Why my ldr boyfriend doesn't want me to post on instaGram? but he seeing someone he even let the girl sleep in his house?

[Anonymous]

[SueShe]

The reason is because there are rules (made by men of course) that stipulate that they can basically do everything they want when in a relationship and that women cannot.

Simply put, men think that there are double standards and that they (the men) are allowed certain things while it is better for them (the men) if women have less freedom.

In other words, get rid of this person because

1) long distance relationships are doomed to fail

2) he is trying to control you

3) he has a toxic mentality

4) he should never be trusted with another woman sleeping over at this place while his girlfriend is hundreds or thousands of miles away.

[Asker]

and i was blinded of him that he can do
relations like the old fashioned way, i thought he's gonna break the curse that men nowadays generations are
just. into short term and relationship. i was a social media addict but he changed me i even deactivate my facebook didn't
use my instagram for a year just to show that he's the one i needed because ilove him. i even purchased a lot in the philippines to build something
for us.
but why he did that. he actually told me about it he doesn't wanna lie to me. is that a strategy to think that he's innocent and nothing to worry about? he just call me when he's doing shower. which is we usually calle 24hours a day like a cctv. and it suddenly
changed. and now because he made an
instagram
acct.
we followed each other then i post something he was just said "oh thats what u do in instagram. great" what the hell is wrong with him. he doesn even want me to follow everyone

[Anonymous]

LDRs are a big waste of time, but you should be seeing that by now. As for Instagram, that is also another waste of time.

[Asker]

i invested about a year believing that i can be with him. he tells me something that makes me happy the attention. but it suddenly change.

[YesterdaysChild]

There is a sucker born every minute, and he has found his.

[Asker]

its just really
sad

[Simslover92]

LDRs aren't a waste of time imho. At least not for me.

[Asker]

@simslover92 you are lucky then. i thought of that too with him. we had 1year of calling everyday 24/7 sleep together. and i invested all my time effort money love trust etc. but it all turn into waste. or should i say i loose. i think LDR is a love gamble. the its either u win or loose.

[Simslover92]

Well we're making plans to close the distance soon. That's what makes a successful ldr is to plan to eventually close the gap and be closer. But you're right it certainly is a gamble. But I plan to play to win because I'm so in love with him and he I.

[Anonymous]

You guys have to work it out

[Asker]

i did try to work it out. i still gave him my trust. but he's doing it again.

[Opinion Owner]

Go to counseling

[Asker]

yes i am all alone i want
to forget him

[Opinion Owner]

Give it another shot

[Asker]

im tired he ghosted me again and again and again

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry think it over

[Asker]

all i can't think right now is pain. i never had this pain

[Opinion Owner]

Then do something about it reach out to him

[Asker]

how he doesn't even seeing my msgs.

[Opinion Owner]

Don’t you have any other way of communication? Do you ever meet this guy in person

[Opinion Owner]

How long have you known him?

[Asker]

i met him on bigo

[Asker]

we just had mesenger and line but its
all gone bec he said its hacked he has 4accounts though

[Opinion Owner]

Keep talking to him

[Asker]

do u
think i still should do that? im thinking of deleting my social media and live alone for d rest of life

[Opinion Owner]

You don’t want to be alone and lonely it sucks

[Asker]

it sucks but its not painful.

[Opinion Owner]

Are you sure

[Asker]

yes maybe. he made me scared to trust and love again

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry

[Asker]

he should be the one saying sorry nt you.

[Asker]

he made me go into a
theraphy
too. i need to forget him

[Opinion Owner]

He should apologize that’s horrible. I’m sorry.

[Asker]

i still
have hopes though.
i can't take the pain.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry girl

[Asker]

its ok. i need to proceed to healing. i grieved already. i dont have any tears to shed.

[Opinion Owner]

I hope whatever makes you happy

[Asker]

thank you.
makes me better.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re very welcome. I’m glad I could help you out.

[Asker]

yeah i didn't
know
i
could use some
help with other
people just by
asking

[Opinion Owner]

You did good coming
Here

[Asker]

i think some of us girls with a broken heart miss what we used to have.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, and I can understand that

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for most helpful award

[Wise4myage]

He's probably banging the other girl.

[Asker]

thats what i think but i dont believe that.

[Joker_]

ldr boyfriends are the worst

[Asker]

yes i want to believe that now

[Joker_]

why lol

[Asker]

because i thought he's different

[Asker]

instead evenworst

[Joker_]

@Worst

[Worst]

I'm her boyfriend lol

[Asker]

oh well you can
change that