Are women who don’t drink/smoke considered boring?

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is it boring if someone doesn’t drink/smoke?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

To me yes , cuz I like to drink and smoke on occasion , I have dated girls ‘ that didn’t like to drink or smoke and it turned into a fucking nightmare , because we didn’t see eye to eye on things and it turned into resentments and arguments about who is right or wrong, so I prefer meeting a girl that likes to drink and smoke on occasion with me or a girl that is acceptive of me drinking and smoking. I consider myself a very honest person and I usually lay everything on the table to her right from the beginning letting her know who I am and what I enjoy , she can either take it or leave it , So I prefer a girl that doesn’t mind me drinking or smoking that likes to drink and smoke herself that can just unwind and relax and enjoy each others company’s getting buzzed together , The more in common I have with a girl , the better it seems to be , because we see eye to eye on a lot of things , when you are with someone that you don’t see eye to eye with on a lot of things , those relationships usually don’t last and you both end up butting heads like crazy , I don’t need any of that drama in my life what so ever , I been there and done it. So I prefer a girl that wants to bring happiness into my life , not misery the only time I would want her to step in os if I was getting carried away with drinking and smoking and fucking my life up , But if she starts bitching that I am have a few beers on a Friday night relaxing after a week of work , There’s the door , don’t let it hit ya in the ass on the way out

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Hell no. Of course not. Clean women are considered higher quality and men will much more likely see them as relationship material.

Ladies most of you are naturally attractive in your natural state. But many high value guys will disqualify you if you choose to do the following:

Smoking. Especially if you don’t care about quitting.
Excessive drinking. Most people don’t care if you do this occasionally but heavy drinking is a different story.
Drugs. Most people will forgive past experimentation or maybe some pot once in a blue moon. But consistent drug use is a serious problem.
Tattoos especially highly visible tattoos. Some people make mistakes when they are young. But women who get inked up everywhere are a turn off to most men.
Dying your hair unnatural colors (and often). Women who do this are usually making some sort of political statement. You want to be a hipster, fine. But if you do this often then many high value guys will (quietly) lose interest.
Multiple piercings and/or piercings outside normal areas. This is similar to hair dying. Most guys won’t say anything about it (they can’t especially nowadays) but they will quietly get turned off.

Anyway that’s not to say you can’t do all of the above. I believe in freedom of choice. But guys have the freedom to choose who they want to get a relationship vs. who they don’t. If you want to land someone decent this isn’t going to help.

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

No! Smoking is unattractive and disgusting no matter what gender.

Casual responsible drinking not ending in a state of intoxication is perfectly acceptable but drinking even in small amounts is not required to have a good time.

A good classy woman knows how to be fun without the use of drinking or drugs!

And a good classy woman also would know how to drink responsibly if she did choose to drink!

RoseySarah · Accepted Answer

No but they are considered trash if they do and so boring not worth dating and trouble not the good exciting kind!

One of the friends who does these things asked why she only gets losers we told her those are the reasons.

No one would seriously date her behaving as she does 😅.

DaveJord · Answer

Kind of honestly. I mean its romantic to have a nice dinner with glass of wine. Or to go out and have a few beers together. I mean sitting there sipping your wine, while you look over the rim of the glass and catch her eyes as she sips her... it hot.

I do not drink every often honestly, but one thing is for sure I do not drink alone. So yeah, having someone you can share a bottle of wine, or sip on a beer or two over a card game or at the bar... it's nice honestly. You do not have to drink to get drunk.

Honestly, it hard to sit and drink with a romantic interest that is not drinking, you always feel like they are judging you.

Avicenna · Answer

No, einen who smoke and who drink effectively are dealbreakers

ohsheeT · Answer

Hell no that's not boring I've never seen a woman drink smoke before after she drinks it what's happened where's all the smoke go No she's not boring at all I want to meet that girl

ZackBan · Answer

I'll let you in one something.
No one likes drinking or drinker, smoking or smokers.
What humans enjoy is animalistic and loose behavior. Mainly sex
So if you're capable of "letting loose" without any drink or smoke you will never be boring even with a juice box in your hand

Of course how you define "fun and intersting" is also subjective and might not appeal to everyone. So keep that in mind.

