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Every man contributes more than he receives back. Every woman has more options than every man. You gotta dance around like a monkey to impress a lame ass girl.
The men who get all the girls (the tall, hot, high-status guys) often do very little for the women, but they don't have to. If you aren't in that top 5%, though, many women - ESPECIALLY big-city career women or young hot party girls - are going to expect you to do everything for them, because some other guy she didn't want was willing to.
If you are dealing with this kind of woman, you should not be. Avoid them at all costs, and don't give them anything, especially your attention. It doesn't matter how hot you think they are or how horny you are, avoid them, because they will drain you dry (and not in the fun way) before they dump you and move on.
Really, the main people winning in the modem dating market are those top 5% men, and the few people who are more traditional and take serious relationships seriously from a young age. Everyone else is losing big time. But only women have the power to change things.
@MrOracle
All of us younger folk grew up with feminist propaganda in school and media telling girls they can have it all.
Social media has further corrupted the girls with endless attention from men they will never see, while the lack of educational investment in boys has crippled most of the young men.
Nonetheless those boys can be reached with the truth as can many of the women.
Women very much require theses institutions to make it possable for them to do without men, as more and more men are disenfranchised and our civilization crumbles for want of stable children. These systems will fall apart goverment will become ever more compromised until it eventually falls if not by the hands of the currently disenfranchised men then by the hands of the men it must import to replace the population their lies are killing off.
@monorprise The current goal of the establishment is to depopulate the planet. They have the idea that the "right" population level is 500M globally - 1/16th of the current population - so they WANT society to fail and for people not to marry or even live together, and certainly not to support each other. The elites want to lower the population to JUST ENOUGH to work to maintain their lavish lifestyles, but no more. This isn't speculation or conspiracy theory - it comes right from the World Economic Forum, and you can view the presentations on YouTube or their website.
But, overall, you aren't wrong.
these pretty, hot city girls expect you to do everything for them because they are the top 10% of all women. Pretty girls can afford to have high standards.
If you're an unattractive man, no money, refuse to do anything for ladies, the only life you will have is chronic singledom or dating unattractive fat chicks or women in their 30s -50s
@nastyb In nearly all cases, they are not. But they THINK they are, because they assume that men want the same things in a woman that women want in a man - but that couldn't be further from the truth. Most women of that descriptions are below average in all the areas that matter, except sometimes in looks.
@MrOracle
big city career women and city party girls tend to be young attractive women. They're not your plain jane , uneducated, fat, poor girl from a tiny town that you never heard of.
Truth is... hot city girls and high flying career women are picky because they know its not hard for them to get a man.
@nastyb those girls are good for a shag but most guys won't wife them long term unless they are simps.
It's not hard to get a man to bang them, but it's very difficult to find someone to wife them, because that's not what most men want.
Most women confuse and conflate sexual interest from a man with relationship interest, but the two are very different.
A woman's education, career, and money mean nothing to a man - those are things women value in men, so they project that value onto themselves, but that's not what men value.
Of course men value beauty - NATURAL beauty - but that's not especially rare. But men also value youth, purity, loyalty, femininity, cooperation, submissiveness, and peacefulness. Those are the women men wife. Big city party girls have none of this. That's why they are party girls - good for sex and little else in the eyes of most men.
This isn't a personal attack - I don't even know you to dislike you - I'm simply explaining how the real world works.
@MrOracle
thats a lie. who said city girls must be whores, masculine? only you, nobody else.
I'm a city career girl who makes over 100k a year. I'm feminine, love wearing beautiful dresses. I treat and care for people as a professional. I'm also thinking about volunteering at the orphanage due to my love for children. It is also my life goal to have children (even without a husband or boyfriend).
You are hating on me. You can't just make blanketed stereotypes that all city girls must be masculine, don't want to have kids, cannot be submissive, must be lesbian.
Lastly, I can also tell that you don't live in a big city where options are plentiful. Most men here also sleep around. Vast majority of men here don't care if a woman sleeps around or not. Because almost everyone sleeps around here. Its considered a normal thing.
Most professional men in big cities actually prefer marrying professional women. People tend to flock towards their own kind over here.
@MrOracle
[Most women confuse and conflate sexual interest from a man with relationship interest, but the two are very different.]
so if you're showing sexual interest to a whore... that means you also sleep around right?
if you're sleeping around, then why can't she sleep around?
how many women have you impregnated hat you never knew of?
