It’s been 5 days since my boyfriend hasn’t called after a stupid argument we had. Should I call or let him come to me?

[Anonymous]

I tried making plans with him on Friday, he turned that into an argument, so I hung up the phone while he was being passive aggressive to me. He hasn’t contacted me since then. Before it has always been me breaking the ice.

[lildkman1090]

Well I’d let him contact you it’s weird no matter what I would have been trying to talk to you and make sure you were ok at least bottom line to make sure your were ok seems odd you sure he didn’t start the fight on purpose

[Asker]

It seemed like he did. He accused me of having an attitude, when I clearly didn’t, only to provoke one. Then he said that he changed his mind about going out, and hoped I had a good night. I hung up on him while he was speaking, and that was it.

[lildkman1090]

He’s seeing someone else I did that to my sons mother in our first year together but I broke it off so I wasn’t cheating but she begged me to come home and that was the first time I saw her cry and that was the last time I ever saw another woman until we broke up he’s playing you

[jahaims]

Without more context it sounds like he is immature and doesn't know how to communicate

[Anonymous]

Well, if you’re always the one that finally calls back then maybe you should wait longer and see how long it takes for him

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you had an attitude.