The important thing is to be true to yourself and not the expectations of others

FriendlyCanadianGuy · Answer

I was with an edgy emo girl that smoked cigarettes... the sex was wild.
Drinking? I kinda like having wine with my partners, in moderation of course..
Drinking too much?:interesting but not for me... so drunk girls tend to become obnoxious and inconsiderate, huge turn off.
Knew a drunk in college that would become the devil spawn, walked up to my buddy and broke his nose for absolutely no reason (I know this because when we asked her why, she said no reason I just felt like it). She was so proud of herself and her friends cheered her on, disgusting.

Kaneki05 · Answer

The answer is no.
But there is a point here, if I see a girl who smokes or vapes I know right away she's not going to be someone who makes a big deal out of been unhealthy and which I am. So hence that works for me.
It tells what their personality is like right off the bat unlike someone who don't, because then you have to ya know ask them what their views are on it etc etc then you find out they are godly and wouldn't ever touch a guy who has took some form of drug lol. Or you find out she's cool with it or has some concerns but it's not a deal breaker or would be in cases etc
But this is what I mean you can't just tell right away, unless they do that act themselves.

couchweed92 · Answer

it gives you a certain badge that those who don’t drink or smoke will not have. its usually a sense of experience, like you’ve been through some tough spots in your time here on earth and drinking/smoking helps you to put aside your emotions and enjoy yourself with others maybe who have similar experiences as you do. its like, for example… those who have been through some tough spots in life and turn to god to help ease their troubles and have the church to serve as a community full of people with similar experiences as them. it has nothing to do with being boring, it just means you belong to a different group of like minded individuals

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’ve only been called boring by those who aren’t strong enough to quit drinking/smoking or by the ones looking to peer pressure others into their bad habit. Calling me boring for not drinking/smoking isn’t going to make me pick up the habit just to interest those specific people. Misery loves company

modeunae · Answer

If a girl drinks or smokes-- she evaporates any potential interest I could've had in taking her seriously. She looks low quality doing those things, including having tattoos.

It's low-quality shit when it comes to women. A girl who doesn't do those things is superior.

Miristheiss · Answer

No.

Are you serious?

Why would not drinking make someone boring? Is their personality so non existent that they can only laugh or have a fun conversation if she has alcohol? That's a huge red flag.

Smoking? How does that make you fun? It makes you smell like smoke but where does the not smoking become "boring"?

chrissykerdock · Answer

a smoke or a drink is something to do after a blowjob if you think about it... i know there's intercourse and that's something to do afterwards... but eventually you'll just learn to give more blowjobs and have more intercourse... i used to smoke and drink both were social reasons then it got too expensive.

sawno · Answer

No, I dislike both so if she does neither thats a massive plus but if she likes an occasional drink or two that's fine with me to as long as she doesn't expect me to partake. The fun comes from what we do do, deep conversations, quality time together, enjoying our hobbies, etc.

electromagnetic · Answer

I don’t smoke cigarettes or drink and I can promise a good time with me outside the bedroom. You just need to surround yourself with quality people for quality experiences. Ones boring might be comfort for another.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'd would prefer they don't smoke at all... drinking I don't really mind it as long as they don't like to get WASTED AF...

but I actually don't relate drinking/smoking directly to how "fun or boring" someone is or it isn't

Fireguy17 · Answer

Not at all.

Smoking is a huge red flag. It makes you look stupid.

With all of the health risks, the smell, the cost, it just makes you look like you are good at making poor life choices.

An occasional drink isn't any big deal, but you can still be boring to be with.

Drinking too much isn't all that awesome either.

PeteBy · Answer

It only would become an issue for me if they told me to stop. Never been with a woman who doesn't drink, have with women who don't smoke. Never been a problem.