@MrOracle
Thew world hasn't had only 500 million people since 1600's 400+ years ago. A time when the America's were basically empty.
The people not having kids are in fact the very skilled people capable of creating and sustaining such a lifestyle. The ones still having kids are basically 3rd world populations living in squalor.
So no their lavage lifestyle will collapse along with the tecnoligy required to make it possable and solve every other problem.
@monorprise
smart guy! its so true. Richer people in bigger cities aren't having kids while the poor people in the tiny towns are having kids. Its always been that way. Rich people have fewer kids than poor people. The poorer they are, the more kids they end up having. Have you seen 3rd world countries and how many kids they have?
You gotta drive over to her place and pick her up, take her out for a dinner that YOU have to pay for and a movie that YOU have to pay for and then maybe out for drinks that YOU have to pay for and then, YOU have to DRAG her ass back home and, when you leave her at her door, you're lucky if you get a kiss and a feel!! NOW, you know what a divorce is gonna be like!
@nastyb Isn't that a slower form of prostitution?
@nastyb I'm okay with it. I'm not about to force her into it! If she wants to fuck me, great! If she doesn't, that's fine, we can just be friends.
@nastyb News t me!
@nastyb So you are saying women are whores then.
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u I don't give a rat's ass about being picked got MHO. What does that do for me, anyway?
What you receive in a relationship is a matter of who you select for a partner and how you treat them. If you have a chip on your shoulder, you probably haven't had any relationships that have lasted very long. And if you see everything strictly from your perspective, then of course you think things are lopsided.
Your question and updates don't prove anything abioiut women, not do they prove anything about guys who disagree with you. They are nothing more than evidence of the problem that you have, and that is consistent with you having the attitude. If you are as much of a man as you think you are, you should have the courage to examine yourself and the things you have done in a relationship to ask whether you have been a good partner who deserved to receive good things in return.
Or. . . you can all me a name, which is what I expect. IDGAF.
Hoeflation is real: we as men have to work much harder than our grandfathers for women who are much worse than our grandmothers. Grandpa could work 40 hours a week in a factory or something like that and he got a woman who was fit, feminine, likely a virgin that would cook him dinner every night, keep the house clean, and care for the kids while respecting her husband's authority. Today's women are nothing like our grandmothers: most of them are fat, very few are virgins with most having body counts that rival those of the most prolific serial killers, sex work is more common thanks to OnlyFans, they take some perverse pride in not knowing how to cook or clean, many are baby mommas, and despite how worthless they are as potential wives they all think that the guy working at the factory is beneath them and even if they did get a shot with a high-value man they still wouldn't submit to his authority. The results of this madness are obvious: lots of male suicides and mass shootings while many of these women will spend their golden years homeless. Society has always functioned because even a peasant laboring in the fields could get a wife, now there are so few wives to be had that the men will begin to cease their labors and society will crumble into a new Dark Age.
Thanks for curing my depression lol
Dating isn't a transaction. It's a friendship with sex and loyalty.
Imagine friends with benefits, but its best friends who have everything in common, and exclusive, and permanent.
Thats marriage.
There is no competition in dating, because there aren't that many options that competition would be nearby. Its more like you need to find your piece of soft hay in a mountain high pile of needles.
Out of 4 billion women, Only about 400,000 would be a mental match for me, so I'm rejecting messages from most women, and he should be too if he wants a match, not complaining that women are doing that.
Andrew contradicts himself, the women who are picky stick to one guy. It's the ones who are easy, and don't care who they are with, that do the "cock carousel".
But the latter is the type he would go after, so thats all he sees.
I honestly do not think he would know a quality woman if she was standing in front of him while holding her physics book, art supplies, cosplay outfit, high end graphics card, and several decent video games she just purchased.
i don't even want to read the comments of simps or feminists here we absolutly give more than what we get.
what we get:
-sex (also the burden of giving orgasms by doing the things you don't always want to do)
-kids (not always)
-house chores done (in this age not even fully more like a helping hand)
what we give:
-money we earned hardways.
-patience
-having our trust tested everyday.
-someone bitching about shit we don't give a damn about.
