Do females analysis everything a male does after they date?

[Anonymous]

How often does a female, completely go over every detail they can think of about a man after they date them?

[Anonymous]

Hell it's worse than that. I think when you're dating a girl they want the honeymoon phase to last forever.

As soon as it ends she is blaming the man for "not doing the things he did when we first met."

Women are constantly on the look out for if a man is "still in love with her." Women are always on the lookout for the way out to the next man.

She fears she gets pregnant and you leave her. So she is always looking for her next life boat.

And so they are constantly analyzing and trying to find out if you're going to stay with her.

They have zero confidence. They are insecure as FUCK.

Women don't tolerate that in men. But us guys we don't seem. to give a fuck if she's insecure.

And I really don't. But I have to unfortunately. That's what sucks about it.

I can essily be attracted to and fall in love with an insecure woman. I'm not a woman, my sexuality is not geared for her utility the way it is in reverse.

But I end up having to develop standards because these damn girls are crazy as fuck and insecure as FUCK.

It's the worst. Never again. I hate that I can fall for some cute sweet girl and she turns out to be insecure. And that insecurity is the worst because she will make your life hell as I'm sure insecure men do to the women they date.

Stop being fucking insecure people. Rhe most attractive thing is a complete lack of insecurity. Not because it's in our nature to be attracted to a lack of insecurity (like it is for women) but because you see that insecure people are just fucking undateable.

[ManOnFire]

Women overthink a guy even if they're not dating him. And it's the reason why they mess up a lot of times. They're reading way more into his texts than is necessary, trying to figure out "what it means" that he said or did such and such, or didn't do such and such, or trying to figure out the future with a guy with extremely little to go on cuz it's just the beginning stages of getting to know him.

I think women just don't know how to go with the flow of things and just see where the situation goes.

[Twalli]

Girls obfuscate the true meaning in texts. They assume that guys are equally duplicitous, while a text from s guy is generally exactly what it says.

[ManOnFire]

@Twalli Facts. I have said that on here to someone as well.

[Archferret]

why does every woman do that, like reading texts too much, because we guys don't do it much. what can we do to protect ourselves from such women

[Archferret]

sometimes it happens when we read too much between the lines, so that we even forget to read the actual lines.

[ManOnFire]

@Archferret Because women are paranoid and overthink even the slightest things. Men just take it easy and don't sweat all that stuff, we just see where things go. Women overthinking is why they mess up and will cut a guy off the right guys but go with the wrong ones.

[Archferret]

Yes, they do. Texting creates a lot of space for miscommunication between and women.

that's why make sure to always use emojis to express your feelings too! That way, she'll never be able to read your mind! and try to be being clear and concise in your communication.

[_Maya_]

No not every little detail. I do go over things after a date though. I usually only think about the big things that are most important to me. I also try and figure out if I think it went well for me meaning did he/she have a good time. I worry about that just as much as the other way around. I don't nitpick little things though because often they mean nothing. Especially true on first or second dates when people are a bit nervous and may act out of character as they settle in and become more comfortable.

[Anastasiya_2565]

I would like to talk in private.

[Archferret]

sometimes it happens when we read too much between the lines, so that we even forget to read the actual lines.

[Archferret]

why does every woman do that, like reading texts too much, because we guys don't do it much. what can we do to protect ourselves from such women

[Bethany22]

Yes, they do that. It's so much pressure on the woman to have to be the main one that does the screening for g-rated things in the beginning (as he's just thinking of the physical). So, women try to use whatever information they have to try and figure out if the guy is datable, using the same microscopic judgements as job interviewers use.

[YAsQuen]

so your saying women are shallow and or evil gotcha

[OfMiceandMen]

@YAsQuen I believe she's saying women tend to put more thought into who they continue dating than most guys do. We'd probably benefit from applying the same approach and maybe avoid terrible relationships if we thought more with the head on our shoulders both during the date and afterwards.

[Bethany22]

@OfMiceandMen well said 😊

[YAsQuen]

@OfMiceandMen good boy.

[YAsQuen]

its a fact of life that most women only start doing that AFTER they got pumped and dumbed one too many times

[OfMiceandMen]

@YAsQuen I guess when you are the one doing the pump and dump and come across these women that supposedly overanalyze things because guys have been a-holes to them, you can always remember you're part of the problem and not part of the solution.

[jennifer_bloom]

I find the guys that chase me are usually people who lack certain traits that I have so they are not the guys I would chase since I would chase somebody who has qualities I lack. Therefore I would not obsess over every detail if we went on a date cause I would be perfectly okay with not dating them, and dating another person in the distant future if we broke up.

[OlderAndWiser]

Interesting that twice as many men answered as women, but men have no clue what the woman is doing in her head after a date!

[sage2021]

Of course we do! And usually we do it with our girlfriends to see what they think. But you better be careful with telling girlfriends too much. Sometimes they end up going after the guy for themselves. Watch out, I'm tellin' you. Twice that happened to me.
It's like, girl, you can't find a guy of your own so you come after mine? No, I don't think so!

[pickles77]

If you liked a guy and you’re friends didn’t would you still date him?

[sage2021]

@pickles77
That has happened before. I just kept all of my girlfriends separate from my boyfriend. His friends liked me, so we hung out.
It's just that I was one of the cool people and my boyfriend was a geek
Funny, him being a geek really paid off in his life. He landed a good paying job, became an executive there, he bought a nice house worth over a million dollars +. He got married and never got divorced.
See, when he was my boyfriend, he was always high and I am straight. I wanted more out of a guy than one that worked in a waterbed store and was high all the time. So when I broke up with him, he got his ass in gear and his whole life changed for the better.

