I went on a date last night with a guy. We were texting for a few weeks before the date. We seemed to get on really well over text and his replies were quite frequent. He seemed really keen on the date and was complimenting me, seemed really into me, was holding my hand and we shared a kiss at the end of the night. Everything seemed to go really well and then today I’ve barely heard from him at all, it’s like he’s ghosting me and phasing me out.
I noticed that he shared a lot with me on the date and told me that he had bought a house with his ex girlfriend of four years but then decided suddenly to cut off the relationship and break up with her after they bought the house together.
This would definitely explain why he was very flaky with me the day after the date. Do you think he has avoidant attachment style and can’t commit?
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I think he has huge issues and you a oidsd a bullet!
Commitment issues sound more like it.
Sorry he probably won't even tell you if he hated the date.
No. I think he's still financially involved with that ex girlfriend. If they both put their name on something like that , you can't just walk away. The fact that he broke up with her right after means an argument happened based on hidden intentions. He is talking to other women and hoping to have his own bachelor pad. She's still in the picture and they are possibly still having sex. This whole situation is inauthentic from the start. Use your brain love. He told you exactly what you needed to know and if you were his ex. What would you do if you broke up with somebody you both signed a contract on.
I don't have a lot of patience with flakiness. I take relationships seriously.