Guys, If a man is 33 and says he wants kids, how long you think he will wait when finding someone new?

[bunnyboo24]

Im 24.. The guy imma date is 33. He said he wants kids.. so do I one day. But would you guess he will wait max 2 years or more?

Problaby as soon as possible

1-2 years

Longer

Updates

8 mo

I was on the date. He wants to meet again I dont. So am gonna have to tell him we aren't a match. Any way of doing it nicely?

[msc545]

You probably should get some help for your anxiety over men and finding a man and all the rest of it. It's getting tedious, honestly, bunnyboo.

[bunnyboo24]

Anxiety overall. But yeah imma start taking weed

[msc545]

Usse indicam Not sativa. Sativa will make anxiety worse.

[bunnyboo24]

Thank you

[msc545]

Sorry, that should read indica. Don't use sativa as it will make your anxiety much worse.

[bunnyboo24]

Ok cool.

[zagor]

You could always ask HIM. A lot of guys aren't in a big hurry even at 33.

[bunnyboo24]

Thats good. We talked yesterday he said we take baby steps. He said he wants to meet me first and see how it goes and later meet my family if it leads to that etc

[zagor]

Uh, yeah, if you haven't met in person yet you may be getting ahead of the game.

[bunnyboo24]

Yeah I dont wanna waste my time with those boys who aren't serious.. aka 99% thats why I ask

[zagor]

How long do you want to wait?

[bunnyboo24]

To have kids? Problaby 3 years but im not gonna waste my time being with a man who doesn't evan want kids

[genericname85]

why are you asking this? how does that matter to you?

[bunnyboo24]

A lot..

[genericname85]

i didn't ask "how much" it matters to you xD i asked "how" it matters to you.

[bunnyboo24]

Its good to hear a male perspective.

[genericname85]

dude why aren't you just answering my quesiton? i wanna understand what it's about for you. is my question hard to understand? xD

[bunnyboo24]

I just did answer you if its hard to understand my answer maybe ask someone near for help. You are asking why im asking and I answered. To hear male perspective it makes the situation more understandble.

[genericname85]

my male perspective is: whether you want a child or not should not depend on whether or not your partner is gonna stay with you for long enough till you sure you want kids. because the way you're thinking seems very irresponsible in terms of becoming a parent. that's why i was asking. since you're now answering, i'm stuck with assuming that's your reasoning for asking this.

[bunnyboo24]

No im thinking im not gonna waste my time with someone who doesn't match my future or his.

[genericname85]

no idea what that means.

[bunnyboo24]

Well thats ok you dont have too

[Anonymous]

Al Pacino just had another kid and he's 85. What's the rush?😆

[bunnyboo24]

Damn lol!

Either way we didn't continue after the date.. Just walked around and talked for 40 min then I went home to my place and he went home to his place

[ChicoFromThe305]

Ask him lol

[bunnyboo24]

SURE...

[BarryLiverstone]

Longer

[bunnyboo24]

Thats good

[Sebastian100]

Ask him