[Anonymous]

I was thinking, I probably would. Because, as some comments have stated, I am in fact one of those women who's rather insecure about herself. Not necessarily in what people think of me in general, but more so in trying to be as comfortable to someone as I would like them to be to me. And that can be hard to determine with someone you don't know, especially if they don't speak their mind.
But if I were to go on a date and I've felt mutual comfort, I would honestly just think about how enjoyable my time has been, rather than what they might think of me or what should have gone differently.

[icebrg25]

Yes s week as dudes if it's their first real date there's not much in way of differences there they both will stay up restless giddy going over every millisecnd of their time out together though guys won't admit to this, and dudes you got to get over this o guy to be solid as a wall always your human with feelings emotions show it is ok with him you and who gives a damn anyway what anyone says, you goth needs to know you not just an oak tree, but a living breathing caring gentle man ok

[ZackBan]

2 use cases:

If the date was factual and cerebral she will micro analyze.

If the date was an emotional roller coaster with sparks flying through the night she will only focus on the feeling she got from it.

Your job as the guy is to take the lead of a date and make it an experience worth feeling and not necessarily remembering

[SotiCoto]

Pretty sure they do it all the time.
But they also do it on the basis of what they interpret as normal... which generally means lady-think. That is to say they're trying to puzzle what he meant by this or that without once considering that the meaning is really obvious because men don't generally play mind-games.

[Miristheiss]

Some do.

Tip: avoid those that want to post a Tik Tok video detailing the date. If your private dating life is a Tik Tok content source for a girl you are trying to date. FLEE.

[Malwi93]

Uhh yeah this Guy thst i was hangimg Out with was doing the exsct Same shit. Wtf? Dont He know the word "confidential"?

[Dinklex3]

Depends on the person.

I’m pretty chill, but a close friend literally over thinks everything single little thing. If your fingers brush each other, she’ll talk about it for like an hour.

[IslaTheWitch]

Nope, I'm definitely more of a feeler than an analyser. I like to recall nice or thrilling moments, but I won't analyse everything.

[OfMiceandMen]

I would think they recap afterwards to determine whether another date is in order. I'm sure guys do the same thing to a certain extent.

I would hope that how the overall date went and their gut feeling would trump any little things.

[Paris13]

I DO... Making Sure I Wanna Go On a Second One, hun. xxoo

[Constatine]

Yes they do

And there for there are a lot of miscommunications between men and women. Because they can over analyse and come to the wrong conclusion

[madhatters4]

not all. maybe some. it's the same as with men.

some will go over the date, some will go over the date with a very fine toothed comb, and some may barely if at all review the date.

[Singing_Hollow]

If we like them a lot then trust me we go through every tiny detail. Women tend to be the over thinkers

[RingOfFire]

Not just after they date but for the rest of their lives! Women never miss a single detail. It never ceases to amaze me. Men are more about the big picture, women are more about the tiniest details.

[Twalli]

Girls think guys are as complicated as them.

A girl eating ice cream alone is sad. A guy eating ice cream alone wanted ice cream.

Take what a guy says at face value, because we generally don't mean anything more than what we said.

[KaiidiraX]

I try not to do that but it can be difficult

[Nikki1989]

Some might, but I never have. I try not to overthink situations.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No one should be doing that, otherwise they willl overthink trivial things as "meaning something".

[love_conquers_lust]

Yes. It’s called retrospection.

Why did you ask this anonymously and then start replying under an account?

[Meropatrick]

Women r really ocd and over analysing. They also spend a lot of time in their minds imagining scenarios and how other people live their lives

[Anonymous]

I do.. From the smallest to the biggest, i will analyze it and comes out with all the possibilities and conclusion

[CallmeTheKnight]

Sometimes but they end up creating issues for themselves by doing so

[msc545]

I think they probably do. After all they ask questions like right after sex his little finger was twitching. What could this possibly mean?

[SUMAIREBRAHIM]

They do but they're delulu 😂😂😂it's more about how they feel
They're can't figure out red flags 😂😂

[Blueeyes81]

When do females not do this about everything.

[really_dmb]

No
she doesn't do alone she does in her whatsapp group with her friends 10 to 100 female friends

[Avicenna]

Lots of them do

[OddBeMe]

Smart people who can write full sentences analyze all the time.

[Anonymous]

I dated a girl that had a spreadsheet and rated each and every date. I got a 4.5/5 so I was rather pleased.

[BLP11520]

They might, I remember replaying things I said.

[Sabretooth]

as they should. it could mean the difference between life and death.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We do…

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Tell me what you did and I’ll help you analyze from a female perspective.

[Nirmroth]

Nothing, bec I was to nervous. haven't heard from her and didn't text either.

[strateguy632]

i agreed with bethany

[Dilԁοphοbe]

@wilmareportu I think this question itself as well as this opinion, both have a grammar mistake.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Guys do the same too.

[GoodEnoughThen]

Everyone does that, not just females.

[overthinkergirl]

i think almost yes

[Archferret]

How can we protect ourselves from women reading too much into texting?

[Archferret]

sometimes it happens when we read too much between the lines, so that we even forget to read the actual lines.

[overthinkergirl]

@Archferret I don't know women are just complicated and me personaly if i like someone i would anylize litelarly everything and would go reading back from start men are more simple i think.

[Likes2drive]

Yeah definitely

[Anonymous]

Both females and males do. It's common

[SlayingBoooty69]

Yes, they are actually cyborgs.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and probably more often than men.

[boobliker]

very realy

[In_Trance]

Absolutely

[ItsMykolaJenkins]

1000%🤣🤣🤣

[Anonymous]

Yes they do