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Every man contributes more than he receives back. Every woman has more options than every man. You gotta dance around like a monkey to impress a lame ass girl.
The men who get all the girls (the tall, hot, high-status guys) often do very little for the women, but they don't have to. If you aren't in that top 5%, though, many women - ESPECIALLY big-city career women or young hot party girls - are going to expect you to do everything for them, because some other guy she didn't want was willing to.
If you are dealing with this kind of woman, you should not be. Avoid them at all costs, and don't give them anything, especially your attention. It doesn't matter how hot you think they are or how horny you are, avoid them, because they will drain you dry (and not in the fun way) before they dump you and move on.
Really, the main people winning in the modem dating market are those top 5% men, and the few people who are more traditional and take serious relationships seriously from a young age. Everyone else is losing big time. But only women have the power to change things.
You gotta drive over to her place and pick her up, take her out for a dinner that YOU have to pay for and a movie that YOU have to pay for and then maybe out for drinks that YOU have to pay for and then, YOU have to DRAG her ass back home and, when you leave her at her door, you're lucky if you get a kiss and a feel!! NOW, you know what a divorce is gonna be like!
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u I don't give a rat's ass about being picked got MHO. What does that do for me, anyway?
What you receive in a relationship is a matter of who you select for a partner and how you treat them. If you have a chip on your shoulder, you probably haven't had any relationships that have lasted very long. And if you see everything strictly from your perspective, then of course you think things are lopsided.
Your question and updates don't prove anything abioiut women, not do they prove anything about guys who disagree with you. They are nothing more than evidence of the problem that you have, and that is consistent with you having the attitude. If you are as much of a man as you think you are, you should have the courage to examine yourself and the things you have done in a relationship to ask whether you have been a good partner who deserved to receive good things in return.
Or. . . you can all me a name, which is what I expect. IDGAF.
Hoeflation is real: we as men have to work much harder than our grandfathers for women who are much worse than our grandmothers. Grandpa could work 40 hours a week in a factory or something like that and he got a woman who was fit, feminine, likely a virgin that would cook him dinner every night, keep the house clean, and care for the kids while respecting her husband's authority. Today's women are nothing like our grandmothers: most of them are fat, very few are virgins with most having body counts that rival those of the most prolific serial killers, sex work is more common thanks to OnlyFans, they take some perverse pride in not knowing how to cook or clean, many are baby mommas, and despite how worthless they are as potential wives they all think that the guy working at the factory is beneath them and even if they did get a shot with a high-value man they still wouldn't submit to his authority. The results of this madness are obvious: lots of male suicides and mass shootings while many of these women will spend their golden years homeless. Society has always functioned because even a peasant laboring in the fields could get a wife, now there are so few wives to be had that the men will begin to cease their labors and society will crumble into a new Dark Age.
Dating isn't a transaction. It's a friendship with sex and loyalty.
Imagine friends with benefits, but its best friends who have everything in common, and exclusive, and permanent.
Thats marriage.
There is no competition in dating, because there aren't that many options that competition would be nearby. Its more like you need to find your piece of soft hay in a mountain high pile of needles.
Out of 4 billion women, Only about 400,000 would be a mental match for me, so I'm rejecting messages from most women, and he should be too if he wants a match, not complaining that women are doing that.
Andrew contradicts himself, the women who are picky stick to one guy. It's the ones who are easy, and don't care who they are with, that do the "cock carousel".
But the latter is the type he would go after, so thats all he sees.
I honestly do not think he would know a quality woman if she was standing in front of him while holding her physics book, art supplies, cosplay outfit, high end graphics card, and several decent video games she just purchased.
i don't even want to read the comments of simps or feminists here we absolutly give more than what we get.
what we get:
-sex (also the burden of giving orgasms by doing the things you don't always want to do)
-kids (not always)
-house chores done (in this age not even fully more like a helping hand)
what we give:
-money we earned hardways.
-patience
-having our trust tested everyday.
-someone bitching about shit we don't give a damn about.
