I was under the impression many women make the first move. Mostly nonverbal it can be a smile or look or open body language. Something that invites the man to approach.
Is that the first move you are asking about?
I love it when women are confident enough to make the first move.
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When I was 16, my first girlfriend made the first move. Thank goodness, because I was clueless and didn't know how to approach girls. After we went steady for a few weeks, she made the first move when it came to sex, too, by inviting me into the house trailer in her parent's back yard one night.
Another girlfriend was someone I knew at work. We used to talk. One day, she told me that she had just rented an apartment and wondered if I wanted to see it. You can guess what happened.
There was one girl I knew from adolescence through my mid teens. She was a friend's neighbor and used to swim with us in his pool. She was a few years younger that me and seemed really naive, though, so I never made a move on her. But she was gorgeous and I fantasized about her a lot.
We lost touch. But when I was 34, she found me by calling my old home number and getting my number from my mom. She was living about 2 hours away but drove over to see me. OMG, she was sexier than ever. She had just gotten divorced. We wound up living together for almost a year. She's my only girlfriend who turned out to be a psycho. But I fulfilled my adolescent fantasies with her big time.
Some other girlfriends sent out clear signals that they were interested before I asked them out. They were all smiley and friendly and happened to turn up and chat and flirt when I was around.
Aside from those who initiated by sending out signals, I got together with maybe half of of my girlfriends by simply asking them out without any prior flirting.
Anyway, I think it's great when a girl makes the first move.
It is refreshing honestly. It's hard to make the first move now a days for soo many reasons. I'm a very traditional man myself but that is one traditional thing I don't need. I'm all for a girl making the first move then I'm not playing the guessing game.
I think it's great, after that initiation I always feel more comfortable advancing things just the way things are in today's age.
I don't expect it to happen but, if a nice girl who is not promiscuous made the first move of course I'd like it
When I was 8-thru-10 years old, I had occasional sexual activity with a neighbor girl who was a year older than me. We used a code-word for doing what we did, and she was always first to initiate sexual activity. There were actually 4 of us getting together on many summer nights to "sleep out" in each others back yards in sleeping bags.
There was also an instance of a girl I worked with, while at a co-workers party, who initiated amorous behavior by pushing me back against the fridge and french kissing me, and then later, joining me in my dorm room for further activity.
Thank goodness for those "initiating" girls.
Damn I’d love it. Because for one thing it would cut down on so much pressure on us men having to be the one to basically make the first move in almost everything in life. I’d like to stay home for a while, let her work, her take care of our bills. I’d love it if a girl just walked by, grabbed my dick. All the things that women say men do that they consider sexual harassment, most of us men would welcome that.
Yes, some men do, some men dont, and some men are worried to make the first move due to the fear of rejection so they prefer the women make the first move so it's clear.
A woman can make it fairly apparent to a guy that if he asks she will say yes. I think that is as far as it should go from the distaff side. If I've not got an erection over her it feels awkward if she asks.
I think everyone likes to feel like the other person initiated. Guys are no different. But guys don't NEED a woman to pursue him per se. The problem today is too many women just want to be emotional vampires with men. Women get mad that men do not want to chase. But a guy is ONLY going to chase for so long when she is giving minimaly back to him.
u most relationships I had... they made the "first move"
Yes, most guys like it. The one's that don't usually don't seem to like women very much.
Yeah, I mean since the MeToo statutes came to pass guys can't make a move unless he wants to be arrested or shot by firing squad
Only if we are interested
If we like her, then yes. Absolutely.
Depends on the guy
I prefer it
Yeah
It boosts my ego, just that.
Three words. Yes.
No, we don't.
Lots of them
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