Because u are jelouse of the attention other guys are getting

[Asker]

Why would i be if i don't think I'm romantically attracted to her? 🥲

[boggboss]

Your asking ne why u feel a type of way? I'm not sure why maybe u don't get attention and are jelouse if that even if u don't like the girl

[The_Smart_Engineer]

Maybe you are jealous

[Asker]

Why would i be jealous if she's not conventionally beautiful? I used to like beautiful girls 😕