-unwanted responsibility
-sacrificing our own potentials by ''settling down''
-our personal space
-freedom
-actual family we had from childhood
-the time we could have spent with friends or doing hobbies
-our own manhood in order to keep the relationship
[Every man contributes more than he receives back. Every woman has more options than every man. You gotta dance around like a monkey to impress a lame ass girl.]
that is definitely not true. Realize that when you're going for a girl who must be young, attractive, not fat, gorgeous, pretty, slim, you need to realize that she is going to have plenty of options to pick from. This is why you need to up your game or dance around like a monkey to impress her.
The older , less attractive, maybe a bit fatter ladies in their 30s-40s might be easier to get. But would you dance like a monkey for them? NO.
The higher your standards, the more you will need to dance like a monkey to get her.
It is no wonder why Andrew Tate blew up the internet. He actually raised modern men's issues.
And of course on average women either ignore Andrew Tate's points or are knowingly in denial.
If a top 20% guy raised this to a woman, maybe they'll hear it once and then go like "so anyway".
On the other hand it's the men's job to be a desirable candidate. Just because the typical and violent woman-beating-and-hating alcoholic, that blows his paycheck on women gets laid with women doesn't mean men absolutely have to achieve the unachievable but it is of no denial, that achieving the unachievable (e. g. getting rich) changes the entire game in such a way, that the tables will turn 180 degrees.
It's a hairy situation and it's obvious, that it's here to stay. Many of us know it.
Well expect to get a big gender divide on responses.
However I can tell you that without a doubt that women can generally expect and demand to be treated special just for existing. Men are only valued for their AGENCY. What they are able to do and provide.
Ironically it’s often the men who do not treat women special for just existing that women are most attracted to. It’s that stupid “cat like” challenge complex they have. Doesn’t mean they like being mistreated. But the are turned on by mystery and challenge.
Well, the man must be well above average, but the woman can be anything. Especially today. She can be fat and ugly and accepting such a woman means body positivity. She can work anywhere or she can simply be unemployed. She can be educated or she can be illiterate. She can have passions or she can simply be that so boring and without passions and hobbies that any man would run away from her if he didn't have a pussy between his legs that keeps him busy for a while at least.
But the man must be top ten. He must not only have jobs but a position of power, director, lawyer, doctor. He must have money, he must have social position.. He must have all the things that a woman does not have. A man is valuable by what he owns, for these women. But a woman is valuable by herself. That's what feminists say today.
Depends on the gal. I am married and my wife is amazing. We both put in as much as we can. Doesn't matter who contributes more or less as long as both are committed to each other and the relationship. No healthy relationship compares or tracks who contributed what. If you have to keep score you are not in a good relationship. You are not approaching a relationship from a good place.
God is Good. It depends is usually the best answer for such qs. On my part what impresses me is sizeable; Love God, be humble, be masculine, most likely be conservative, have a sense of humor
I think that's absolutely true, but then again, that's exactly the way it should be. A woman has more class, so we have to kiss her ass, every night we beat and hope she'll let us kiss her feet.
No. Maybe guys who have no worth besides money, and thus dont want to understandthe valuenof anything else, but for the rest us it's pretty even if you want it to be,
Yes and no. If you're "trying" then you're already trying too hard. It really has little to so with what you do when it comes to women. Women do whatever the goblins in her head tell her to do. So you do you. If she's interested in you, cool! If not, f*** her! There are 3.5 billion others just like her on the planet. Women are like buses man. Another will be along in 10 minutes. Don't waste your time trying to shoe horn yourself into some woman's life.
u not in my experience...
but I'm not inadequate
Women contribute very little for dating, relationships, and to society in general when compared to men.
All I have to do is show honesty and respect.
It's really not that hard.
I never go into it with a mindset like that, but looking back I have received at least as much as I have contributed.
Most people do, but I don't, I will never give my money to a woman.
most men are willing to tolerate and put with anything. They're desperate and pathic.
In dating, absolutely. In relationships, it just depends on the couple.
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