Is it a red flag if he follows loads of girls on insta?

[Whatevs321]

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+1 y

so loads were saying are they like half naked woman and obvi i checked and no they aren't. Just normal pics but still

[Finchie40]

Just depends on what he is doing with those other girls’, Most guys in general have a tendency to check out girls’ mainly because we are drawn to a girls’ beauty first , she is pretty much eye candy because we are very visual , when it comes to seeing a beautiful girl , but just because we

Think a girl looks good on the outside , it doesn’t mean she is good on the inside, so that’s where most guys draw the line , I don’t care how good looking a girl looks on the outside of she has a shitty personality and a shitty heart, she doesn’t have good morals etc. , her looks don’t mean shit to me anymore So don’t sweat it , if he is just following a bunch of girls , especially if he is single , when a guy is single , he checks out every beautiful girl he can , he puts himself back on the market hoping to find a beautiful girl , with a heart , once he finds that beautiful girl with the heart , that treats him with love and respect , he more than likely will unfollow those girls and make his girlfriend his priority , so if you end up being his girlfriend in a committed relationship and he is still following beautiful girls and liking
Their pictures , then yes be concerned and tell him you think it’s disrespectful that he is following all these girls’ while being in a relationship with you , he more than likely will delete them if he loves and values you , if he doesn’t delete them out of respect for his relationship with you , then kick his ass to the curb where he belongs. But just remember whatever you tell him not to do , needs to go for you as well, that’s where most people make the mistake in relationships and they wonder why their relationship didn’t make it , Whenever you set boundaries with your partner in a relationship those boundaries need to be set for you as well , not you do this for me but I don’t have to do that for you , That is a double standard , Double standards turn into resentments and that’s why so many relationships fail. So if you don’t want your boyfriend checking out other girls’ that means you do not check out other guys’ or you will be a hypocrite

[CoolCatMar1]

Not all guys find everything that moves beautiful

[CoolCatMar1]

Some are picky and beauty is rare.

[HawkPerception]

@CoolCatMar1 Everything that moves? I see you're the type of girl to exaggerate.

[Finchie40]

I didn’t say all guys’ but a majority of guys do mainly the straight ones lol if a girl is beautiful to his eyes he is more than likely going to check her out up and down , and if he has the balls to approach her , he more than likely will , or he will try to make eye contact with her to let her know he is interested in her , if he is nervous , he won’t say a word and just walk away , I can’t speak for every guy when it comes to what his true intentions are and what he wants to do with her, but a majority of them want her naked in his arms , and want her to want him the same way he wants her When you hear a guy say Oh My , or Damn out loud , he thinks she is hot and pretty much wants to bang her Some guy’s are just better at controlling themselves compared to others , A guy isn’t going to check out a girl he isn’t attracted to. . As for me , her personality matters as well , if she has a shitty personality and comes off as a bitch , I don’t care how hot she looks , her shitty personality ruined it and I more than likely won’t waste my time with her and just consider her a bitch.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Depends on the girls, his motive for following each, and what they discuss back and forth, if anything.

If he's following Candace Owens for whatever reason, whatever. If he's following thots because they also have OnlyFans, then you have a problem.

[wolfcat87]

Do they post any half naked or sexy pictures? Then, yes.

Is he liking those types of pictures? Then, yes.

Is he messaging or writing anything inappropriate? Then, yes.

Is he following or searching for sexy stuff? Then, yes.

Are they exes? Then, yes.

Are they just family and the above isn't happening? Then, no.

Are they fully dressed, normal women he doesn't know, with no inappropriate interactions? Then, no.

[Lynxistp]

Don't have Instagram but I would say it depends on who the girls are and how much time he spends on them?

[curlyfirecracker]

Nope, just means he is either young or hasn't found something to keep his attention elsewhere.

[Nikki1989]

Yeah, he is probably a very immature pervert.

[Tapeworm]

Sorry, is that like a tarot card? How does one become a mature pervert?

[CoolCatMar1]

Exactly

[Joshydavid25]

Yeah, I would say it is.. Unless it's family or friends.. But I'm sure you didn't see a whole bunch of family and friends on his follows list.. LOL..

[mkkkkitan]

If he’s following girls that mainly post revealing photos , that’s a HUGE red flag.

[aceleon]

if he doesn't text them no if he does than yes.

[hbkfan]

Not really considering when I still frequently used Instagram I followed random people I never even heard of lol

[MikeyObrien]

No, but you should ask to see his dms and if he refuses or is aggressive when you ask that's a massive red flag.

[In_Trance]

Stay of his social media

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Some guys don't have social media

[WheelerOfSeeds1]

He most likely likes to window shop. Nothing wrong with that.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Yeah, guys who do that tend to have a certain reason

[KrakenAttackin]

Almost as much of a red flag if you post provocative pics on Instagram.

[Anonymous]

It's because you hurt him. You were screwing around with another guy and you don't call him or message him or text him

[Billlewis]

I think it's certainly cause for concern.

[rosemilk]

in my opinion, yes lol

[CoolCatMar1]

It is a red flag

[ChicoFromThe305]

Maybe but there's no certainty for that

[Al_Musafir]

Yep.

[Lighting35]

it is
loads of girls
it is a huge red flag

[jjj101010]

R they girls he knows?

[butterly248]

Yeah

[RedInnocent68]

No, not really.

[AndrewAzul]

If he's single, no

[HouseMoat]

Nope

[Anonymous]

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