2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Some of my girlfriends gave me initial signals, but I was always the one who asked them out on the first date.
But some of them initiated the first kiss after our first or second date. It's a lot safer when they do. It tells a guy that they are okay with it. He is sometimes hesitant to make her uncomfortable. And, honestly, it makes him feel wonderful.00 Reply
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Reading all the men answers here, It feels good. 😮💨😮💨 I didn’t know y’all like that so much. 😂😂!
Even if she don’t rush things, would you still consider her for a potential serious relationship or nahh? Would you still evaluate her as wife material?
It goes both ways about whatever she wants approaching first, she sees something that she wants, but this is about the male perspective. Soo!20 Reply
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+1 yI find it refreshing so long as she's open to a genuine response and can take an empathic 'friend zone' like guys HAVE to experience---
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3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. A lot of times I'm so busy I'm not paying attention so yes I am happy when the girl makes the first move
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+1 yI’m flexible. It’s typically been me.
My favorite first move was on our first date and this girl held my hands asking me what was wrong. I said I was nervous and she moved in and kissed me.
That was the date where I’d spent a lot of it talking quite a bit about sexuality. She was very wary at first, but something clicked mid date and she engaged too.
I know it sounds like it doesn’t make sense that I was nervous, but I just was. It had been awhile since I dated someone.
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+1 yYeah, there are lot of guys who are very shy or poor in making the moves
Definitely we love women making the first move.10 Reply- 813 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yMost definitely.. Cause that would mean without a doubt she wants me. It's straight forward.. Unfortunately with my history, when a woman makes the first move it usually means I'm just a distraction for her..
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+1 yI love it, as she can "show" me how open mined she really is and i know what is longest "stretch" i go with, without crossing the "line".
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+1 yit is quite attractive though to be completely honest whoever makes the first move is not as important to me as the connection
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u +1 yI sure do... that's how it went with most of my ex-girlfriends... so, what's not to love? lol
00 Reply 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Of course! I love it! Gimme, gimme! It feels refreshing and good to say the least.
00 Reply798 opinions shared on Dating topic. If we talk about a woman actually making a move then that would be pretty novel. Only have seen it happen once and she was drunk.
However some women mistake flirting for making a move.
00 ReplyI don't like doing it myself so kinda, but usually it not good women who do that.
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+1 yif I'm interested in her but she would have to be ok with my wife watching or joining in
00 ReplyYeah it's more interesting to see her with the initiative... Fun to know that she's into me.
00 Reply646 opinions shared on Dating topic. Only if you don't rush things. I appreciate the gesture, but if you're rushing me into a relationship or sex, I'll push you away.
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It shows they are confident and they know what they want and are not afraid or even if they are not letting it affect them that they might get rejected.00 ReplyYes. Love a confident woman who knows what she wants and not afraid to get it
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+1 yNot the first move, but I do appreciate it when she invites me to make it rather than being cold or aloof.
00 Reply962 opinions shared on Dating topic. No. I don't think it's inherently wrong, people like different things, but I kind of find it to be unattractive.
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No. There's a plethora of ways a woman can show interest that I'd find attractive, like making eye contact, tilting her head down a little and then smiling. This particular example, however, includes her taking the initiative, taking the lead, which isn't always unattractive (to me), but something I find unattractive in this context. I prefer MLRs or male-lead relationships.
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+1 yAbsolutely, never would have had relationship if they hadn't made the first move
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+1 yDepends how she makes the first move such as either approaching a guy or asking him out
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+1 ySometimes yes. Especially I have no idea what she wants.
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+1 yI'm all for it. That way there is no guessing
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"Hey, want to go get coffee some time?" Sure00 Reply
+1 yYes, very much so but of course if we have something in common
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+1 ySure I do. I love a woman that knows what she wants and isn't afraid to go after it
00 Reply Well it rarely happens so I guess I don’t know
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+1 yYea it makes things so easier
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+1 yyes, very much so
00 Reply 340 opinions shared on Dating topic. Duh. Of course.
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+1 yOMG, YESSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
00 Reply 19.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes I do it shows me she is interested
00 ReplyAbsolutely yes
00 Reply324 opinions shared on Dating topic. How can you like what doesn't exist.
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+1 yMost do, saves a lot of possible miscommunication
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+1 yya it’s nice when a girl doesn’t play games
00 ReplyYep totally
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+1 yYes it makes it easier
00 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Absolutely.
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+1 yIt sounds better.
00 Reply2.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. HEEEEEEEELL YES
00 Reply5.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes of course.
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+1 yYeeeeees!
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+1 yYes. Bring it on.
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+1 yAbsolutely
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+1 yAbsolutely!
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00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yeah, always good
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+1 yYeah i do
00 Reply776 opinions shared on Dating topic. Of course!
00 ReplyDEFINITELY!
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+1 yDefinitely
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