Better for that to be out in the open though from the start that in no way are you going to stop. Doesn't matter how pretty you are or how fantastic your body is. I ain't giving up my smokes or drink for anyone lol

They're not boring as long as they don't try to change you.

virtue2332 · Answer

I don't think drinking or smoking has anything to do with if a person is boring or not. I've met people who did not do either that we're not boring. People also shouldn't feel obligated to do anything I do or do not do. All they need to do is be respectful engaged and open minded to be considered not boring.

FreyaRed · Answer

If you don't have a histrionic personality, being boring isn't really a measure for anything. If you don't poison your body it's possible you will appear for some or another self-destructive individual boring, but their interest isn't much worth due their pathological attitude.

sage2021 · Answer

From my point of view because I have never liked alcohol and don't drink it, it was the guys that I was dating that felt like a lush in front of me, and it made them uncomfortable that I didn't drink too. So, I guess they moved on to other women that liked getting drunk with them. You know, to have the same nasty habits they did.

Tren58 · Answer

I would like to think I’m not boring. I don’t do either, and I’ll tell you… I’m the one still up for having a good time long after my friends who get tired, whiny or are total B’s when we go out and they drink. Sorry to throw my other lady friends under the bus, but it happens every time.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'll be honest... I get turned off from women that smoke, but if they don't drink that also turns me off. I like drinking socially and let loose and having a partner that likes to experience things with me and get into the same mental state as me. It's more bonding than just watching someone get drunk.

Beckybooboo · Answer

Funny, I just answered a question similar to this. I don’t drink or smoke but will go to bars and have a blast. People will actually accuse me of doing drugs. Lol

Nik1hil · Answer

Women who drink/smoke are considered boring!. They have nothing else to keep them occupied or enjoy life. They are fading like the smoke out of their lungs..

Women who drink and smoke are repulsive to me.

I would rather have a normal bookworm, geekish, average looking girl over a HOT victoria secret model who smokes and drinks..

Anonymous · Answer

If you smoke and drink I see you as a loser man OR woman. Imagine not being above to NOt be bored without those things 😨🤯? Just pathetic.
Majority of those people who can’t have fun without smoking or drinking have typical minimum wage jobs that will pretty much never grow much in life as to having better high quality lives.
stinky with bad health habits that waste the little money they make on that🤯.. just loser mentality.

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's not accurate to label someone as boring to based on whether they drink or smoke. People have diverse interests and lifestyles, and choosing not to drink or smoke doesn't determine someone's level of excitement or engagement in other activities.

HaveNoName · Answer

I remember I was in a bar with a bunch of coworkers and there was this random chick who was flirting with the group and outright told me in my face, "oh you are so boring" when I said I do not drink. It was not just the statement; it was her expression; pretty much telling me to stay out of the conversation. Not that I gave 2 fucks to her opinion.

Nifrayu · Answer

What the heck kinda questions is this? I would never even spend time with a smoker. It's too gross. I don't mind a woman woman who drinks a little, but I would still prefer she didn't at all. It's all just poison. It makes you weak in body and mind.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I don't think so. Plus, with the popularity of virgin drinks being served at bars, it makes it easier for those who choose or don't want alcohol a choice to drink something nice. I've enjoyed both alcoholic and virgin drinks myself.

Lliam · Answer

No. It's preferable if she doesn't smoke. It's a little bit boring or unsophisticated if she doesn't even drink wine once in a while, but it's fine.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Personally, I find women who smoke or drink to excess not someone I would consider a dating or relationship option. It shows addictive personality traits I would prefer not to be associated with.

ImHere22 · Answer

I think the people who can’t fathom a world beyond smoking (incredibly stupid activity to do, by the way), or drinking (literally poison in your body) are boring and limited in their capacity to function to the fullest extent of their lives.

Labokachulaa · Answer

I can't really say in my opinion whether they're boring or not because we all have different opinions. What I will say however, is that I have a friend who happens to drink and she's always getting dates with the worst guys that you could imagine.

HighValue · Answer

It makes them better than people that do do those things.  I don't drink alcohol or smoke. Smoking is gross, and I always lose respect for people that drink alcohol often, which is many people.