-unwanted responsibility
-sacrificing our own potentials by ''settling down''
-our personal space
-freedom
-actual family we had from childhood
-the time we could have spent with friends or doing hobbies
-our own manhood in order to keep the relationship
[Every man contributes more than he receives back. Every woman has more options than every man. You gotta dance around like a monkey to impress a lame ass girl.]
that is definitely not true. Realize that when you're going for a girl who must be young, attractive, not fat, gorgeous, pretty, slim, you need to realize that she is going to have plenty of options to pick from. This is why you need to up your game or dance around like a monkey to impress her.
The older , less attractive, maybe a bit fatter ladies in their 30s-40s might be easier to get. But would you dance like a monkey for them? NO.
The higher your standards, the more you will need to dance like a monkey to get her.
The number of women is equal to that of male buddies. That means for every man there is a woman. And as there are many single men but few single women, it means that women share the same men. How do you mean a man can't be fat? Wait! Isn't it allowed for women to be both fat and ugly and this is called body positivity? Don't even fat women appear in advertisements next to models? Why not the same for men? How do you mean the man has to do things that the woman doesn't do? Can you hear yourself talking?
It is no wonder why Andrew Tate blew up the internet. He actually raised modern men's issues.
And of course on average women either ignore Andrew Tate's points or are knowingly in denial.
If a top 20% guy raised this to a woman, maybe they'll hear it once and then go like "so anyway".
On the other hand it's the men's job to be a desirable candidate. Just because the typical and violent woman-beating-and-hating alcoholic, that blows his paycheck on women gets laid with women doesn't mean men absolutely have to achieve the unachievable but it is of no denial, that achieving the unachievable (e. g. getting rich) changes the entire game in such a way, that the tables will turn 180 degrees.
It's a hairy situation and it's obvious, that it's here to stay. Many of us know it.
Well expect to get a big gender divide on responses.
However I can tell you that without a doubt that women can generally expect and demand to be treated special just for existing. Men are only valued for their AGENCY. What they are able to do and provide.
Ironically it’s often the men who do not treat women special for just existing that women are most attracted to. It’s that stupid “cat like” challenge complex they have. Doesn’t mean they like being mistreated. But the are turned on by mystery and challenge.
Well, the man must be well above average, but the woman can be anything. Especially today. She can be fat and ugly and accepting such a woman means body positivity. She can work anywhere or she can simply be unemployed. She can be educated or she can be illiterate. She can have passions or she can simply be that so boring and without passions and hobbies that any man would run away from her if he didn't have a pussy between his legs that keeps him busy for a while at least.
But the man must be top ten. He must not only have jobs but a position of power, director, lawyer, doctor. He must have money, he must have social position.. He must have all the things that a woman does not have. A man is valuable by what he owns, for these women. But a woman is valuable by herself. That's what feminists say today.
Depends on the gal. I am married and my wife is amazing. We both put in as much as we can. Doesn't matter who contributes more or less as long as both are committed to each other and the relationship. No healthy relationship compares or tracks who contributed what. If you have to keep score you are not in a good relationship. You are not approaching a relationship from a good place.
God is Good. It depends is usually the best answer for such qs. On my part what impresses me is sizeable; Love God, be humble, be masculine, most likely be conservative, have a sense of humor
I think that's absolutely true, but then again, that's exactly the way it should be. A woman has more class, so we have to kiss her ass, every night we beat and hope she'll let us kiss her feet.
No. Maybe guys who have no worth besides money, and thus dont want to understandthe valuenof anything else, but for the rest us it's pretty even if you want it to be,
Yes and no. If you're "trying" then you're already trying too hard. It really has little to so with what you do when it comes to women. Women do whatever the goblins in her head tell her to do. So you do you. If she's interested in you, cool! If not, f*** her! There are 3.5 billion others just like her on the planet. Women are like buses man. Another will be along in 10 minutes. Don't waste your time trying to shoe horn yourself into some woman's life.
u not in my experience...
but I'm not inadequate
Women contribute very little for dating, relationships, and to society in general when compared to men.
All I have to do is show honesty and respect.
It's really not that hard.
I never go into it with a mindset like that, but looking back I have received at least as much as I have contributed.
Most people do, but I don't, I will never give my money to a woman.
most men are willing to tolerate and put with anything. They're desperate and pathic.
In dating, absolutely. In relationships, it just depends on the couple.
Would you like some flowers and chocolate from this lame ass girl 😘😘😂😂
No, it is usually far less these days.
Yeah thats just the facts of it
Men don't do enough
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