Would you say it is very concerning if a man decides to wait until around his early-mid 30s to decide if he wants to settle down with kids?

[Anonymous]

as far as fertility or sp3rm quality goes?

Yes

No

Depends

Others

[kylee2437]

I think that’s pretty normal honestly. From my experiences most men aren’t ready to take that leap until the age of 30. I find it different when men actually want to have kids before then

[Anonymous]

Not at all. Women date up and men date down. Its natural for men to wanna build a family with a younger woman and visa versa. Women want a man that is financially stable enough to care for their young and them while they are pregnant. They aren't gonna get that from some 18 year old. Men on the other hand value more beautiy, fertility, abd youth. Mens sperm quality can go down with age, but it doesn't go down that significantly. Woman on the other hand... it becomes harder and harder to concieve.

[Asker]

Yeah. I currently have enough financial issues of my own (debt, very little money in my bank account, etc.) that I now need to take care of or fix. I just barely came back to university college at 28 years old to finish where I left off after taking around a 6-7 year hiatus from college, all before I should even think about "settling down" with a potential spouse.

[Opinion Owner]

I dont think they usually go for college guys in my experience. They usually chase the guys who worked or got into trades and are physically fit

[Asker]

Depends on where you live and how much money a man makes, rather than their occupation (for the most part).

[Boromir]

Sounds fine to me. Male fertility goes down after 45-50, good to wait a bit and be a bit more mature.