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

I don’t really drink and definitely don’t smoke, I think I’m a cool bean 🤭 Try to be comfortable to just be yourself and not follow social pressure. It’s okay to say “no, thank you” ❤️

jshm2 · Answer

No. As long as she'll put out, she can do crack and heroin for all it matters.  Dipshits who go for all that "drink, else you're boring!" are just amber flags you need to watch out for,

TrueConfection · Answer

If going to a bar or drinking at home is all they can do to socialize, then it is they who are boring.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I don’t drink or smoke. I have fun in my own ways.  if they need to smoke/drink to be consider fun…I think something is missing inside themselves.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

It can be, considering drinking isn't exactly unheard of for people to do. I don't do either myself and would much prefer a partner who's the same as me when it comes to that.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Not in the least.. I don't smoke and I hardly drink.. I much prefer women who don't do that as well especially since it'll make for healthier kids.. Plus there's many more things that'll make a woman exciting..

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

No apparently worldly people who aren't devoted to God if theirs no smoking or acahol people are boring. No we christians aren't boring acahold doesnot need to be included to have fun.

Bean2k24 · Answer

A slaves's ability to submit itself to my divine will should be based on their love and devotion, and the rewards that come with adhering to the established commandments and code of conduct.

Paris13 · Answer

I Was Once a Wild Flower Who Did Lots But Now, As a Gag Master/Influencer And A Published Playwright, I Am Pretty Unique, Still. lolxxoo

kmg9150 · Answer

People are boring only to those who have a difficult time understanding how unfamiliar experiences can excite others. This is what creates cliques.

Billlewis · Answer

No, I don't think so, but if she says she hasn't had sex for a really long time, that's a negative for me.

Anonymous · Answer

I have lost my respect to the society… how can not smoking/drinking is a bad thing when actually it is what supposed to be done! Nowadays, doing ‘bad’ thing is being praised rather than doing a good thing. What a world we living in

Lisia · Answer

Someone valuing their health, shouldn't be boring. You should stay away from people who think this way.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm okay if she is a social drinker/social smoker as long as she isn't into illegal street drugs. I don't mind smoking weed, just no illegal drugs that kill.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Not at all.  I personally know many women who are very bubbly and entertaining yet don't drink or smoke at all.

molonski2 · Answer

Most certainly NOT !  I much prefer women who do not drink and there is no way , Id be going out with any smoker.

Sharkstealth · Answer

Don't drink don't smoke what do you do? Good 2 goody 2 goody 2, 2 shoes.

No not to me. People who drink are super annoying to me and wow I hate cigarette smoke. Do people even smoke anymore? I certainly don't see it much now.

Likes2drive · Answer

Not at all, I prefer a woman that doesn’t have those unhealthy vices , drinking socially is fine, there are plenty of other things to do like playful activities and traveling, other hobbies and things

zagor · Answer

No. Someone being boring is unrelated to drinking, and especially to smoking. I don't know anyone who prefers being around a smoker. Most smokers now are considered low-class and not too bright.

Meropatrick · Answer

It really depends on her attitude if she is an addict then of course no. I dont want a woman who is ruled by alcohol or cig addiction.. But if she does it for fun and leisure then she is cool.

DarkWinterNights · Answer

No. As a former smoker I’d prefer a woman who doesn’t smoke. And I’m such an occasional drinker that wouldn’t bother me either.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

No, I don't drink much or smoke my friends don't think I'm boring.

Sonjita · Answer

I don't think that makes you either boring or interesting.

katiesmuff · Answer

I suppose as long as she is willing to fuck then it is ok!

Count_de_Monte_Volo · Answer

No. And even if we think it’s cool in movies and tv it doesn’t mean we would like the real-life version.

Angelo75 · Answer

I dont like a woman who smoke. A woman who drink though... it's kinda exciting what she'll do with an extra shot of alcohol in her body.

tzdc21 · Answer

Uh, no! I'm fact that's what I prefer. Who the hell said it was boring? That's what I wanna know.

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